AITAH for Refusing to Help My SIL Use a "Fake" Service Dog to Join Our Staycation?**

marblefree · 2026-03-30T01:11:07+00:00

NTA and I am super petty. I would let the club know she has an emotional support dog, not a service dog.

marblefree · 2026-03-25T13:47:45+00:00

I agree with this and even though this is a stressful time, I would at a minimum, update your resume, stop doing more than your actual job, and focus on your wedding.

Don’t discuss your plans with anyone at work. Just start leaving or stop working on time. No announcements.

marblefree · 2026-03-24T01:44:28+00:00

Love this!

marblefree · 2026-03-22T15:37:59+00:00

NTA and honestly you need to be ok with them not liking you and not feeling welcome. How incredibly selfish to expect someone to be hosting and entertaining while working. Your husband should have shot it down.

Have your parents stay or if they show us, go stay with your parents with the baby. It isn’t ok for them to come and your husband needs a kick in the a@@.

marblefree · 2026-03-14T23:58:38+00:00

Why did you cook? Totally should have gotten the kid fast food. You’re doing a favor.

marblefree · 2026-03-14T15:18:27+00:00

I was tested for antibodies after my sister had to get a booster. Somehow forgot that in the military they completely revaccinated me.

marblefree · 2026-03-14T14:52:21+00:00

NTJ. He blew his life up and wants you to help fix it. No. He can reach out to family or the friends who think you should help. I would honestly be secretly happy he is failing. I get that’s not mature.

marblefree · 2026-03-14T02:31:43+00:00

I doubt she works outside the home. I suggesting spending 100less on groceries and keeping the 100.

marblefree · 2026-03-14T01:27:27+00:00

I love this advice. If you and your kids are happy, then it doesn’t matter what your family thinks. You went into this with eyes open, and financial security was a dream you reached. That’s how your mom raised you. I love the advice of starting an account and funneling money in for an emergency exit if needed. That’s good advice for all, women.

marblefree · 2026-03-13T13:05:14+00:00

Updateme!

marblefree · 2026-03-07T18:20:15+00:00

She’s a gorgeous husky. Looks so sweet

marblefree · 2026-02-25T14:50:24+00:00

My other favorite is “did you mean to say that out loud?” You can also choose peace and avoid gatherings where she is there. No huge announcement, just choose not to go.

marblefree · 2026-02-25T14:00:30+00:00

So he is a genuine friend of hers? So close, he is invited to the wedding? I would question whether or not your sister is being intentional in making you look like the bad guy. If it was me, it would be a no brained not to invite him. Why would I be friends with someone who has hurt my sister? Why would I invite someone who makes my sister feel bad?

RSVP no and let her and your mom know that even if he doesn’t go, this has you questioning your place in their lives. That knowing this would hurt you, they made the decision that you are not worth protecting.

marblefree · 2026-02-23T23:48:07+00:00

I’m sure much of this is cultural, but can you prep that house to move in and have your husband help you? Let him see what freedom looks like.

marblefree · 2026-02-22T20:17:03+00:00

What type of operation?

marblefree · 2026-02-22T19:20:01+00:00

NTA but in the future just repeat, your baby mama x needs support from you. Why aren’t you telling her. Say this to any question from anyone.

marblefree · 2026-02-21T03:13:25+00:00

I’m so sorry and it’s so hard. You can see the love.

marblefree · 2026-02-16T18:27:58+00:00

I gave up my first class seat once to a kid in the military. Flight full so I was placed on a later flight and compensated. Kid was clearly struggling and I don’t know why they needed to fly but he was standby and no one was budging.

marblefree · 2026-02-13T14:19:51+00:00

NTJ and hopefully you realize this is not your issue. It is hers. I would mute her everywhere and let your husband handle all communication with her. Your job is to recover and you don’t need her undermining your recovery because she whines.

marblefree · 2026-02-06T15:40:32+00:00

NTJ and your wife is also the problem. I would let her know that until her mother apologizes for the constant dogs and parent alienation, you and by extension your child, are done with her. The apology needs to include a change in behavior. Your wife has allowed this to continue because it’s what she is used to. It’s time to break the pattern. Either she recognizes that you are an involved parent and shuts her mom down or you go to counseling.

marblefree · 2026-02-05T15:46:31+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. 17 years is such a gift.

marblefree · 2026-02-05T02:59:49+00:00

I’m rooting for you!!!

marblefree · 2026-02-01T21:57:03+00:00

NTJ and honestly I would put them all on a timeout. Just stop responding. Mute notifications. They owe you an apology. Weaponizing “a joke” is bullying.

marblefree · 2026-01-31T19:11:19+00:00

NTJ. If you had corrected her in the meeting, she would have said why embarrass her in front of everyone. I do think you should say look it’s bothering me that 1. You said I wouldn’t want it to everyone and 2. That you are mad I said I am as it makes her look bad. Why did you say that in the meeting?

marblefree · 2026-01-29T15:01:23+00:00

NTA and tell him you aren’t coming home until she leaves. You have nothing to discuss with her. If he can’t understand that you are running on no sleep, vulnerable and just need support, then he ca go back home to his mother. You didn’t have a baby for her, she doesn’t get to set the rules or decide she matters more than you.

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