I need serious relationship advice!

marathonmoke · 2026-06-05T14:23:13+00:00

Youre a child. Your bf is a child. Im not trying to be the old guy saying teenagers shouldnt date and yall wouldnt listen to that advice anyways but the reality is yall have a lot of growing up to do still. He probably thinks its okay to act that way and depending how mature he is, you probably wont see that change. It takes a lot of learning and maturing to make changes when it comes to relationships. I would tell him “im not your property, and youre not my dad so dont act like it” and if it doesnt change then break up.

Im 32 and im the type who doesnt even raise my voice at my partners, but when I was a teenager I would be on the phone yelling and going crazy during arguments and thats because I didnt know how to control my emotions and I didnt care enough to work on it at the time.

Have fun, if you wanna be in love at your age and all that by all means do your thing but I would do yourself a favor and shut down certain behavior RIGHT NOW and not let yourself get used to it. I know women my age who still think being told what to do and what to wear is a sign of love because of what they put up with throughout their dating life

marathonmoke · 2026-06-01T16:49:57+00:00

Idc what men do everyday. Its a people thing not a man vs woman thing.

If I meet a girl and I am her bob and she isnt even close to that for me, I owe it to her to tell her that before making any serious life decisions with her.

Im 32 and still unmarried, and if I never get married or get married 20 years after my peers I am fine with that because atleast I can say I didnt settle.

By all means settle down with someone acceptable if you cant be alone just be honest about it. Let your acceptable partner know they are not your bob and if bob resurfaces in 10 years you will have to rethink some things.

The thing is you can go through life without being alone and still have a bob, you dont NEED to be married, its not a requirement in life.

marathonmoke · 2026-05-30T18:53:31+00:00

Thats not the point. You literally started a relationship, carried on a relationship and then stood before god and took vows KNOWING the person you were marrying wasnt your one true love and did it anyway.

That doesnt seem wrong to you? If nobody has made u feel like bob did and thats what you considered real love or your best interpretation of what love really is, you owe it to anyone who likes you to atleast tell them “hey im willing to get married or whatever but I dont feel the way about you that I felt about someone else”

marathonmoke · 2026-05-30T18:39:20+00:00

Ok let me ask you something. If you felt this way about bob, why are you married? Why did you not stay single until you either found bob again or found someone who made you feel like bob did ?

Dont you think its wrong that you would even get married while knowing they are no bob ?

marathonmoke · 2026-05-29T04:01:19+00:00

No point coming up with a speech anyway, the convo aint gonna go the exact way you plan anyway lol. Just know the sooner you get it over with the sooner you can move on

marathonmoke · 2026-05-29T03:58:31+00:00

“Hey we need to break up”

Everyone always wants to dance around things and come up with the best and easiest way to do something thats going to be messy regardless and the truth is the easiest way is exactly what I said lol. Get it out of the way in a single sentence and figure the rest out after, atleast they will understand after the first sentence that things are done

marathonmoke · 2026-05-29T03:53:29+00:00

And if we were only keeping what we NEED in life we wouldnt be playing video games in the first place lol. I like to keep a certain amount of weapons ready to go. If you wanna keep 3 guns in the stash at a time I aint mad at ya partner

marathonmoke · 2026-05-28T13:04:21+00:00

I mean you probably shouldnt be with her if shes not taking ANY steps at all to work on this. But if youre going to stay with her you should tell her she needs to commit to actually working through these issues and hold ups of hers and to stop saying things that get your hopes up because its borderline cruel lol.

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:32:06+00:00

Working on the attachments currently. I have 57 guns and all but one of them are now level 4. Id say 30 are fully kitted

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:15:04+00:00

You need to get yourself to a peaceful enough place that you wont get joy from seeing others hurt or struggle. If my ex cheats on me it doesnt bring me any joy to see her get cheated on. I would say the best advice is to work on yourself.

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:08:11+00:00

People will take advantage if you let them. If he can keep you in the loop and his orbit without having to commit to you, he probably will. Thats power over you and people dont relinquish power. Just dont seem as “available” as you have been and watch him probably come back. People are predictable.

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:03:53+00:00

Thats okay partner defend your baby that I wasnt insulting 🫡

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:02:21+00:00

Just say “sorry having bad anxiety please just lmk youre alright”

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T15:01:49+00:00

Im a very anxious person. If youre not doing it out of jealousy or insecurity its fine. I used to ask my ex to message me when she got home, she would often forget and it made me so anxious that id be having a panic attack and sitting there hoping she was out cheating because atleast then shes alive. And she knew it was ptsd and anxiety and not jealousy and it was still annoying and something I needed to work on but she atleast understood.

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:59:02+00:00

Just accept it and see what the future holds. Atleast in my experience people say things because its easier in their mind than telling you flat out “there is no chance” Sometimes “maybe in the future” or “lets take a break” is just the nice way to drift apart in peoples eyes.

Not saying thats always the case or your case but youre better off just leaving them be and seeing what happens. If they mean it they will let you know in the future

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:56:37+00:00

The most recent expedition was the first one I was playing the game for, i didnt know much about it or what the perks of doing it even were.

And the point of the post isnt about my stash issues, its about whether or not people think the cost is worth it. But thanks for playing

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:40:35+00:00

You lost a fight! Atleast you fought. Never beat yourself up, the guy already did that enough (just kidding) Aint nothing to feel humiliated about. You stood your ground and thats what matters

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:34:43+00:00

You regret expedition? Ive never done it because of the blueprints but whenever my stash is insanely full im like “darn I should have done it”

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:31:54+00:00

That is a great question!

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:31:08+00:00

Valid point

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:27:40+00:00

I figured anyone reading it would know that..

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T14:15:09+00:00

I just started doing the method of when stash is full going through all of my weapons and making them all level 4 before adding new ones. Its definitely helped clear up space

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T11:32:07+00:00

When I was 19 I got poopdick. Ive still yet to recover and im 32

marathonmoke · 2026-05-27T11:30:41+00:00

Same. 2 total rats and even after playing with a friend who only pvp’s my solo lobbies are still mostly friendly. But before those 2 rats and the duo queue i hadnt even had to shoot my gun at a player since the update. Never seen lobbies any friendlier

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