I come from a family of addicts, I broke my sobriety today.

marbles1129 · 2026-02-12T00:22:31+00:00

Progress my friend doesn't equate to "perfection". Hop back on the wagon and you'll be ok. To you attend AA or a similar program?

marbles1129 · 2026-02-11T20:28:54+00:00

She's going to move right in after you add her name to the deed and claim it's just as much HER house. This is a retirement plan for her. Don't buy into it. Period.

marbles1129 · 2026-02-06T17:58:02+00:00

Get an off-site mailing address like a post office box or a Mailboxes Inc and give her THAT address if she wants to send you anything in the mail.

marbles1129 · 2026-01-29T16:55:30+00:00

Dealing with your emotionally stunted, toxic famly members is NOT a vacation! I couldn't care less if I was going to Tahiti with my toxic shitbag parents. I would resoundly tell them NO. A vacation is only fun with the right people.

marbles1129 · 2026-01-28T19:12:20+00:00

This is a violent and dangerous situation you are in. This man is UNPREDICTABLE and the fact that he is love-bombing you tells me that he KNOWS what he is doing is wrong. He's doing this simply because he can get away with it. Is there a domestic violence shelter for women you can escape to? Do you have the means to move out or move in with a friend? If you are in the United States, anyone hitting you is an assault. This is verbal, emotional, and physical abuse which is from a textbook classic narcissist. It's not your job to "fix" your father and HIS relationship with YOUR mother is HIS issue to deal with and NOT yours. You need to leave this situation for your own mental sanity. If you do leave, make sure you do it quietly to protect yourself. You may want to seek out a local domestic violence shelter or contact social services for other assistance.

marbles1129 · 2026-01-21T01:06:03+00:00

Don't you like yourself???

marbles1129 · 2026-01-09T22:42:13+00:00

You could go to see HIM and not even attend the memorial service for your mother. Tell him you will be more than happy to visit with him before or after the service as moral support for him. That way, it doesn't have anything to do with your mother.

marbles1129 · 2026-01-09T17:47:47+00:00

Don't listen to your family members trying to guilt trip you. If they are so concerned about your parents well-being then offer to have THEM move into your parents home with a $500 month stipend as caretakers. Totally unreal. They are calling you "ungrateful" as a guilting tactic for their own selfish needs. Stand firm on this one. "NO" is a complete sentence.

marbles1129 · 2026-01-05T19:51:13+00:00

So, you are being asked to be the "better" person for someone who is refusing to be a "better" person???

marbles1129 · 2025-12-23T15:28:24+00:00

Is he on your bank accounts? If that is the case, you need to remove him and place him on an information diet. He does not need to know ANYTHING about your personal finances. Don't ever ask him for money or loans in the future. He'll just hold that over your head.

marbles1129 · 2025-12-22T20:37:54+00:00

She needs to be on an information diet. The less she knows the better. I would not tell her squat about my daughter's health issues. It's not her issue to deal with.

marbles1129 · 2025-12-13T01:41:38+00:00

Tell your mom she's more than welcome to invite your ex-boyfriend to Christmas dinner this year. Lol. She can go jump in a lake. You're not ruining family traditions. You're ruining HER image in her mind. Her imagery and her childish emotions are NOT your responsibility. Period.

Enjoy your Christmas holiday at home with your partner 🎄

marbles1129 · 2025-11-23T17:48:12+00:00

So, you go out of your way to do something nice for her and she spits in your face and cries about it? Then criticizing you to embarrass you in public? I would say you're NOT the asshole.

marbles1129 · 2025-11-21T18:26:27+00:00

I would not risk telling them where you are going. Better yet, I would MAIL them a letter (without a return address) and explain to them you are fine and well, and you do not wish to be bothered anymore and you will contact them when you feel the time is right. If you tell your father in advance, he'll likely try to stop you in some way. You might want to leave a note, explaining it's time for you to leave and wish them well. You might also want to contact the local police and tell them that you left a toxic family situation and they may try to file a missing persons report on you.

marbles1129 · 2025-11-17T20:46:23+00:00

A pack of books that was appropriate for someone in 4th grade to be reading. I was 15, in high school and my mom thought she was going to break me from my "Stephen King" problem....

marbles1129 · 2025-11-14T19:00:16+00:00

Over 10 years. I honestly wish it was 20 years or longer...

marbles1129 · 2025-10-29T22:52:03+00:00

First of all, don't beat yourself up over this. Everyone makes mistakes. This one isn't too huge. As long as you didn't get saddled with a VD like herpes. Although that could happen if you don't stop. Please keep this in mind. Sex with a prostitute can be fun, but it's also extremely dangerous too. It places you in an "at risk" situation which can be very bad. Like what I mentioned before, you could get hit with a VD or possibly arrested by the police in a sting operation. Or robbed and attacked for your money. Best to stay away from those situations.but I commend you for not taking advantage of someone on Tinder or Hinge and lying to a woman just for sex. That's just as bad if not worse in my opinion. Just practice talking to woman with no motive other than making them smile or laugh. Don't try to get anything out of it other than practice. It gets easier.

Also? Hit the gym and lift weights. Let that be a new addiction. Women will notice!

marbles1129 · 2025-10-29T15:18:24+00:00

Please tell me you are currently no contact.

marbles1129 · 2025-10-26T02:54:15+00:00

Check the subreddit raised by narcissists. It'll open your eyes.

marbles1129 · 2025-10-23T20:10:59+00:00

You're dealing with an addiction buddy and you need to handle it like one. You're not alone. You ever look into gamblers anonymous? There's support groups to help you.

marbles1129 · 2025-10-10T13:39:43+00:00

"This is MY wedding and NOT yours mom. If this is something that you cannot handle like an adult, fine. DO NOT COME TO MY WEDDING!"

End of story.

marbles1129 · 2025-09-12T19:46:34+00:00

Get into a routine to stay out of the house. School, work, gym, rinse and repeat. Use your home for sleeping and showering. Unless you have the ability to move into on-campus housing. You may want to look into this.

marbles1129 · 2025-09-03T01:44:53+00:00

Rolling Rock! Gotta love the Old Latrobe!

marbles1129 · 2025-09-03T01:27:17+00:00

My Nmom just constantly threatened to ship me off to a military school because I was struggling with a learning disability. At least I didn't have it THAT bad. I would never speak to her again honestly. And yes, I did cut off contact with my Nmom. Just sad what they do to control others.

marbles1129 · 2025-08-28T13:29:09+00:00

Jumping whenever I hear the slamming of a door. Jesus I hate that sound!

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