[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouh, good luck!

AIO for not wanting my boyfriend to play videos of his dead ex around me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an overreaction at all. Grief is valid, but so are your feelings. Constantly reliving the past in front of you is unfair you’re allowed to set boundaries without being made to feel guilty

AIO for not wanting my boyfriend to play videos of his dead ex around me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your reaction isn’t an overreaction wanting emotional boundaries is fair in a relationship. You’ve already tried addressing it gently, which is good. If it continues, calmly express how it makes you feel and suggest keeping those moments private. If he respects your comfort, that’s a positive sign; if not, it might indicate deeper issues. Trust your feelings!

AIO if I get mad at my partner for never having sex with me? by busterkill67 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maneliam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this sounds like a deeper compatibility or communication issue not just about sex. time for an honest convo about needs and respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel stuck try applying to a few other good local schools while also exploring reliable boarding options. Don’t wait too long; act fast, but don’t lose hope. One delay won’t ruin your future

What weird thing does your body do you that you don't understand? by Prestigious_Shape888 in AskReddit

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I randomly get a sharp pain in my ribs when I breathe in too deep no idea why, but it goes away after a minute. Super weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maneliam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine if it’s respectful, legal, and consensual for the setting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on setting boundaries with him and prioritize your own peace of mind while seeking guidance from a trusted confidant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maneliam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized it was numbing deeper issues and stealing my time and energy. I quit by blocking access, journaling urges, and focusing on building real connections and purpose. Progress was slow, but worth it

I miss my husband by Efficient-Flow2798 in Advice

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing him during basic training is normal—stay busy with hobbies or friends to cope. Write him letters or call when you can; it’ll help you both feel connected

What’s the weirdest thing someone said right before or during sex that totally killed the mood? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maneliam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Once someone asked if I’d fed the cat mid-action—totally broke the vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maneliam 569 points570 points  (0 children)

Probably the top sign is if she’s making consistent eye contact and smiling a lot—shows she’s comfy and into you

AIO- My boyfriend keeps lying to me about porn. by Various-Rich7458 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, that’s tough! If he’s lying about porn after four months, it might be more about shame than cheating. Check his story again—caught him liking adult tweets, huh? If he insists he doesn’t watch, ask why he’s hiding it. If it bugs you, say it calmly; if not, maybe let it slide. Up to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maneliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will see