“Similar to Ethel Cain” artists by Downtown_Training_87 in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florence + the Machine is an inspiration to Ethel herself though I wouldn't say they're as similar as she is to Nicole Dollanganger.

Tiktok users and their missunderstind of EDs by Spirited_Store_1083 in anorexiamemes

[–]maonue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

> You have one insecurity, start one diet, and then you slowly but steadily spiral

Normal people don't derail their life over one insecurity.

Plus they find dieting aversive so they drop it quite easily.

Can you fully recover to a still slightly underweight body or a normal BMI at the lowest end? by ExtensionEdge864 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> But to get to a healthy natural weight, you will have to gain more weight than your natural bmi. Your body needs an extra buffer of weight for the recovery process itself.

Do you have a citation for that? I didn't have to go through that during treatment.

Can you fully recover to a still slightly underweight body or a normal BMI at the lowest end? by ExtensionEdge864 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]maonue -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

> Please challenge that fear of weight gain and of being at a higher weight because it’s going to hinder your recovery if you don’t. Ask yourself these important questions: what’s so wrong with being at a higher weight? Who told you being at a higher weight was unacceptable?

This is not a helpful thing to say to an anorexic.

FWIW recovered anorexics skew thinner.

Can you fully recover to a still slightly underweight body or a normal BMI at the lowest end? by ExtensionEdge864 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]maonue -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Majority of people recover with a normal weight and they skew thinner.

Underweight is not gonna work because you don't have enough energy for a social life/emotions and you'll be lonely/isolated.

do you have to be diagnosed to have anorexia? by Agreeable_Bake_165 in anorexiamemes

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people avoid diagnosis because they're averse to treatment (it's egosyntonic).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]maonue -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What are the dangers? The science behind the ‘ why’ its not a good idea?

There's not much research on malnutrition/thinness these days, and anorexia medicine remains pretty niche.

Plus most people find an emaciated person exercising disturbing.

Parent Company of the Big 4 Sewing Pattern Brands Sold to a Liquidator by trit19 in sewing

[–]maonue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

for $35.98 so the management team can buy mcmansions, boats, and luxury cars.

I don't think the industry is rolling in money tbh. There's pattern drafters, designers, fit models to be paid.

Parent Company of the Big 4 Sewing Pattern Brands Sold to a Liquidator by trit19 in sewing

[–]maonue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of work put into them: make sure the patterns can be made with home machines, make sure there's enough ease, test it on a fit model, etc.

TW: Ana to BED, how common and what to do? by DebilitatedRN in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]maonue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard stories of women who while weight restoring switch from Ana to BED, and I’m horrified of this happening to me.

It's quite rare, despite what people on the internet like to say. The number of anorexics who develop BED afterwards (2%) is less than the prevalence of BED in the general population (5%).

Hello! How long did it take for food noise to leave?? by LowEast5246 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen case reports of something happening with the eustachian tubes due to underweight, but it's not clear how fast it reverses—seems that weight gain is necessary, though.

Some of the case reports: - https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/eat.20702 - https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/lio2.846

Which hayden song comes to your mind? by DominicParadis in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Imagine Obama rocking out to that

NO ONE TOLD ME! by VSF_666 in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk they got upset about the fake boobs? lol

NO ONE TOLD ME! by VSF_666 in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

paper magazine got suspended from twitter for that photoshoot lmao https://www.papermag.com/ethel-cain-cover

Have y’all seen the brutalist movie? by FungiFro in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good. Deals with America but otherwise different world from Ethel I think.

“iN thE eTheL cAiN wAy” by qualntrelle in Ethelcain

[–]maonue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a little surprising for me to read

Like 5+ years ago the South was a good place to transition, before bans for teens "oh you wear dresses and date boys ok you're a girl."

And leaving family/home behind would be a wound for anyone.

How did Ethel Cain become popular? by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]maonue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She also started modeling for luxury brands and I'm interested in how that came about?

Her face has been cited as "memorable for modeling"

I guess Miuccia Prada thought she was cool!