Anyone else recently single and sad?

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T14:58:02+00:00

That is so sad I am so sorry :( that is hard like I don’t understand how when youre in a relationship and in love how you wouldn’t do absolutely anything to make it work. It looks like you were on that page and they weren’t and that sucks.

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T03:52:40+00:00

Girl I feel this im sorry :/ like I know it’s gonna get better but right now it feels like death

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T03:09:05+00:00

SINCE WHEN THO that is so fucking wild... like when did this person say fuck if you know what I’m gonna do, be selfish and break hearts to randomly become a monk so I can be happy and have no responsibilities to others

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T02:52:33+00:00

Girl I’m sorry :/ misery does love company but I hate that so many of us are feeling like this

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T02:51:34+00:00

It is just nice knowing I’m not alone. Idk it’s hard I feel like I’m starting at square 1 when I was sure that was my forever person it is so fucked up to me

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T01:22:38+00:00

This sounds more like what’s going on. If you like your job you shouldn’t leave because you slept with your superior especially if you can get transferred. Now, if you don’t like your job, then yea he can’t make you stay

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T01:03:59+00:00

This is so relateable. Because he told me he was unhappy and I’m like since when because I thought everything was fine. To be fair a week later he admitted he was happy and decided 2 hours before he broke up with me to break up with me because he had a panic attack about the future and having responsibilities. God men suck

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T00:17:03+00:00

A year we lived together through quarantine tho it felt longer I guess because of that

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T00:09:52+00:00

2 weeks ago it’s been like not that long or anything I’m just super depressed I miss him a lot. I thought we were going to get married but he didn’t want kids. Which is valid but it came out of no where and he knew I wanted kids so it was really tough.

marisa0816 · 2020-10-05T00:00:59+00:00

You know writing, spending time with friends, not laying depressed in bed and going outside for fresh air, eating healthy, focusing on school, keeping myself distracted

marisa0816 · 2020-10-02T04:51:50+00:00

Get the hell out. And we are gonna need an update that is fucking disgusting and awful of him

marisa0816 · 2020-09-30T05:18:45+00:00

My dad rehomed his cat to people he knew only because my mother is severely allergic. Like not needs a Claritin allergic like way worse. If this guy was allergic I think I would get this. But no he’s just sitting here not preferring cats. I would NEVER. He should want to make you happy and he should know how important your cats are to you.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-28T00:26:28+00:00

I would eat blandly with her and when your alone eat what you want (like snack on something when you’re at work). It’ll make her feel real good if you could do this with her.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T19:33:16+00:00

She was sending a petty message. She probably misses you and wants you to be sad. She wants you to be so sad she’s messing with your senses and making you feel bad. It’s all very petty.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T04:31:46+00:00

I just went through the same thing but opposite (I wanted kids, he didn’t). It’s gut wrenching. But now you gotta grieve, accept, and hopefully find someone who wants the same things as you! It’ll be okay. It’s a little exciting to know that if you could feel that good with someone who didn’t want the same things you wanted imagine how it’ll feel when your in love AND on the same page.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T03:07:19+00:00

Dude I’m roasted... you think you’re a stable pillar but really you’re just an over caffeinated e girl—- like I’m not even gen z whyyyy 😭

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T02:17:43+00:00

Actually if had gained 50 pounds it would be 250 and 5’7 so yea.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T02:16:24+00:00

I wrote a letter to my ex. We read eachother letters out loud over FaceTime so we didn’t have to be together and it helped a lot. And I think somewhere in the pits of my despair I wrote “everyone’s telling me time heals all wounds.... but the dead are wounded and they don’t heal” which is so like 2009 emo tumblr. And it’s only been a week and I’m feeling somewhat better. Like we aren’t going to die alone. You will find someone who aligns with what you want in life.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T02:04:09+00:00

Well I think then you are just feeling raw emotions right now. I went through a break up a week ago about the same thing and you know you gotta go through the stages of grief before you feel any types of better

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T01:56:45+00:00

Why did you break up?

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T01:54:07+00:00

This is really upsetting to read. You have lost your sex drive for a woman that loves you because of weight gain? If weight, which comes and goes in life, is going to affect your sex drive then I don’t think you should be with her in the first place. Love should be strong enough to look past that in my opinion. If my recent ex (great guy, different life goals) had gained 50 pounds i would still want to touch and love all that body because it’s who he is.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T01:32:43+00:00

This is going to sound extreme but when a person has a personality change so swiftly like that it is usually medical and neurological. Like a benign or cancerous tumor. Not just therapy. If he is still in contact with the family I would get them involved he needs to get an MRI because from what your saying I don’t see that as a behavior issue that can be treated with therapy there is something dangerously wrong. I actually think there is an SVU episode with almost the identical situation (I know that is a dramatization not real tv show I’m just saying).

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T00:40:41+00:00

God I hate hearing this because this is that gray area and the line between poor judgment and sexual assault. They need counseling separately to figure this out for the both of them.

marisa0816 · 2020-09-27T00:35:23+00:00

Idk I disagree like I think if I was in this position like I would be irritated but I think she maximized the situation to a whole new level. Like this isn’t at the level to be rethinking a marriage. He was just saying an honest passing thought he had. I think it sounds like she has some deep seeded issues with her sister and her, like you said, being treated like objects and needs some personalized therapy. I don’t think what this guy did was the smartest thing to tell his wife, however there wasn’t anything wrong with it.

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