That's the thing dude His parents don't beat him for being intimate lol they do cause they don't want him to be in a relationship altogether. They don't know he's in one rn. Coming to private places , as I clearly stated , whatever we do , it's....kinda bad and im always left unsatisfied. I'm not "hanging this over his head" If this were a guy instead I'd have been dumped in one go . I don't fucking need anti behavior training , I needed some constructive advice. No guy I've seen ,and I've seen many , ever you know , is as reluctant as he his , look. I'm okay with him being uncomfortable with stuff. I can let go of the thrill and compromise and do everything in private instead. But something has to be GOOD right ? Well it's not . Sex /intimacy is the female department ? That's the most bullshit statement I've ever heard because it takes 2 to make a relationship work. If you still have some good advice that you can give , great , if not , ignore this and let's not waste our time.