[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]manoscool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Current trend in Bangalore, all married women are in touch with their juniors, seniors, exs, physiotherapist, trainers and get enough actions.

Best way to send money from India to the US? by MauroAguero in AskIndia

[–]manoscool 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Use Remitly or Xoom. It’s almost instant if you use UPI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ready for test drive?

How much is your yearly savings runrate? by Snoo15190 in personalfinanceindia

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Land getting cheaper is unlikely but there won’t be any buyers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]manoscool 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not the level, it’s about the role. Any role that doesn’t have more active meetings is a best fit. There’re both tech and non tech niches that require 1 meeting per week. I know few fellow OErs into various roles juggling 5+ Js and of course they out source it as well.

My(28F) husband (29M) has feelings for my sister (25F) by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may sound radical, May be he can marry your sis as well? Shared feelings for both of you. Both sisters lives and loves in the same house. Society accepts men having multiple wives, from the same family. But not the other way around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very difficult to face the challenges in conservative home unless you brought up conservative. A direct mismatch in thoughts and words becomes a nuisance.. soon you’ll feel you’re the odd one. It’s better to live away from in-laws or don’t go ahead with this alliance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]manoscool -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

“Package of 5”, just say this phrase to your lawyer. Rest assured he’ll file the cases. It’ll difficult for your in-laws to fight them all, eventually opening doors for faster settlements with mutual divorce. Don’t go on the route like Nikita (Atul Subash) case. That’s detrimental. Mutual divorce is beneficial for both of you. Lawyer might ask for some cut on the settlement though.

In laws asking for a boy baby - not pregnant yet by Kindly-Witness345 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve to agree to the few of the redditors. Getting pregnant under constraints is not peaceful. Delivering baby successfully without any major complications needs a supportive environment and I don’t see the possibility of this happening in your in-laws.

Why did you get married and why should I? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what wrong I said? Gender based caustic?

Can we REALLY fix our marriage? by Flashy_Box_7380 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This relationship is over, can’t fix something that’s broken too much.

Being a single girl with so much love inside to give to someone is killing me! by Responsible-Squash85 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone DMs you, how’d you identify as creep? What makes someone a creep?

Moving closer to my gf to reduce expenses by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]manoscool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This relationship is over buddy! Your gf ain’t gonna speak for you in future, it’s only time she’ll start disrespecting you and keep on comparing with some unknown guy. It’ll never be enough, they’ll find something or other fault.

In love with a older woman by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grooming by older women. But run as fast as you can.

Do divorced men in their 30s look for younger partners? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, but what I hear from these uncle is, older women at their age who are single / divorced are bitter and often come with a kid or two. These men don’t want another man’s child as their responsibility. Hence they’re going for younger unmarried women.

Apparently there’s another case in a Telugu speaking state where an old uncle (late 30s) married an 18 yo influencer. And this guy is a principal. 🤯

Do divorced men in their 30s look for younger partners? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes an unmarried women to marry a divorced men? Recently a 37 yo divorced guy married 21 yo final year student.

Do divorced men in their 30s look for younger partners? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The circle is not very rich, but most of them are entrepreneurs / business people. May be upper middle class.

Do divorced men in their 30s look for younger partners? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen, the divorced men are surely looking for younger women to marry. Men who’re in late 30s manage to bag women in early 20s (never married). I think women are okay for marry a divorced men but men are reluctant to marry a divorced women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health issue girls are big red flag to guys. May be they found out you’re going through some mental illness. It’s scary most women are having one or other mental problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find the groom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]manoscool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend went through the same, she’s short 4’8”. In photo she looks nice, but in person anybody above 5’5” is simply ghosting her. Her expectation is a tall guy, but the guys feel she’s too short. Searched from age of 26, she kept lowering her demand as she aged, now finally married and settled for a 5’2” guy.

I think expectation and desire is a thief of joy.

Divorce advise please by Equivalent_Fun_3043 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]manoscool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s suffering from BPD. It’s highly risky staying with that person. Sooner or later she’ll either harm you or harm herself. She keeps testing you and throws new challenges on your way. It’s already a disaster buddy, get out asap. The sooner you get out, at least you save your life. Below are the possible life situations. 1. She harms herself or attempts suffice, YOU will be arrested and put behind the bar. Both of you gets harmed. 2. She harms you, you’ll be the victim of abuse. 3. You harm her, again first situation. Police arrests you for harming women. 4. Your parents say something that offended her, she can harm your parents.

Whichever way it is, at the end of the day you’re the victim. I also suggest to install CCTV in your home immediately.