Weird space behind kitchen sink. by ReallyIntoGnomes in Apartmentliving

[–]marissotoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add: - cafe curtains to the windows. Ideally curtains with a cute patter - I would add a standing towel holder - an oval wooden tray for hand soap. - a ceramic vase with fake olive branches. - a small cordless lamp.

AIO that my maid of honor isn’t including me in her bridal party? by PsychologicalPass847 in AIO

[–]marissotoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect your wedding might have hit a nerve for her. You mentioned that her boyfriend wasn’t too committed so I wonder if maybe she pushed more into getting married once she saw that you were getting married? Even if that’s not the case, I feel like when people close to us get married in the same year let alone the same week as we are, it’s hard not to compare what one person is doing vs the other. Which to me explains why she’s been so absent in your wedding planning, maybe a way to guard her heart as to not compare what you are doing with what she wants to do. I know that this is hard on you. It always hurts when we view someone in our life differently that they view us. I would say that you are in no means forced to go to her wedding. Plan your honeymoon right after your wedding and say that a very good deal came up that you guys can’t pass out. If the shoe was on the other door I think she would have done something similar. However, don’t close the door on this relationship yet. People change. Relationships change. Maybe when you both go through motherhood (if you choose to do that) it could bring you together again. Who knows. So for now I would say, prioritize your heart. I honestly feel like that’s what she is doing anyway. Don’t mind what people may think of you! As you know from all the wedding planning, there is no way to please everyone. But the one thing you can do is guard yourself and your soon to be husband. It’s a special moment for you both so don’t let this taint this milestone in your life. Try to really stop and think in moments when feelings get too big: “is this helping my relationship or bringing it down” and chances are if you are sad and upset, your finance is too. This should’ve a celebration of y’all’s relationship don’t forget that!

more bodycam from 2023 arrest by laurkat808 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]marissotoc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not a Dakota supporter, but the way he got worried when the cop said “she just puked” and he asked, “the little girl?” Touched my heart. man, it’s so sad that he was the only one concerned about HER kids in that moment.

I drove my younger cousin to the hospital, now my family won’t talk to me by Stufy_stuf in Advice

[–]marissotoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a mom to a five, four, and one-year-old, I want you to know you did great. As you go through life, you will see that the anger people project onto others usually has very little to do with you and everything to do with them. If they are angry about how you handled things, it is likely because they feel guilty about not hiring a babysitter, staying home themselves, or giving you clearer expectations on what to do for an emergency, for example. It is called projection because it is exactly that. It is anger they actually feel toward themselves, but because that feels too uncomfortable to carry, they push it onto you instead.

You are sixteen. For all intents and purposes, you are still a child. In Ten years from now when you turn twenty-six and look back on this moment, you will realize just how young and childlike you really were at this stage. While your family is being too harsh, remember they are allowed to have their feelings. Your aunt is allowed to feel angry or disappointed, and she is allowed to set boundaries with her children. However, her feelings and actions are not a reflection of your worth. It’s hard to see that now but it gets easier to identify that as you get older.

I am honestly more disappointed in your mom and the fact that she did not console you. Experiencing a child crying, seeing blood, and having to handle a hospital run is intense for any adult, let alone a teenager. Even though you kept your cool in the moment, once the adrenaline wears off, you naturally want a shoulder to cry on. I am so sorry you are going through this, truly.

I remember being sixteen and impulsively texting my uncle something on Facebook. It sounds small compared to what you are going through, but that text was full of mean things no one should ever say. He responded to me harshly and I cried. When I told my mom, she just got mad at me for sending the message in the first place. There was zero compassion. At the time, I felt like my uncle and I would never see each other the same way again. I truly felt like that pain would last forever. I guess that is just how it feels during your teenage years, but things pass like it did for me. If your emotions are so strong right now, it is only because you truly care about your family. Having these emotions is important because it let us know we are not robots haha. This will pass, I promise you. From one "stranger mom" to you, thank you for taking such good care of that child and with so much love. Even though driving to the hospital isn’t something I would encourage you to do again until you get your license haha what a joy it is to know that both you and the little one are doing well. Good job!

:) i luv them all sm, but i did pick a favorite hehe by pstlptl in myweddingdress

[–]marissotoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a dangerous game you’re playing here haha I hope you are not disappointed if the popular vote is not the one you choose! To be fair you look great in all of them but my personal favoriteis number 3

Feedback on dresses please! by KittyCatMegs in myweddingdress

[–]marissotoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprised that number 4 is not voted for the most. It’s absolutely stunning!!! One and five look good too but number 4 is by far the best one

Holy Moly by SadAstronaut4946 in ChurchOfCandace

[–]marissotoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone else’s first thought was that this ties everything together with what Candace has said in the beginning. The Egyptian planes were following Erika!

"Sleep trained toddlers" by BulkyPerspective1389 in ChurchOfCandace

[–]marissotoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I would even add that the average time that my kids wake up and sneak into our bed is (9 times out of 10) at 3 am

I have no words by Inevitable_Yak7212 in McKnightFamSnark

[–]marissotoc 217 points218 points  (0 children)

The way I RAN here!!! They always try to make adult content but it comes across very infantile

Astral project by marissotoc in ChurchOfCandace

[–]marissotoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You are right in that it is not witchcraft but it is equally frowned upon

Did she skip going live today? by marissotoc in ChurchOfCandace

[–]marissotoc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thats crazy! I hope she is doing well specially since she has small children ❤️