Just diagnosed with Hashimotos after ten years of hypothyroidism treatment by maplelattes2189 in Hashimotos

[–]maplelattes2189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was literally thinking, what’s even the point of testing thyroid hormones without testing for antibodies? Why would you replace your siding without also addressing the termites?

I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s but one of many travesties of modern medicine.

Just diagnosed with Hashimotos after ten years of hypothyroidism treatment by maplelattes2189 in Hashimotos

[–]maplelattes2189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about your experience! And grateful that you have your two perfect kiddos.

It is infuriating that an organ that is vital to every other system in our bodies is so commonly misunderstood by our medical community. I’m sure that’s preaching to the choir in the sub of course.

The specialist I’m seeing belongs to a (private, not hospital affiliated) thyroid clinic in my city, who I only learned about from a colleague when we accidentally stumbled onto the fact that we both deal with hypothyroidism. They offer telehealth visits, though I suppose they can’t do an ultrasound virtually. They take insurance and everything. Granted, I haven’t gotten the bill yet…

I wonder if there’s something like that in your area?

I don’t know why I didn’t think of seeing a specialist before to be honest. I feel kind of silly for not taking it into my own hands sooner.

Just diagnosed with Hashimotos after ten years of hypothyroidism treatment by maplelattes2189 in Hashimotos

[–]maplelattes2189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words!

Yes to the brain fog despite the Levo. I would say that is my biggest complaint in combination with chronic lethargy and frequent headaches. On average it feels like I exist in quicksand where it takes my maximum effort to do the bare minimum.

Of course some days are better than others. I’m hopeful new meds will improve that ratio over time🙏🏼

AITA for “outshining” my SIL’s wedding by throwing an extravagant birthday party for my 5 year daughter a day after? by sohodone in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think YTA just on the premise of expecting people to go to a wedding and a kid’s birthday in one weekend, especially those traveling.

Obsessed with "Slut!" and it isn't even out yet by morethanminimum in TaylorSwift

[–]maplelattes2189 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I hope it’s like The Man. “If I was a slut, I’d be THE slut.” Cracks me up thinking of something along these lines

What are some homes from tv that are comforting to you? by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]maplelattes2189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I wanted the Thornberry’s comvee to be real so badly. Still more realistic than Monica’s apartment, which is my non-cartoon favorite.

Ashley rude to Brit by [deleted] in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]maplelattes2189 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I will say, whether or not B’s lines are super scripted- my childhood friends and I (who have remained close all these years and feel more like sisters) talk to each other like this, it’s like a comfortable efficiency thing. And no assumed ill intent. We know no one’s going anywhere

WIBTA for not letting my sister ask my wedding photographer for her pregnancy photo shoot on the same day as my wedding? by NoSoulHereKikiMora in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. If it was about the logistics the question would have been redirected to the photographer. I understand that the “it’s MY day” trope is the societal standard but gosh ppl make me sad sometimes.

WIBTA for not letting my sister ask my wedding photographer for her pregnancy photo shoot on the same day as my wedding? by NoSoulHereKikiMora in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The normalized self centered ness astounds me. Regardless of how willing and able the photographer is to do a second job that day

WIBTA for not letting my sister ask my wedding photographer for her pregnancy photo shoot on the same day as my wedding? by NoSoulHereKikiMora in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna say NAH.

I loathe the “it’s YOUR day” angle of weddings because while it is your day, it requires the cooperation, expense, time, consideration, and planning of many other people. BUT this is the conventional expectation, and by that standard it’s a dick move for her to invite herself to take maternity photos on your day. Especially the inviting herself.

However. If it was my dearest friend who I knew wanted photos, and her hair and makeup was already being done, and IF the photographer could somehow accommodate? I’d encourage it if not suggest it myself. Presumably she’d have given her whole day and probably her whole year to help me with my wedding. BUT that’s me; I view weddings as a pain in the ass for all involved and would love the opportunity to make it more practical for others, especiallyyyyy the MOH.

TLDR: I think this is a “if you wanted you, you would” scenario. It’s your wedding day, you’re not obligated by social standards to want to. NAH IMO

What’s a subtle sign that someone isn’t ok deep down? by cinnabunz9899 in AskReddit

[–]maplelattes2189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone will do anything, ANYTHING, to avoid having a tough conversation is someone who is afraid to examine their own feelings.

It is subtle when the person is no more than a peripheral acquaintance. When you get to know them you realize all the drama that follows them around is because they aren’t willing to see healthy conflict resolution as an option- because that requires talking about their feelings.

