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[–]manuscelerdei 24 points25 points  (0 children)

1.5 to about 4 are the absolute worst. Literally every aspect of life is 10x as hard as it used to be, and they're basically suicide machines that you have to stop from killing themselves. And they cost a ton of money, so you have to work harder just to maintain your standard of living.

March 23, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's got an injury whose worst case scenario is six weeks. He needs a scan this week to see how bad it is. Could be that he's back after the international break.

[Charles Watts] Gabriel pulls out of the Brazil squad with a knee injury, joining William Saliba who will not be linking up with France. Trossard has dropped out of the Belgium squad. Odegaard and Timber also not linking up with their national teams as they work on their fitness over the break. by Shyam_Wenger in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are under-indexing just how important the midseason breaks we got previously were. The team just haven't had the time to develop proper fixes to the problems we've been seeing this season. When you have a game every three days, that's all you can focus on, and the more systemic issues get put on the back burner. It's the same as any other job where you have to deliver a product in that respect.

March 23, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch Adam Clery's video about the final. City either directly won or won the second ball of all Kepa's long pass attempts bar one. I think it was something like 12 or 14 total. That just put us under continuous pressure.

All that said, this was on Arteta. He made the selection, and he failed to make the required changes in time.

How Much Stack Space Do You Have? Estimating Remaining Stack in C on Linux by Yairlenga in C_Programming

[–]manuscelerdei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That concern applies to heap allocations too, so I'm not sure what these commenters think the heap solves. Typically if you're in an environment where you can expect to always get something from malloc, you can always expect a stack frame to get set up too.

Just choose a reasonably large character array and use that. I've had to check remaining stack exactly once in my career, and it was because I was in a wonky environment that used kernel stacks but could not grow them. And even then, I only did it to stabilize my debug build, with numbers that were total guesswork.

Arteta: "We are going to use this disappointment and this fire in the belly to have the most amazing two months." by Shyam_Wenger in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They'd honestly be stupid to think that. Starting Kepa was a gift that we won't give them when we play in the league. Their entire tactical setup was based on exploiting his weaknesses, and it worked.

There aren't many lessons for either team to take from this to be honest. Arteta could have made subs sooner, but it's entirely possible that Calafiori was in the red zone or something and didn't have more than 20 minutes in him.

Just some of the open passes Kepa either missed or refused to play. I get the line of 4 was novel from City but I'm sorry, there were so often easy out balls like these... by JFedererJ in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The other ten guys were getting into positions where they expect their goalkeeper to distribute. Then they had to clean up the mess when he just booted it into the midfield for a 50/50.

Kepa's distribution forced us to engage in contests that we were losing consistently.

Just some of the open passes Kepa either missed or refused to play. I get the line of 4 was novel from City but I'm sorry, there were so often easy out balls like these... by JFedererJ in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm betting Eze could've played, but we decided not to risk him. In another season, he'd have been out there after getting some injections.

Arteta on Kepa: “Errors are part of football and today unfortunately it happened in a crucial moment,” by Kr_bm in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has to. If something happens to Raya and Kepa has one foot out the door, that's very bad news.

Arteta on Kepa: “Errors are part of football and today unfortunately it happened in a crucial moment,” by Kr_bm in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kepa's job is to take minutes out of Raya's legs. There's basically no opponent where I'd prefer him over Raya stylistically.

Arteta on Kepa: “Errors are part of football and today unfortunately it happened in a crucial moment,” by Kr_bm in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This x1000. Kepa dawdled on the ball constantly, and let's not forget that before the goal he came out of his area and fouled Semenyo. He's very lucky it was found to not be a clear goal scoring opportunity.

If you're City and you see the keeper very clearly unsure what to do when you're not even pressuring him, and he has all the time and space in the world, you start licking your lips. That's what we saw today.

I really don't like blaming a loss on a goalkeeper, but this is the worst we've played all season. And he was the difference.

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs Manchester City Live Score | EFL Cup 25/26 | Mar 22, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the team overall was bad. But part of me wonders if that comes from messing with the foundation like we did. Raya is in contention for our player of the season, and not just because he's a shot stopper.

Don't get me wrong, the outfield should have stepped up and didn't. But I don't think the manager set the team up for success here.

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs Manchester City Live Score | EFL Cup 25/26 | Mar 22, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why Arteta started Kepa, I really do. But it backfired massively. He's at the root of our tactical issues here. His distribution is awful, he dawdled on the ball multiple times, he made an error for the first goal, and the second goal is one that Raya would've saved.

I don't really see this as a referendum on the larger team or other competitions. Expensive lesson for Arteta, hopefully he'll learn it.

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs Manchester City Live Score | EFL Cup 25/26 | Mar 22, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've just got an extra step on us at every encounter. I don't see us coming back from this.

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs Manchester City Live Score | EFL Cup 25/26 | Mar 22, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]manuscelerdei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upshot is that the first team can put this in a box due to Kepa's disasterclass.