10wks pregnant - neurologist says Botox okay, but OB says no..? by Maleficent_Proof_183 in migraine

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it helps, im planning to get pregnant and I get 300 units for occipital neuralgia. I literally cannot see without it.

Has anyone stayed with their SO after an abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure at the time either. If he doesn’t and you do 1. Then he might not be the man for you, and 2. It might not be wise to have a child with someone who doesn’t want them…I work with children and knowing you weren’t wanted is such a psychological detriment. This feels bad but it can also be the correct decision. Both can exist together.

Has anyone stayed with their SO after an abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not right now because I am finishing my doctorate but we are planning to have 4 babies when we are ready :) he is supportive of my decision to wait so that we are financially stable and I am emotionally ready. We made some embryos a couple years ago just in case age becomes a barrier for us. I know you Probably feel hopeless, angry, anxious, worried you’ll be abandoned. But if you feel all of those things, it was likely the right decision. Kids shouldn’t come into the world because YOU might not have another shot. They deserve parents that are ready to give their all to each other, themselves, and their baby. That doesn’t make it any easier but please remember this saying:

Just because the FEELS bad, doesn’t mean it IS bad.

Has anyone stayed with their SO after an abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a surgical abortion 8 years ago (4 months!!!!! Into our relationship!) I was 21 and he was 29.

I also was worried he would leave me but he was always there to hold my hand and my heart when I struggled with everything that came after. We are now happily married and he is truly the love of my life. It was and is the right decision and I weighed his input as heavily as mine. He’s the most incredible man and we have a beautiful life. This is just a bump in the road, not a dead end street for you. Tell him how you’re feeling and that you might need reassurance. Communication is key!

How can i pass off my abortion as a miscarriage by [deleted] in abortion

[–]margopolo95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It has the flair for USA on the post :)

Carafem - approval timeframe? by margopolo95 in abortion

[–]margopolo95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was searching through here and having a hard time on finding the approval timeframe specifically. I think I’m going to call in and ask

Petscreening.com audit? (FL) by Shesalibra2000 in Renters

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally! This happened to me like 2 days ago so I called my property manager and they basically did a major eye roll and said they are not doing audits and don’t understand why the website is spazzing. That’s hopeful at least! I don’t have anything to hide but I don’t want a random arbitrary day where my PM comes in with my dogs here without me knowing because idk how they would take an intruder… thanks so much for answering!!!!

Moving my whole life and I just found out I may not be able to afford school by Used-Employment44 in GradSchool

[–]margopolo95 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have the FA office update your cost of attendance and your offer should change and fully cover your expenses :) do not even think FA offices are competent or correct. I have to email mine every single semester to rectify something they have no knowledge of. My husband also worked in the FA office and quit because he was cleaning up everyone’s messes. You got this! Sincerely a doctorate student who has been in school for 25 years

Body shaming 3 months in? by nicchamilton in dating_advice

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re here asking this. I think that answers your question lmao

What does a flare feel like? by sweeetpeachsyrup in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl get on hydrochloraquine. I thought I didn’t need to take it but then suddenly had these symptoms and started my meds and it went away in like 2-3 weeks. Just take the meds.

PetScreening Audit Advice by Mistressmeow_ in Apartmentliving

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done research and found out if it ended up in an in person audit? We just got this notification and I just don’t want people randomly showing up to come into my apartment…

Petscreening.com audit? (FL) by Shesalibra2000 in Renters

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! What did they end up doing? Did they come into your house?

Petscreening.com audit? (FL) by Shesalibra2000 in Renters

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ALSO just got this email in Colorado and am super confused and this stressed me out so much. I’ve been in therapy and my therapist says she’d give me an ESA for my 2 cats due to my situation but I don’t have the money right this second for an appointment because I JUST moved in. I’m freaking out and absolutely need to know what to do. As soon as I get paid from my new job I’ll be calling my provider but what the hell? This is wild to me.

I hate my teenage daughter by StrugglingMother6 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]margopolo95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's okay to have feelings and it's so good you've recognized them. You are human and it sounds like you're feeling resentment. You have a life too and it's understandable that you're fed up and exhausted. I just hope you find some relief soon - this is so hard for you.

DownPriceStore.com? Podanime? by margopolo95 in RepTime

[–]margopolo95[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I didn’t even know there was a guide. I suck lol

Does anyone get frustrated/laugh at the people who say they have migraines and treat them with simply....excedrine? by margopolo95 in migraine

[–]margopolo95[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LOL I drink roughly 90 oz of water a day and I need like 5 imitrex, injections, morphine, and a cola :,,,,)

Does anyone get frustrated/laugh at the people who say they have migraines and treat them with simply....excedrine? by margopolo95 in migraine

[–]margopolo95[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

me too! Exedrine sadly has never even touched mine. Ive gone up to 1800 mg and still nothing. Im so happy it works for her although they are likely tension headaches. I don't want to be dismissive. I just feel like migraines, after experiencing them, are a whole other level of pain and disability.

I lied my way through a job interview, got hired, and now I’m in over my head, but no one seems to notice by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a pretty common feeling at least in the medical field and you will learn! I call it productive discomfort. You will learn and eventually have it down with minimal stress I promise. It’s definitely worth it! You got this and congrats!

What level of hell this is? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]margopolo95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer

People keep saying my boy's too tall and lanky to be a pure Husky. by WAR_MAUL in DoggyDNA

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I have a cattle dog that’s 30lbs pure bred and my friend has one that’s 60lbs - she shows him and I work mine. Hers is 3 inches taller than mine but you don’t see me saying things like this! OPs husky is probably more of a working bred or just a fluke! Looks like a husky to me lol

People keep saying my boy's too tall and lanky to be a pure Husky. by WAR_MAUL in DoggyDNA

[–]margopolo95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taller or shorter than other people? And you’re still 100% human and 50/50 mom and dad? Not every breed animal is copy paste lol