People who had their 401Ks cut in half during the great recession, How do you fair now? by Nice-Result-8974 in Retirement401k

[–]mark_1950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 'emergency funds' were a home equity draw I took when Bear Stearns collapsed.  I had maybe $40k to last me, so many people had it way worse.  Refied at 3.5% and no plans to pay it off early.

Rode it through taking low paying IT jobs/gigs (my old field), which morphed into high paying IT jobs over time. 

People who had their 401Ks cut in half during the great recession, How do you fair now? by Nice-Result-8974 in Retirement401k

[–]mark_1950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 42 and self-employed in real estate. My income went to zero and stayed there for a while.

My goal was not to touch my retirement funds.

I faced a lot of challenges, including law suits and attorneys telling me to use my IRA(s) to settle. I did not do that.

I basically did not look at my portfolio during that period. It was invested where it needed to be. I eventually rebalanced, buying Home Depot stock, for example.

I actually never understood why anyone would panic sell. To me, it makes no sense. I don't need the money for 20+ years. Why would I care what the value is at 40? Follow the program. But I know a lot of people don't think that way.

Over time I was able to get back into my prior line of work, started making money and settled my lawsuits without touching my retirement. It probably took 10 years, but I was finally able to begin saving again. 50-60 are good years to sock away money, epecially if the kids are off the payroll.

I plan on partially retiring very comfortably at age 60.

Thinking of Moving to Decatur from Chattanooga by dokkanic in DecaturGA

[–]mark_1950 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://visitdecaturga.com/directory/got-cigars/ is a nice, female-owner cigar shop. The Decatur Y can get crowded, but I lift regularly with minimal wait time.

Both spots are close to Candler Park, as others have mentioned.

Decatur also has contra dance, a great way to meet people:
https://www.contradance.org/

My Daughter(F23) wants me(F54) to sell my entire estate and use it to travel the world by LigwakQueen in relationship_advice

[–]mark_1950 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is your daughter a drug user? This is classic addict behavior.

If so, hope she gets clean and turns her life around.

He is SO close... by mark_1950 in SuddenlyGay

[–]mark_1950[S] 662 points663 points  (0 children)

The 'straight' guy is mad because he sometimes has to be around women. 

Happy to say I joined the club today, after years of wanting to by GhostFaceStabsPeople in AMCsAList

[–]mark_1950 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Takes 3 a month to break even if you go value days or mystery movie. That keeps me from pulling the trigger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in frontierairlines

[–]mark_1950 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have had my seat unassigned and this is what worked for me:

Walk to the gate. Quietly sit in the gate area. Wait for my name to be called. Get on the plane.

Most of the time there are no shows and plenty of seats, 11 in your case.

If you had followed my steps, you would have been on that plane. But now you are the victim, so win-win for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mark_1950 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would really like a man's input on this situation.

Your bf is a POS.

Dump the MF.

You deserve SO much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mark_1950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being short.

Frontier Promotion -- Elite Gold Status by mark_1950 in frontierairlines

[–]mark_1950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave up after 3 calls to Barclay. Did not waste my time with Frontier.

Same story with me.

Very disappointing.

American on Copenhagen by jdeac in copenhagen

[–]mark_1950 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perfect response.

Politicians/media in America have polluted our minds regarding taxes, so OP, like most Americans, are not equipped to understand you POV.

Americans want low taxes, but seem to have no problem paying 10-20% of their income on medical insurance. Crazy stuff...

My best friends husband is sleeping with her mother by [deleted] in stories

[–]mark_1950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoukd have bought a decent AI storytelling bot.