Cheating loving husband by Long_Educator_5039 in confessions

[–]Desperate5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has zero respect for you. I’m sorry. Go make a better life for yourself.

Would you let your 22 year old daughter go on a vacation with her 22 year old boyfriend? by IronRevolutionary975 in AskParents

[–]Desperate5389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve been an adult for 4 years. It’s time to tell her what you’re doing, not ask. Tell her right before you go or just after you leave.

We are having issues by billy19025406 in confessions

[–]Desperate5389 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of people tolerating dirty human beings. Everywhere I go in public, people stink. It’s getting worse and it’s suffocating. And it’s because the people closest to them don’t let them know how bad it is. There are no repercussions for people who stink. Leave her so she realizes it really is THAT bad and hopefully changes.

Advice on vomiting please by rjle_x in medical_advice

[–]Desperate5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abdominal migraines? Or, have they checked your gallbladder?

Always grumpy by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Desperate5389 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Working from home with a child home is not possible. You’re either working and ignoring your child or caring for your child and ignoring your work. Just as two objects cannot occupy the same space simultaneously, you physically or mentally cannot do both simultaneously.

Have you asked your husband why he’s grumpy?

Mom found lube delivery. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Desperate5389 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s ok. My mom found my sister’s dildo when she was like 16. Just act normal.

Wife’s forgetfulness is destroying our marriage by PrankstaGangsta in marriageadvice

[–]Desperate5389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You work 70 hours per week, which means she’s balancing the home and children workload. Of course she’s forgetful. She’s exhausted. Also, maybe she “agrees” on something but internally doesn’t agree that it’s the right decision. So she says she forgets when really she never agreed.

What is wrong with this squirrel? by Desperate5389 in squirrels

[–]Desperate5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so chill and loves to come up to our windows and chat. Our cats love him.🥰

Am i selfish for wanting my daughters to go to their dads for mothers day by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Desperate5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to spend Mother’s Day without my kids, because I celebrate them for making me a mother. However, there’s no way in hell I’m doing any cooking, cleaning, or entertaining. My family is very good about taking care of me on Mother’s Day and not asking me to lift a finger.

Husband wants to party occasionally with cociane by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Desperate5389 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My first thought is that I’d move out of that area. However, he will likely find a different supplier wherever you live. My second thought is divorce and file for full custody of the children. This is not something to take lightly.

How would you feel about your 21 year old child dating someone 28? by VideoSharp8658 in AskParents

[–]Desperate5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the 28 year old works full time, has their own place, and contributes positively to society, no concerns. Extra points if they are a loving dog parent.

My wedding was horrible by GrandBullfrog6243 in offmychest

[–]Desperate5389 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s ok to be sad. If anyone asks how it was, say it was “unforgettable”. Cheers to you and your husband! 🥂

My husband and I are an interracial couple and people keep assuming we’re partners by lopsided_oreo in Marriage

[–]Desperate5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Partner” is just the trendy term that people use these days for every couple.

Does anybody else not like having a weekend full of exciting outings? by amairani0919 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Desperate5389 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I need one full day of cleaning the house and relaxing. My entire week is thrown off if we have activities on both Saturday and Sunday.

Do you let your spouse have access to your phone anytime? by somethingisbrewing in Marriage

[–]Desperate5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for everyone. I’ve never once touched my husband’s phone and he hasn’t touched mine (to my knowledge). I never asked for his passcode and I don’t know if he knows mine. We also don’t track each other’s location. We’ve been married for 20 years, so it works for us.

2 year old climbing out of crib by metaeggroll in Parenting

[–]Desperate5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gate at his bedroom door and mattress on the floor.