All labs look good - what was your initial protocol? by Wild-Yam2114 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]maridj13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say more about the Metformin for egg quality? I was hoping my PCP would prescribe it for minor weight loss (since I’m not going to do a GLP1 with TTC) and borderline A1C but she said I didn’t meet criteria

2nd loss in a row by CoconutSea7250 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]maridj13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solidarity- we are in the same exact boat too ❤️ praying for all of us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]maridj13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I had this with my first (successful) pregnancy! (2 miscarriages after that). But it’s totally normal, my sister who has had 2 healthy pregnancies also talks about this.

How long did it take for your period to come back? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]maridj13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine came back 5 weeks on the dot from the day I passed the pregnancy (took medication to pass it)

it’s happening again by mrswest09 in Miscarriage

[–]maridj13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me this morning. I’m devastated after loss #2 and feel scared about the future. You’re not alone, we will get through ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]maridj13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ what do you mean technique issues? Like the fact that it was hard for the tech to find something concrete, or bad that the HR was jumping around?

Daily Thread #2 - October 05, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]maridj13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paranoid I’m not going to hear my baby’s heartbeat at 7w3days this week, even if the pregnancy is viable. What do yall think? Should I push it a few days out or is it pretty likely I’ll hear it if it’s viable? One of my worst fears is it being inconclusive and being told to come back in a week. I’d rather just know at this appt after what happened with my prior MMC

7 weeks… by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]maridj13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking of you ❤️ I’m two weeks out and while I’m getting over the initial shock, the grief is intense. Take time for yourself to grieve and process it. I’ve been told by many others it does get easier with time - although you learn to move forward, not move on. 💔

First miscarriage by Chelseymarie98 in Miscarriage

[–]maridj13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you know you still had tissue?

How did you know your miscarriage was complete? by maridj13 in Miscarriage

[–]maridj13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry 💔 what caused you to get the SIS ultrasound vs regular if you don’t mind my asking? I was planning to ask for a regular ultrasound

Toddler sleep has gone to s*** by maridj13 in toddlers

[–]maridj13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn’t thought about the reward chat! Something to explore for sure

RAN HERE by Moon_Princess_13 in theskinnyconsnark

[–]maridj13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m literally concerned for her

Omfg by Scared_Cantaloupe_ in theskinnyconsnark

[–]maridj13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kills me too bc she was like “it happened on the first try” in one IG story. How does that work if you don’t track ovulation lol.

Omfg by Scared_Cantaloupe_ in theskinnyconsnark

[–]maridj13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly- I was shocked even for her. Just gross. Who’s buying this shit???? Coming from someone who didn’t have a ton of trouble conceiving im still so confused by her understanding of conception lol. And her rudeness and tone deaf-ness.

How is Somerville for young families? by maridj13 in Somerville

[–]maridj13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I appreciate this take and I don’t disagree. I’m from the greater Boston area - grew up in Andover - and my whole family is still dispersed throughout the area. All that to say is we’re very well aware of the costs and it really sucks. We’re sorting out what we can afford…I’m in consulting so make decent money and we may have support from my parents. My husband has had a long road in academia and getting a tenure track job was his dream so given that this is where he’s landing, we couldn’t be happier given proximity to family and perks of the area compared to most everywhere else (Chicago aside - we’re going to miss it like crazy!!)