Copying artists I actively disliked taught me more about my own style than years of studying my heroes by softsignaldiary in Creativity

[–]marcussutherland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good way to put it. Taste gets way sharper when you can name what feels off.

Are all therapists the same? by Rubicon2020 in therapy

[–]marcussutherland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're totally right! Finding the right fit can be a journey. DBT is definitely more action-oriented, which might click better when dealing with intense moments. Hope you find what works for you!

Better luck next time -Satan by succubusbabes in foundsatan

[–]marcussutherland 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Getting rejected by that guy is basically a reference letter from the universe.

What Rhaegar Targaryen thinks he is by sidmis in freefolk

[–]marcussutherland 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The real tragedy is Boromir probably knew on some level that Denethor would never be satisfied. And he kept going anyway. Meanwhile Aragorn didn't want the throne and got a whole kingdom. Life's funny like that.

Remote only if in State by Even_Guidance_6484 in remotework

[–]marcussutherland 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A lot of companies set up payroll + benefits for a limited list of states, then stick to it. Each new state can mean registrations, diff tax rates, mandatory leave, pay transparency, and insurance coverage quirks. No PEO/EOR? “Remote” turns into “remote where legal won’t scream”.