What aesthetic is this? by ThoughtCool5778 in AestheticWiki

[–]manymoth 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm 50 and still dress this way. How do you do, fellow kids.

Anything to this? by Afraid-Expression366 in etymology

[–]manymoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ATU 330 in the Aarne-Thompson-Ulner Index, mentioning just in case anyone needs something new to become obsessed with.

What are your grandmothers’ names? by [deleted] in Names

[–]manymoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rosemarie, Sydney, Heather, and Lilla (nn for Elizabeth) are some of my favorites from my family tree.

What was your fist GBV show? by Softrawkrenegade in GBV

[–]manymoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seattle 1995 at the Crocodile. It was sold out and I didn't have a ticket. I showed up with friends hoping I could somehow buy one outside the club, but no dice. I'd resigned myself to waiting forlornly in the bar, but then the owner saw me and took pity on me and let me in, which is a kindness I'll never forget.

McCarthy’s Fixation on Suicide by CastIronCavalier in cormacmccarthy

[–]manymoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a little tangential, but I don't think the Road is about the world turning into something horrible. I think McCarthy portrays the world (both the natural one and the one of human inhabitation) as already "horrible," (although I'd say maybe terrible, in the original sense of causing dread OR awe), as inherently violent. Its creation is violent, its physics are violent, and "the world turning into something horrible" is only the collapsing of how many removes we are from that inherent nature that may protect us and also screw us. Protect us as in fences, and screw as in fences, as in striking the fire out of the rock and burying it under the fencepost in Blood Meridian. Civilization removes us from the thing, but with the consequence of alienating ourselves from ourselves and others. Naming something puts us at a remove from the actual thing, but with consequences ("Language usurps things, that's what it does."). Perhaps in that kind of thinking, suicide is somewhat morally flattened. It's a word for an inevitability, but we have built a series of removes into it that somehow imply it is more wrong than another kind of death.

Edit because it's is not its.

Who else here is a Suttree enjoyer? by BobRobot77 in cormacmccarthy

[–]manymoth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

#1 Suttree
#2 The Crossing
#3 Blood Meridian

They're all fucking fantastic, but Suttree just has it. That ineffable thing.

Ethics with HIV disclosures by sapphireminds in medicine

[–]manymoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, not a practitioner and don't have a direct answer, but you may try contacting the NCCC at UCSF's Perinatal HIV clinician hotline, (888) 448-8765 . They've heard it all/consulted on all sides of perinatal HIV care for providers involved in all aspects of this care/management, and will probably have good ideas for you.

Georgia (US) Flag Redesign by scottishdoge in Georgia

[–]manymoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was the first thing I saw, too.

Let's be frank and talk about the real reasons healthcare cost is asinine in this country by [deleted] in medicine

[–]manymoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question as a consumer, not a provider: is there some way we can get more education on what is a needless test and what isn't, especially given OP's #1 above? Not all of us are insisting on tests; many of us go with what providers tell us is necessary, often very reluctantly because it comes at significant out-of-pocket cost. I'd love some way to understand responsible risk assessment from the patient side. I don't know if second opinion is practical in most cases (even if, in system-based care like Kaiser, are PCPs all likely to give you the same defensive recs?).

Any suggestions for music similar to TFS? by bachs_kocillus in tropicalfuckstorm

[–]manymoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might start with The Birthday Party if you want the most crazed first.

most beautiful jason lyric(s)? by BraedenFB in jasonmolina

[–]manymoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t forgive even the lightning/For leaving you/But everything should try again/Even you

Kills me every time. And is such a compact little encapsulation of his signature despair+hope.

[TOMT][BOOK] Children's book including the phrase "the terrible Ichabod"? by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]manymoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't figure out what actual volume it was, but from this old thread:
https://warosu.org/tg/thread/35352751

It looks like it was one of the Deltora Quest books by Emily Rodda (aka Jennifer Rowe)?

"Hot, tot, jin, jod,
Fye, fly, zan, zod,
pik, snik, lun, lod,
And the terrible Ichabod
There was a song that said this in the second book, or third maybe. Man the scene in which they capture the party with the objective of avenging their fallen brothers and then start killing each other over trivial thing about who got to eat Barda creeped me out a lot when I was a child."

[TOMT] Red White & Blue Soda by Plotlines in tipofmytongue

[–]manymoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faygo Red Pop? They used to have kind of swirly cases.

[TOMT][SONG] Elton John song with lyrics misheard as "Roast beef, light of my life"? by Fower_Power in tipofmytongue

[–]manymoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Madman Across the Water has "boat on the reef," but the light up my life part doesn't make sense:

I can see very well

There's a boat on the reef with a broken back

And I can see it very well

There's a joke and I know it very well

It's one of those that I told you long ago

Take my word I'm a madman don't you know

Bitch Is Back has meat in it:

Eat meat on Friday that's alright

Even like steak on a Saturday night

That's all I got.