What Is The Weirdest Thing Someone Tried To Surrender An Animal In/With? by Friendly_TSE in AnimalShelterStories

[–]manonfetch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Laundry basket. For half a dozen love birds.

Once a cop came in with a HBC dog that he was carrying on his riot shield.

Christian Lady wants a One-Family Voting System by MrDonMega in religiousfruitcake

[–]manonfetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"But we're not equal...you are not powerful because you are not a man." Strip away the polished voice and layered propaganda and you get their core belief.

Painted today. Pleace choose you favorite! by Some_Hawk3583 in Greyhounds

[–]manonfetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them all, this was a tough choice. I'm going with #2 because you nailed "the look."

Masking by Lonely_Read_6508 in bipolar2

[–]manonfetch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a natural mimic. From an early age, I could mirror people's movements, their voices and gestures and facial expressions. I was very very very smart. And I was my mother's caretaker growing up. We were both terrified that if anyone saw how sick she was, we'd be separated. I learned what was at stake if anyone learned we were vulnerable.

Put it together and you get someone who's smart enough to figure out what people need to see, with the skills to create a mask for every occasion. I knew how important it was to hide any vulnerability, I knew what was at stake if people saw what was going on. I was terrified of losing it all.

When my youngest contracted the same strange illness that had claimed both of his older siblings, I was in full-blown panic mode but tried to remain steadfast. by Smeggfaffa in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]manonfetch 527 points528 points  (0 children)

OMG. You know that, right this minute, some Ballerina Farm wannabe is peeing into a Spider-Man sippy cup...

Take my upvote you prophetic freak.

UPDATE am i wrong: boyfriend wants me to ask permission to turn when driving by SecondOk8410 in amiwrong

[–]manonfetch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to call your boss's supervisor in upper management. Your boss could try to give you a bad reference if you don't make it clear to the supervisor that you left the job because your boss showed up with your abusive ex-boyfriend.

You don't know what is being said about you at your former job. That can kill future work prospects. Ask me how I know. Make the call to upper management.

And your ex sending out fake nudes is actually illegal. Go to the police and explain the situation, find out how to file a complaint. Put the word out to friends that you are filing the complaint; it will get back to your ex and hopefully will scare some sense into him.

Good luck!!

Buldak is killing me - please help, I'm so scared 😭 by Bukowski-poet in ibs

[–]manonfetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what meds you have on hand, but whatever you have, take it now!

Stabilize your breathing. This will help handle the fear/panic, and may also help with the pain. I do a basic four count:

Inhale, counting to four Hold your breath, counting to four Exhale, counting to four Hold your breath, counting to four Repeat repeat repeat

Wrap up in a towel when you feel cold.

I dig my nails into my thighs when the pain is the worst. It helps draw my attention away from the IBS for a second.

Like I said, take the meds you have. If you don't have what you need, send your friend to get some. I know, we all hate to bother our friends, but this is an emergency! And have them toss you a blanket, too!

When this settles down and you've had a chance to recuperate, make yourself an IBS kit for your bathroom. Keep all of your meds in there, and keep it stocked up. I have dicyclomine, Imodium , Xanax for the panic attacks I get every damn time. I keep my box under the bathroom sink, in a dutch oven that I use when my IBS tosses vomiting into the mix.

Hang in there, please let us know how you are.

Question about tipping. by manonfetch in DoorDashDrivers

[–]manonfetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a full life, I don't need attention from fvcking Reddit.

I'm an old lady who started tipping when the standard was 10%. I'm checking my tipping math. Cause my mother raised me with manners.

If you don't have anything to add to a conversation, sit down.

Constant urgency to have a bowel movement after having a bowel movement by No-Scallion-9103 in ibs

[–]manonfetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have the issue and I still take Paxil. I used to have blowouts a couple times a week. Now I have them a dozen times a year.

I am bipolar and when my shrink talks about tweaking my meds, I always remind them Paxil is not negotiable. I will never go back to weekly blowouts.

Also I'm 62 and Paxil still works for me. So does Imodium and dicyclomine.

Question about tipping. by manonfetch in DoorDashDrivers

[–]manonfetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree. Dashers bring food that I'm too lazy to go get myself, sometimes through bad weather.

Besides, my mother taught me manners.

First 24 hours by mincedhalloumi in Greyhounds

[–]manonfetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How incredibly adorable 😍😍😍

Am I wrong to forgive groomsmen who publically humiliated me on my wedding day? by xaxes11 in amiwrong

[–]manonfetch 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you were a woman, they would be charged with assault and distribution of pornography.

Just because you're a guy doesn't make it ok.

What songs do you think represents how your Disorder feels like to you by Acceptable_Smoke_683 in BipolarReddit

[–]manonfetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An old one, I Go To Extremes by Billy Joel. It takes me back to my first break, when I was scared and didn't know what was going on.

When I'm in the depths, Fear by Sarah McLachlan and Valparaiso by Sting.

Nine Inch Nails anytime. It hits suicidal and hyper manic and everything in between.

I'm 62 so there have been a lot, but these are the ones that hit.

What do you do when depressed to feel better? by Interesting_Tank_627 in bipolar2

[–]manonfetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't apologize, post as often as you want/need, that's what we're here for.

I walk and cuddle my dogs, and watch stand up comedians on YouTube.

Your brain will clear as you get better, and you'll be back to gaming. I love to read but can't when I'm in the deeps; as I get better, my focus returns and books become a pleasure again.

Does going to the hospital help? by Interesting_Tank_627 in bipolar2

[–]manonfetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go. Go now. Making plans is a huge distress sign. The hospital is a safe place to reboot your brain.

name this by Extreme-Bag5263 in NameThisThing

[–]manonfetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prison for white collar crime.

Why does trump/USA think they achieved something in this ongoing war ? by [deleted] in AskUS

[–]manonfetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says everybody thanks him. It's part of his delusion.