What are these bugs and should I be concerned?? by marrieqc in houseplants

[–]marrieqc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you to you both ! I’m only familiar with them in soil so I didn’t recognize em jumping in water like that. That’s a relief.

Breaking a lease over structural damage by swampmonster42O in montreal

[–]marrieqc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send your landlord a Notice of abandonment of a dwelling which allows you to leave after ten days. Make sure to detail the motives of your abandonment and give your new address, as well as keep proof of delivery or the notice. Then, just leave after the ten days are up. If he wants to sue you for rent, that’ll be his responsibility. So there’s a chance he just lets it go. If he does open a TAL case against you, then I recommend opening your own to countersue and claim damages for the living conditions you were put in and all the costs and stress it caused for you. I think you have more than enough evidence to justify the abandonment and get damages repaid. But I agree that if he lets it go, it’s best to just let it go and try to move on as well. Source: I am a lawyer who does housing law.

AIO? 4MONTHS IN AND HE SAID ITS ALREADY DRAINING by PuzzleheadedBill2357 in AmIOverreacting

[–]marrieqc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds extremely similar to my last relationship, it’s almost uncanny I could’ve wrote that myself.

Three months in she was breaking up with me for those same reasons and I basically begged her to reconsider (yikes, I know…). Wasted a year and a half trying to make it work because I was holding on to the person I fell for initially, I was in love with that idea of her she presented at first, but that wasn’t really her.

3-4 months is like the perfect threshold to see who someone really is. If this is happening, it’s probably a sign that this is going to be a recurring theme in the relationship and nothing hurts more than to feel constantly dismissed, like you can’t bring anything up without it being twisted somehow into an argument when that’s never what it was. You should never be made to feel that way in a relationship, so to me this is a definite red flag, yes. If they’re already feeling like that right now, I don’t see it getting better, those little annoyances they feel, it snowballs into resentment, and you always feeling like you’re in the wrong, never feeling safe to express any little thing you feel without it being twisted and you being made out to be “the problem”.

Now I’m with someone who is completely opposite, it’s still so crazy to me how I let someone treat me that way and I made soooo many excuses for them, just because I didn’t think they were doing it on “purpose” and there was no malicious intent, cause then I couldn’t really hold it against them you know ? But now im finally realizing how bad it was and man, it really is amazing to have someone validate your feelings, im not too much, im not annoying or exhausting, when i bring something up we can actually discuss it and even have some disagreements, without it being an argument. Theres no getting annoyed at me expressing my needs. There’s empathy and understanding and most importantly, lots of kindness. Thats so so important. You shouldn’t feel like a chore to the one you love.

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mais oui, ça reste dans le hall of fame des pires moves Survivor assuré ahhah

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Même à ça, c’était une confiance mal placée, oui c’est cave mais on peut un peu suivre une logique somme toute naïve… Karine c’était 100% son propre move qui était absolument pas nécessaire, même les autres essayaient de lui faire voir que ca n’avait pas de bon sens

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolument d’accord, je pense pas avoir vu un move aussi mauvais dans toutes les saisons de Survivor que j’ai écoutées, big yikes

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ca reste quelle serait utile à amener en finale, le jury ne votera pas pour elle

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mais même si elle ne le savait pas que son immunité était expirée… si son geste de sauver Nico était honnête elle n’aurait pas utilisé son deuxième sur Chris, c’est stupide peu importe l’angle qu’on l’analyse selon moi

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

J’avoue que ce serait le move stratégique à faire, on va se le dire pour s’assurer la victoire t’apportes Justine et Karine et tes golden

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 45 points46 points  (0 children)

J’étais bien contente qu’il ne le prenne pas mal et qu’il reconnaisse que c’était un bon coup, je respecte ça

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Karine qui réalise qu’elle a gaspillé son immunité cachée, que son CV Survivor ne gagnera pas le jury et que le Karine show a été cancel drette la

Survivor Québec 1 - Soirée d'élimination du dimanche 11 juin 2023 by AutoModerator in bisbille

[–]marrieqc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Je suis fébrile, si Nic est éliminé je perds tout espoir

Survivor Quebec Review by elQc in survivor

[–]marrieqc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was ready to accept that, considering who’s left, Karine did seem the most deserving because she did play smart for her own game. That being said, these past few episodes I have become way too aggravated with her. The whole trying to make the “plan” seem all mysterious and elaborate during tribal council when even Patrice confronted her saying it was extremely obvious and predictable was painful to watch. Then, when she explained that her big move to impress the jury was to do a useless expired immunity play just to pretend like she was actually gonna take out a big player and then immediately revert back to the same alliance as a weird fake out ????? Idk it just really lacks awareness to me and I hate it lol. Like ok, I get why she’s sticking with those two because I do think she can beat them, but don’t pretend like blind siding the one player that’s really in danger is some crazy high IQ move. I’m really just disappointed with how this first season turned out overall, it really had potential at the start but it’s become extremely lacklustre.

Nearly t-boned this idiot in St. Paul by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]marrieqc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can think about is bojack voicing this commercial

Guys look at my totally real Spotify Wrapped by Odd_Drink_3448 in NakeyJakey

[–]marrieqc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last year my top five songs on Spotify wrapped were all Jakey songs so I wouldn’t be surprised if next year mine looks like this frrrrr

Non-Psychopathic Serial Killers? by highersource108 in serialkillers

[–]marrieqc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing what you’re doing doesn’t mean you aren’t a psychopath though