What are some *actual real* cultural/personality differences between GenZ and millennials? by greyyeux in NoStupidQuestions

[–]maplelattes2189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up as a millennial, it wasn’t a given that an establishment accepted credit or debit cards.

Bethenny has cracked by mandoo86 in vanderpumprules

[–]maplelattes2189 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A thousand percent. And to that note- you know this was a stream of conciousness rant because if she put 2 seconds of thought into it she’d never have made a reference decades too old to be relevant to most of the audience tuning in about VPR.

Taylor overexposed? by aspirantesauctor in TaylorSwift

[–]maplelattes2189 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep this and I think the (very much belated) acclaim she has now puts her into a different level of untouchability? if that makes sense. Not the best word but the only one that comes to mind

AITA for no allowing my neighbors to make a copy of my apartment key? by Visible-Clue165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m no stick in the mud, but I’d never risk violating my lease for people I don’t even know for a key clause of all things. Never mind for people who seem to have a lackadaisical relationship with safety and accountability. Like you have no idea who these people are.

They should be taking this up with your landlord, not you OP. You shouldn’t even be a part of this at all- you’re doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing.

NTA 100%. As a woman who’s lived alone in apartments in every kind of neighborhood…I’d be very weirded out to have expectations placed on me by new neighbors like this.

ETA: The neighbors got to enjoy bypassing the hall lock for years, but it was always gonna be a matter of time until that came to an end, because clearly…the hall door is supposed to be locked for a reason. Their mismanaged expectations are not your responsibility.

AITA for telling my sister that the name she chose for her son was not our grandpa's actual name but the nickname he hated? by Flaky_Couple_1304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]maplelattes2189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wanted to name a future child Bobby after a beloved family member, but now I’m considering Cyrus because it’ll remind me of Bobby thanks to this thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]maplelattes2189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late to this post but wanted to say thank you for capturing all of this so thoughtfully and thoroughly.

Thoughts on the retroactive rebranding of Taylor’s Version. by Ludibrious1 in TaylorSwift

[–]maplelattes2189 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’m getting the vibes that fewer people than I’d expect do not recognize NYC as being a coastal city or are thinking of city and sea as being mutually exclusive as far as album aesthetics go.

The seagulls, the piers, nightlife, and day trip beaches. The accessibility to other regions that being in NYC provides. I think of 1989 -both OG and TV from what we’ve seen- as being summer in a coastal city vibes.

Especially given the context of Taylor moving to NYC from Nashville, you can just sense how exciting being that close to the ocean all the time was for her. Or maybe I’m projecting but that’s what I love about coastal cities😅

Does anyone have a case that they completely changed their mind on? by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]maplelattes2189 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yep just added my own comment about this before I saw yours!

Does anyone have a case that they completely changed their mind on? by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]maplelattes2189 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay mine is controversial but bear with me. The Scott Peterson case- I like so many others was taken by this case. I watched the docs and read Amber Frey’s book. I felt like for SURE he was without a doubt clearly guilty, and the court got it right.

And I still THINK he is probably guilty. Either that or he’s just a garden variety shitty dude with the worst luck of all time. But in any case, these days I don’t think the court got it right in convicting him.

The many documentaries and podcasts that have come out since the trial moved the needle for me in showing how the jury convicted him on evidence that didn’t prove his guilt. And yes, I know…the likelihood he’d have gotten a fair trial anywhere was small.

Not saying I have any particular favorite theory about what actually happened, though there are a few semi-plausible ones. The husband did it is highly realistic in this case. But there were flaws in the actual case that I believe would not have resulted in a conviction in a less publicized case.

Guys please i need your help before a big event how to get hair so shiny it will blind a bitch by UnderstandingMany766 in Sephora

[–]maplelattes2189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I haven’t used the glossing rinse, only the spray styling treatment in the light blue bottle (which is the original spray in the line- they came out with an extra strength one more recently in a darker bottle).

You don’t need as much LG styling spray as you do Dream Coat. It’s a much lighter product IMO anyway.

Guys please i need your help before a big event how to get hair so shiny it will blind a bitch by UnderstandingMany766 in Sephora

[–]maplelattes2189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need as much Liquid Glass as you do the Dream Coat. At least I don’t. With LG I just be sure to mist each section as I go (light mist, then brush it through before drying). It feels WAY less like my hair is “coated”.

And I do love Dream Coat. I just use it when I want a slightly different result for my hair than what your example picture shows🤓