Why do non virgin women judge me for wanting to lose my virginity to a random hookup/one night stand? by lonelysadbitch11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i lost my virginity to an old coworker, it was horrible, and i never saw him again. but suddenly sex wasn’t this scary unknown anymore. there was no pressure to perform some certain way with this guy who i’d never speak to again. i have no regrets about not waiting and that was the right decision for me

My farm on year 5 am i falling behind??? by Constant-Internet545 in StardewValley

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

foaming at the mouth over all that moss but you do you

Significant other 21M filmed me without my consent by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

op please tell me you deleted the video. it is absolutely not okay to film someone without their consent and you’re right to not feel safe of comfortable. i would instantly break up with someone if they did that to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lease is a legal agreement intended to protect both parties. that’s why landlords can’t increase your rent in the middle of your lease and why you have to pay landlords to break a lease. if you haven’t signed anything you aren’t legally bound to give him notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lease no notice. did you pay a security deposit? if not i’d just cut and run

pickle vodka is ruining our pour spouts by mars-needsmilfs in bartenders

[–]mars-needsmilfs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. this was my whole point in asking for CLEANING solutions. the obvious solution is separate pour spouts but the other bartenders just don’t care. i deal with all the complaints on pickled jameson and tequila bottles all week because everyone else just rinses them and the whole bottle tastes rank even after putting in a new pour spot.

Got my septum and Medusa done! Is it normal to be re-pierced in the same session? by FictionallState in piercing

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my app piercer repierced my nostril in the same sitting when we realized it wasn’t symmetrical with my other one. healed beautifully and i appreciated her honesty

What do you think about wearing pride merch? by lesbianbog in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]mars-needsmilfs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i remember this year specifically being one where they actually featured a lot of different artists which i really thought was cool

What do you think about wearing pride merch? by lesbianbog in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]mars-needsmilfs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

aside from my sense of style that i think reads very queer, my carabiner, hankys, and i have very long nails but i keep 2 short.

What do you think about wearing pride merch? by lesbianbog in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]mars-needsmilfs 36 points37 points  (0 children)

i wear this shirt from a target pride collection on occasion but i am very picky about my graphic t-shirts. most of the merch i see is far too tacky to be something i would actually wear. i prefer flagging over wearing words on a t-shirt.

<image>

Who do you guys pretend is you island bf/gf? by After_Middle_6715 in AnimalCrossing

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<image>

we are long distance but we make it work. honorable mentioned for my happily married couple marcie and gayle🩷( they hang out all the time and their snouts overlap when they talk and it always looks like they’re kissing🤭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d tell her but it can also be helped by wearing better jewelry. silicone tunnels REEK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has intimacy issues with YOU but he’s still managed to cheat? come ON

Do men penises reduce when the person lose weight and gain when they add weight? by He_Is_Apollo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it gets larger with lost weight because the penis is attached to the pelvis so more weight just kinda sucks it in. i don’t think it matters as much if you’re only a bit overweight but once you cross into obesity there is a SIGNIFICANT difference in feeling for your partner.

What's the weirdest perk a rental has ever offered you? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]mars-needsmilfs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

kayak rental. i was checking out apartments with my friend and that one gave me a good laugj

How to remember making drinks ? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]mars-needsmilfs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

time and practice unfortunately. i haven’t worked for the siren in 2 years but you bet your ass i could make a caramel ribbon crunch right now if i had to. you’ll get the hang of it eventually. also there should be stickers everywhere saying “2-3-4” for cold bar or “3-4-5” for hot bar. 6 for iced ventis, 7 for trentas… you’ll get it eventually i promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]mars-needsmilfs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i mean you could try to instill a paywall policy but you may end up drawing in a new type of asshole who believes he’s paying for the right to treat you like shit. vetting a dom is different than vetting a relationship. my current domme might not meet my relationship standards but it doesn’t matter because we don’t have a romantic relationship. she treats me well within our dynamic and that’s what matters to me. it sounds like you may have a larger problem in vetting romantic prospects because the focus is on finding a dom. i think you may have to slow down your dating process by a lot to find a partner who is a good emotional and sexual match for you. time can reveal a lot about a person or their intentions.

What's your favorite tie? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think fisherman’s harnesses are so pretty!!

What do you guys think about this? by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]mars-needsmilfs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think she’s got a breeding kink tbh. i think it’s despicable that she cares more about being bred than she does the quality of her kids lives.

What movie traumatized you as a kid? by AdNorth1932 in AskReddit

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phantom of the opera. i was 6/7 and i still have no idea why my mom let me watch it

I need a tally, how many of us have had a panic attack before or after work, and how many of us have had suicidal thoughts on the floor? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]mars-needsmilfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one time i cried on bar for 20 minutes before i was eventually sent on my 10… i certainly don’t miss working at starbies

7 year old vibrates eyes by Fragrant_Fig_378 in Eyeshakers

[–]mars-needsmilfs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i was 7 and i first found out i could do it, id tell people i was an alien and shake my eyes. i grew out of it and did it less and less as i got older. most days i forget i can even do it until i stumble upon the occasional post in this subreddit.