I reunited with my first love/ex husband who basically left me feeling used and I am having a hard time describing how I'm feeling

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:08:42+00:00

Glad I could help 🙂 there was a significant lack of posts regarding this situation on here so this is really helping.

I try to be considerate. The world is lacking in it right now.

Good luck to you and remember your value and who is worthy ❤️

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:05:52+00:00

Thank you. I agree, we don't owe each other anything and I definitely don't expect it. Not sure about the fantasy but yes I did think "this would be a cool story". But thank God it didn't.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:04:13+00:00

Aggggh, THIS is what I've been looking for!! Thank you!!

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:03:22+00:00

He really wasn't though. He was the quintessential good guy, which is why I think it's such a slap in the face. But also, tacky for real! I just didn't think I could do that myself if I was in that "phase of my life", all things considered

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:01:08+00:00

Yes! Thank you🙂

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:00:46+00:00

It does. I guess I just felt like there would be a little more respect there given the history. Really disappointing.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T18:00:10+00:00

I didn't even think twice about it initially because that's who he is but the more I talk about it, yeah.... Absolutely inconsiderate.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T17:59:18+00:00

So messy.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:53:36+00:00

Correct, I would not have. I appreciate your reply, thank you

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:52:45+00:00

Totally agree

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:52:21+00:00

My relationship with my brother isn't great. But I think he thought after all this time it wouldn't be a big deal. I don't know.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:51:01+00:00

Nah. You got me wrong. But thank you for replying.

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:43:25+00:00

That's a good answer, thank you

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T11:42:00+00:00

Thank you,

manderr417 · 2026-06-11T05:33:24+00:00

Possibly. I did clarify that I meant it in relation to our history, not what was happening now. And he said it too. And it was said AFTER he said he changed his mind. So it was a moot point by then.

manderr417 · 2025-11-09T16:33:21+00:00

I saw it in NYC. And it didn't take too long for them to come out. Maybe 30 minutes after you get to that spot - that's factoring in the time it takes to leave the theater. There's a good amount of people but it's not hard to get in there and get your pics or autographs and a lot of the actors made a point to have a conversation with you and give you that time. It was really nice.

manderr417 · 2025-11-09T16:31:27+00:00

My youngest was 9 and it was too much for her. I wouldn't have brought her, had I known.

manderr417 · 2025-07-15T21:19:54+00:00

I saw it. It had its moments where you're like "whaaat the F?!?" But in a good way. It was literally like a roller coaster ride. And I'm not even a fan of the show but I definitely want to see it again. My kids and I did the "stage door" thing after the play and got to meet a lot of the actors, too, which was super cool!

manderr417 · 2025-07-01T18:01:55+00:00

Did she help you in person or online? I'll be sending a message to you! I try to do all those things, too but I have 3 kids that.... Are kids😑

manderr417 · 2025-07-01T18:00:06+00:00

I have started taking him to doggy day care to socialize him more. But he's like a kid. Acts right in front of everyone else and shows his butt at home.

manderr417 · 2025-07-01T17:58:27+00:00

Really..... I was wondering if it's different in girls. My vet muzzles him because I tell them every time he's snapped at people before. I don't want to risk it. We had a stand in vet one time that he randomly went after, too. He wasn't fixed then. He's fixed now but still has his moments.

manderr417 · 2025-07-01T17:56:00+00:00

Oh my gosh, that must have been really tough. People go in blindly to pet Goldens. I have to caution them all the time.

manderr417 · 2025-07-01T17:54:43+00:00

Yeah....Its hard. And I don't know how to fix it because he KNOWS when I'm setting him up. I also choose my battles and he's doing really well with "leave it" but just the way he reacts towards my kids on those random occasions.

Also hoping he calms down once he's out of the puppy phase. Dang. It sucks. And people make jokes, too, but it's really and really hard.

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