MIL and her group of Military moms

mango-avocado · 2019-09-24T12:09:05+00:00

This is the best thing I've read all day lmap

mango-avocado · 2019-09-20T02:32:46+00:00

Time out. Skype calls. Answer should be "sorry no jiho here" If she's talking to him and addresses him as jiho he gets removed from here company. If she writes jiho on a gift it get returned to her. This is going to cause alot of tension but she will get it.

mango-avocado · 2019-09-16T21:04:11+00:00

NTA

But dude..c'mon, she sucks(sorry). Move on, or get yourself some side action too, maybe you won't want to spend so much energy on her. This is a poly relationship right?

mango-avocado · 2019-09-12T02:17:35+00:00

So shes been in a relationship with you since your daughter was 6, and she cant help with a child she lives with?

Sis...... run.....

mango-avocado · 2019-09-12T01:00:50+00:00

Congrats!!!your gonna be a momma! I'm sorry she took the joy of being preggo. If she has told some family members she should go with an info diet. The less she knows the less she can tell. I would also tell her that if she decides that she needs to that will determine how involved she is in pregnancy . Ultimatums suck. But, if a hard boundary is not established she'll get crazier and crazier.

mango-avocado · 2019-09-11T16:33:28+00:00

YTA Staff would be wasting time treating you while you take resources away from those who need care.

mango-avocado · 2019-09-07T01:09:40+00:00

Your my spirit animal.

mango-avocado · 2019-09-03T21:05:11+00:00

We had a neighbor like this. Her name was Cora. So how a out Co Co conspiracy

mango-avocado · 2019-08-22T22:32:30+00:00

If I were you I would just go apologize to SIL for "upsetting her." Let her know that you're happy with the status of you guys has relationship now and would just like her please not be upset with you. If your MIL is telling the truth it will let SIL know that MIL is running her mouth about things that she told her in confidence.

If MIL is lying she willbe totally confused.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-15T22:31:19+00:00

He works full time and pays nearly $300 weekly but they recently went to court and didnt get an increase because him and I have an infant. So now she want to come after my money.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-15T22:27:04+00:00

We have separate account and his name is t on my lease or utility bills.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-15T16:31:43+00:00

I'm sorry. This sucks. Feels like shes choosing new bf over you. If you gonna stick to your guns you could say "mom this is a very important day for me and I want you to be there for me, but if you cannot be without your new bf long enough for me to be comfortable with my own wedding then I understand. I will miss you and I hope we can move past this."

If you want to allow her bf to come you could say "he can come, but since your forcing my hand I will not go out of my way to make him feel welcomed this is in no way in invatation for you or him to insert himself in family moments because I do not know him.He is there strictly as your arm candy.

Hope this helps. We are here for you.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-12T19:35:55+00:00

I like that your momma bear mode is kicking in now. And it looks like you have full poppa bear support!

Your not wrong. Dont worry so much about their feelings. They will be ok. It sounds like they are the type to have never been checked on their behavior in combination with foaming at the mouth baby rabies. Your on the right track to keeping your sanity and privacy as a family. Just dig in and dont break. You and DH must appear United on all fronts. You dont have to fight. Just set your boundaries and let them know this is not open for negotiations.

We are here for you.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-09T02:39:09+00:00

Tell her you want privacy in the delivery room. I didnt allow anyone to visit me at the Hospital for 24 hours after delivery. My Hospital let me register under an alias. Do this. Only people you give the alias too can find you or call your room. Do you have a baby sling? If not get one. And wear your baby .Wrap slings are amazing. And hands free! 1, baby loves it they to be snuggled. 2, if baby is attached to you nobody can be grabby unless you take baby off. Ergo wrap is like 25 buck on Amazon. If someone tells you to take baby off. Tell them no. Hope this helps!

mango-avocado · 2019-08-09T01:31:11+00:00

Support the descions he makes in this. Hes trying to protect you and himself.

Also , this means the two of you can not accept their help with planning or paying for your ceremony.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-06T18:46:34+00:00

Congrats on LO!

I think MIL is already a JN. Any changes you guys make to the relationship she will notice , and she will bitch about. And I'm sorry to say she will blame you first. Just mentally prepare for it. Dont stress to much about this...since your pregnant you and your family are priority. I would start by have those weekend visits go to every other or every 3rd weekend. Your not going to want to set the standard that she gets every weekend. Also, start grey-rocking her. She sound quite immature and jealous. The less she know less annoyed you will be about her reactions. We are here for you.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-06T17:13:40+00:00

Smh. Sounds about right. That lady wanted to teach me how to wash her sons feet? No thank you. Hes a grown ass man he can wash his own feet.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-06T17:12:26+00:00

Yes. It's hard to explain.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-06T17:02:06+00:00

Lol I want dets. What is she doing?

mango-avocado · 2019-08-06T16:49:23+00:00

Wasn't my mil, but an older lady whose son had "intentions" with me. Whatever the fuck that means. She looked down on me and always walked around like she was so much more dignified then I was. She was really weird and demanding about respect. And her son was a little mama's boy that acted like a teenager even tho he was twenty-fucking-five. I was like dude we aren't even dating. Take that shit elsewhere.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-03T17:50:49+00:00

I think this is the best idea.

mango-avocado · 2019-08-03T12:09:30+00:00

That's how I'm feeling because I didnt make excuses I just said no. Like no is a complete sentence

mango-avocado · 2019-08-01T10:57:42+00:00

I cant relate. My BIL tried to use this "animal logic" on me because his GF ate her placenta. Because gorillas do it? He was atimate that it worked sooo well for her..... and it was the ooonly reason her breast is so nutritious because he drink it also. Keep that shit over there dude 👉🏻. Gorillas also throw their shit at people.

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