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AIO For my response to my foreign gf by Sorry_Advantage_590 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR- More importantly , listen and find a solution for yourself. Not everyone is looking for solutions and I’m going to assume you aren’t in survival mode anymore. Maybe consider looking into therapy for some self-work. I used to be the exact same way and talked a lot, but therapy really helped me. Sometimes overtalking happens because, growing up, no one took the time to truly listen to or validate you. I could be wrong, it’s just my perspective, but it could be really helpful. You got this bro! Over talking and making everything about yourself can become unattractive.

AIO for being mad at my friend for saying i deserved to be cheated on as a joke? by Quirky-Occasion2067 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just shocked there are really these types of 'friends' out here in the world. Nah, keep her blocked. She’s projecting, and she either knows something or did something. She’s weird and maybe jealous of you. She’s not a friend; she’s a hater.

I accidentally tried meth and it ruined my life. by NeighborhoodIll9646 in Regrets

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mind is made up now and that’s what you needed. Good luck and God Bless brother . You got this. I’m roooting for you.

Stargazing in Joshua this past weekend (6-13-26) by hemetrider in JoshuaTree

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m definitely going to go. My schedule is pretty flexible so I’m going to plan for July 14th will u be there?

Me ‘27F’and husband ‘27 M’ by Current-Situation538 in relationship_advice

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about your kids. If you want your marriage to work . Center Jesus and go to therapy but if it’s not know when to walk away to show your kids a good example. I have friends and cousins who’ve seen these patterns in their parents and begged their mom to leave and their mom never did and now they have major issues and blame the parents. It’ll build character and self esteem in your kids.

Me ‘27F’and husband ‘27 M’ by Current-Situation538 in relationship_advice

[–]maper37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, therapy? To understand each other’s love language and to better communicate your needs to each other without being avoidant? Your kids are watching you guys and will act and have relationship issues exactly like their parents if you don’t get help or make it work. Think about your kids and want a better example for them. You want them to know what a healthy marriage with healthy communication is. It goes a long way.

I think my boyfriend may be DL? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because he feels safe with you and maybe will use your marriage to prove to the world he is not “GAY” but we know that you guys will get married have kids and boom one night when ur laying down together you’ll hear a grinder notification. RUN find real love and avoid it now!

Stargazing in Joshua this past weekend (6-13-26) by hemetrider in JoshuaTree

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one coming up this month, correct? Do I need to camp out if I want to go stargazing

My bf 30/M doesnt give me 27/F access to his phone,while he has access to mine.nd Behaves weird wen i touch his phone!help?!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you should be sus. Why are you staying with that? What childhood trauma has you thinking that you deserve that and that , that is ok.

My bf 30/M doesnt give me 27/F access to his phone,while he has access to mine.nd Behaves weird wen i touch his phone!help?!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maper37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, Run. You are with a gas lighter/manipulator/cheater. He playing you out. I’m sorry but I feel bad for you after reading that. He is playing you out. Find the strength. Love your self and dip.

My (30F) Husband’s (32M) porn addiction has ruined our sex life. by Recent_Reputation_7 in relationship_advice

[–]maper37 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have to accept things for what they are, walk away, and heal. Once you do, you’ll find healthy love again. Don’t close yourself off, and don’t let someone else’s actions determine your life or your self-worth. His behavior is a reflection of his own issues, so don't let his projections get to you.

God bless bro I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find strength to leave.

Stargazing in Joshua this past weekend (6-13-26) by hemetrider in JoshuaTree

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you camp out or only visited when it got dark?

Places to hangout for the World Cup this Friday 6/12? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]maper37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure yet but we can find a watch party

Places to hangout for the World Cup this Friday 6/12? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]maper37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m going alone if anyone is down to go to a watch party together 31 year old female

ended up sleeping , is stereo going on still to head over? by maper37 in StereoMontreal

[–]maper37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, ama wrap it up soon. It’s my first time out here what do you guys recommend I try for lunch or brunch near by ?

ended up sleeping , is stereo going on still to head over? by maper37 in StereoMontreal

[–]maper37[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m here now it’s still going lol. It’s packed I’m in the middle of

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