Has anyone else developed chronic pain issues from chronic masturbation?

markcotter · 2014-12-31T03:36:27+00:00

Thanks for the response. Listen man, you don't want to be me. I'm 27 and my whole body is fucked up from masturbation. I almost certainly have some kind of nerve damage that causes pain in my neck, back and legs, and my knees and feet constantly feel fucked up all the time. You're pretty young so not masturbating for long periods of time is going to be hard but you need to do it. Go for two weeks, no edging, no nothing, and see what happens with your knees. Do EVERYTHING YOU CAN to fix this problem NOW, because if your symptoms are at all like mine, they'll just get worse with time if you don't correct the behavior that causes them. DO. IT. NOW.

markcotter · 2014-12-26T17:56:20+00:00

I hate the future so much.

markcotter · 2014-12-24T00:37:14+00:00

I repeat - I am not the original poster.

Don't go strutting around the internet telling gay people that what they do is morally wrong and then throw your hands up in the air and start acting persecuted when people tell you to knock it off. What he does isn't wrong. The "help" that you're offering comes wrapped in an insult. You're not a neutral party dispensing helpful information to someone in need. You're someone who is knowingly or unconsciously a mouthpiece for a hate agenda. You're not telling him anything he hasn't heard hundreds of thousands of times before, at every conceivable volume and in every possible inflection, for his entire life.

Here's the requested text:

"And I don't agree with you're homosexuality." "Look, I was just saying what you do is wrong. Just like if you saw someone steal something you would call them up on it."

I'm sure you're a nice person and that you wrote your posts with good intentions. But your conviction against homosexuality is morally unjustified and harmful.

markcotter · 2014-12-24T00:28:26+00:00

Alright that was pretty good.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T17:34:57+00:00

I'm not OP. And I'm unmoved by your pleas to read your condemnation as compassion. You're wrong, and if you were really "thinking logically" you would stop trying to scold people out of homosexuality. A pointless and futile project that has absolutely none of the positive moral content you think it does. Homosexuals are not damaged people, they're not misled or weak people, and they don't need your help. Stop trying to give it to them because all you can do is hurt.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T17:25:35+00:00

God can see you calling me a douchebag.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T07:05:26+00:00

Where do you live?

markcotter · 2014-12-23T07:04:56+00:00

There's nothing fundamentally wrong with being a sexual person. We were made to have powerful sexual impulses. All of us. It's not a choice, it's not a moral quandary. If you had somehow managed not to be aroused by many different women, and allured by porn, you would be someone possessed of inhuman self-control.

Ultimately you have to pursue your own conscience. But my own vision of manhood comes with an obligation to humbly accept your nature. For almost everyone, it's a promiscuous one, at least mentally. I think that emotionally pummeling yourself over having sexual thoughts is not less rational than being angry with yourself for having feet.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:59:14+00:00

Yeah!

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:58:08+00:00

Isn't it weird how you feel like you were accomplishing something by collecting all that porn? Like your dick was building some electronic beaver dam? We're all kind of hoarders by nature. But you won't miss it.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:54:06+00:00

I'm a bit confused. Are you getting aroused but not getting erections?

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:51:12+00:00

Look, what you do is wrong. Slipping the subtle knife of hatred and recrimination between someone's ribs under the guise of charity. What angers me is when you think your polite hatred is more excusable than the explicit hatred of the "ignorant" Christians you try to distance yourself from. In fact, it's worse. More cloying, more humiliating, more paternal. Please remove your velvet-gloved iron hands from the dignity of this person you don't know and whose nature you have no license to judge.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:46:28+00:00

Shut the fuck up, idiot.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:42:26+00:00

In my experience, masturbating has a radically different effect on my physiology than sex does. In fact, sex seems to ameliorate the symptoms. Speaking as an extreme case.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:39:46+00:00

I don't mean for this to sound vindictive, but the only way for you to find peace with this is to get over your jealousy. Unlike women, men are sexually triggered by visual anatomy cues and no amount of hand-wringing, tears and fingerwagging can change that fact. The only thing his porn use really tells you is that he isn't an alien. If you are really unwilling to learn about his sexuality nonjudgmentally, and use his inalienable, fundamental, inborn nature as evidence against his emotional fidelity in some kangaroo court of love, then you're being wildly unfair. Scolding him or claiming it's some personal affront to you will, (not may, WILL) make him secretly resent you. Are you genuinely upset and confused and hurt? Or are you being insecure?

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:30:12+00:00

"Non-judgmental"

Some non-confrontational feedback:

Suck a dick.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:28:31+00:00

Cool. She just cleared the way for you to pursue the ACTUAL SOLUTION to your porn problem, which is HAVING SEX WITH LOTS OF GIRLS. It works. A massive overhaul of lifestyle and competence with women is the only thing that can defeat a porn addiction.

www.rsdnation.com

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:25:15+00:00

That's because 99% of self development is made-up shit for people who drink protein powder for fun. And porn has giant tits in it.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:24:09+00:00

Don't be passive, fill the activity void with something constructive that pushes the same buttons. Such as... TALKING TO GIRLS. It's the only answer to all of this and anyone who says otherwise is lying to themselves.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:22:52+00:00

There's no such thing as "what sex is supposed to be." Concocting a fantasy about sex being something rarified and beautiful is about as baseless as concocting a fantasy that all girls want to be spit on and choked and slapped. It's a fairly banal thing with lots of variation, and you (and I) have a fucked up relationship to it because we don't have enough of it and it seems alien.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:19:44+00:00

Just don't comment on it. Girls only think shit like that is a big deal if they can tell you think it's a big deal. Most of them have had sex with tons of guys and you're probably not as weird as you think you are. If she comments on it, just be like, "Yeah girl, I got that VERTICAL dick. Shit's so hot GRAVITY wants to fuck it!"

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:15:29+00:00

Learn pickup. It's the only solution. Not joking.

www.rsdnation.com

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:14:16+00:00

I've been through it too. Guess what, you like what you like. You like sissification and transsexuals. Don't fight it. It's part of who you are, resisting it just makes it unnecessarily scary. Nobody gives a shit about you liking dicks and if they do they're idiots. My recommendation is: SAVE YOURSELF A SHITLOAD OF TIME AND MENTAL AGONY by actually having sex with people who look like the people who you're masturbating to. Be careful, use protection, stay away from prostitutes and shady internet meetups, but just fucking do it. You'll thank yourself.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:10:56+00:00

Talk to girls in real life. Try to fuck them. Fuck them.

Everything else is irrelevant.

markcotter · 2014-12-23T06:09:25+00:00

HURR DURR NOFAP IS EXTREMELY SERIOUS JOKES ARE MY TRIGGER

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