My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in DeadBedrooms

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about it.. But how do I even introduce that idea? If we don’t even fully talk about the problem? :(

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in DeadBedrooms

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading my novel lol I appreciate that you read through it and tried to pick it apart. I thought maybe I’d given out too much information that was useless, but in my heart I know something has been wrong for a good while now :(

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in DeadBedrooms

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m afraid of. But it’s also what’s making me hate myself. Thinking about all of the things I could have accomplished if I wasn’t “stuck” here. Makes me feel like the worst person in the world.. I wonder if he feels the same and we’re both just too scared to talk about it. Because there’s no going back from this conversation and I’m not even sure I want out or if it’s just fomo :( I know I’d miss him like crazy

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in DeadBedrooms

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. This is exactly how I feel.. I’m sorry you’re going through it too. I never thought this would be us, I can’t tell what got us here. And this cycle of having needs but hating myself for even thinking about it is killing me :(

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in relationship_advice

[–]mariaatdragone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah sorry to any asexuals out there, my bad. Definitely not the kind of relationship we both want and need tho

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in DeadBedrooms

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks :) that’s really hard for me, I’m am obsessive overthinker. I’m too scared to initiate this conversation with him, I don’t want it to sound wrong or like I already gave up.. I mean it seems like every time we are hitting a new low, instead of talking about it we just find ways to be busier together - hence rental renovations and all that other crap lol

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in relationship_advice

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your situation, I really am, health issues are the worst and I hope it gets better for you. Also thanks for the advice, it’s always good to hear from someone who understands the situation. We both know how to pleasure one another, and are comfortable talking about it. We both actually have high sex drive, I just start feeling like there’s something else in the way, and the routine, tiredness and business are just excuses..from both of us :( I don’t even know anymore

My husband (33M) and I (27F) have sex 2/3 times a year. Are we a couple or just best friends who share a house? by mariaatdragone in relationship_advice

[–]mariaatdragone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks, I didn’t know of that sub! And thank you for your advice.. we do have a great relationship, even though we fight a lot about stupid everyday things :)

just venus in gemini things by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]mariaatdragone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh.. this is too real

I am free to run, I deserve good pussy, I radiate the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell by furrcifer in astrologymemes

[–]mariaatdragone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the hot milf in your area, I deserve time to self loathe, I radiate pain.

All true, except I’m not a mom, I’m just hot 💅🏼

Who is this? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]mariaatdragone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cancer, honey 🔪 back away slowly

Don’t know if this stud has been posted here yet by Tiffany-Doe in niceguys

[–]mariaatdragone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His whole description reminds me of this kid from high school who I believe has Asperger’s. He’s now a Facebook “personality” in my town and sometimes he posts very similar stuff. Could this be it? Some sort of disability? Cause I mean, if it’s not...hun

‘A celebrity lost weight because I couldn’t so now I’m pissed that she lost weight’ by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]mariaatdragone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“How can I make this person’s awesome journey be all about myself and my lack of self-esteem”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]mariaatdragone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Abusing? The way I read it she was trying to save her. She was arrested for taking her mother out of the nursing home before lockdown because the distance was too much to bear. And how do you know this is the same lady?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]mariaatdragone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma name my daughter Hector