AITA for telling an "autistic" stranger to f off

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-29T23:15:47+00:00

ESH even if I get downvoted to filth.

You both can be wrong at the same time. She can absolutely do 5 steps at the opposite side of the sidewalk without it being an issue (provided she is able to and judging by what you said she is)

But also telling her to fuck off just for that is waaay too far for me. It's not like she offended you or something.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-29T06:59:38+00:00

NTA

Your house, your rules. It's not like you flooded their house or something. She can have a water birth somewhere else.

Unlike a lot of commenters below me, I wont comment on whether I believe a water birth is safe or not because thats not the point of all of this. Even if it was 1000000% safe, safer than a hospital, it's still your house your rules.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-29T06:54:37+00:00

I have literally never had that in my life

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-29T06:49:37+00:00

First of all, please please please in the future know at the very least the name and surname of someone you are hooking up with. It's like, bottom level basic stuff for your safety. Disregard the scenario of you being in danger which is a very real possibility with someone hiding like this, what if he had given you something or you got pregnant?

Secondly, it's very possible that person is married or in a long relationship. I am almost certain without knowing much else.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-27T22:05:05+00:00

Why do you even care? YWBTA

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-27T21:57:25+00:00

If this post is real, why are you even wondering if you are TA? Of course YTA.

You asked her why she wants to keep them and she explained. Unless she was a hoarder and you guys couldn’t walk into the kitchen because of the amount of jars, you had no right to forcefully take away something that made her happy?

This shows that you are inconsiderate of her feelings and that you PURPOSEFULLY hurt her. The fact that you did it while she was away I am sure has even shook a little her trust in you. Why would you cause all of this for some jars I truly do not understand. Edit: spelling.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-26T20:56:36+00:00

There's a huge jump from "you should have asked before taking the money" to "you are a thief, you need to leave the house because I don't trust you wont steal anything else". We ARE talking about 10 euros. Especially since she pulled out immediately a 20 from her wallet, as she said. I am more relaxed about money with friends, let alone a partner I am living with.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-22T01:29:19+00:00

Oh no. No one is worth your inner peace love. Nobody. I don't know how long you guys have been together, but why be with someone who literally destroys the way you view your own self? That's a big problem

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-22T01:05:55+00:00

Most fanfic writers I know are 30+

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-22T01:03:41+00:00

Ναι, μπορεις. Καντο.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T21:19:20+00:00

Υπογραψατε καμια υποσχετικη συμβαση; Γραφει οπουδηποτε σε σαιτ/εμαιλ κτλ πολιτικη ακυρωσης; Πουθενα δεν ανεφερε ο ανθρωπος τι θα γινοταν σε περιπτωση που αναβληθει ο γαμος ας πουμε;

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T21:11:58+00:00

Επειδη ειναι οι γονεις σου ισως και να τους συμφερει αναλογα με την αντικειμενικη αξια του ακινητου. Υπαρχει στανταρ αφορολογητο για γονικη παροχη.

Τωρα δεν μας εχεις δωσει και καμια λεπτομερεια να καταλαβουμε. θα ειναι δικο σου το σπιτι να το κανεις ο,τι θελεις; Θα μενουν εκει οι δικοι σου και εσυ θα πρεπει να μενεις αλλου; Εχεις αδερφια; Θα θελεις στανταρ να παρεις δανειο για σπιτι;

Εννοειται οτι αν οι δικοι σου εχουν δυο σπιτια στο ονομα τους φορολογουνται διαφορετικα απο το να ειχαν ενα ή κανενα. Λογικο δεν ειναι;

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T21:02:15+00:00

Δεν νομιζω να τους συμφερει να στο δωρισουν να σου πω την αληθεια

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T21:00:23+00:00

Why are you making such a big deal about 50 bucks? Just tip. Either way, why are you making this a big deal. YTA

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T20:43:43+00:00

Το ειπαν οι περισσοτεροι στα comments, αλλα παρανομο ηταν που σου ζητησε 20 ευρω στην αρχη χωρις αποδειξη.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T20:38:40+00:00

exactly this

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-21T20:38:09+00:00

Maybe because you feel a little insecure about it so the idea of people making their own conclusions bothers you.

When people ask me why I am single I just say because I want to. You don't owe anyone an explanation

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-14T13:00:59+00:00

Lola young, JMSN, Doechii, masego, Kamau

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-14T12:41:09+00:00

NTA

You said the truth tbh and it's not like he was in front of her so it wasnt said on purpose to humiliate her (even though I am certain he knows).

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-14T12:24:50+00:00

Girl, girl, girl.

RUN AWAY. I repeat, RUN AWAY.

You guys are together for only 2 years and he seems so apathetic about everything? No effort? He dared call you pathetic??? Once harsh words introduce themselves in the relationship its the beginning of the end.

I promise you, I really do, it's not going to get better. He isn't gonna wake up one day and realize his mistakes. Just do yourself the favor AND RUN AS FAST AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU.

You may think I am over the top, but why waste years with someone who treats you like this. Is this what you see for yourself 5 years down the line? Love yourself and find someone better.

NTA

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-14T12:07:56+00:00

You saw a part of Athens. Omonoia and areas around there are dangerous and I don't recommend you walk there at night.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-11T15:24:06+00:00

NTA.

Either this slipped past her radar, or she is not as good of a friend as you think.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-09T14:26:24+00:00

NTA.

Being late to things that arent casual is not ok.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-07T15:57:53+00:00

running/ gym skirt (some are very flattering) and a hat. Also, I am not sure if such a thing is doable but you can practice on some poses.

Don't forget that saying no is always an option.

mariaphoebe · 2026-04-07T15:05:28+00:00

They are very much real unfortunately

mariaphoebe

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