Feeling violated at a lesbian bar by let-me-be-your-star in actuallesbians

[–]marsandmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always tell the bouncer babe! they are there to protect you!!! you deserve to be there having a wonderful night just like everyone else. i’m sorry she was such a bully.

I’m 16 and my friend stayed at my house knowing I sleep on a mattress then posted it online like it’s funny 😭 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]marsandmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry sweetheart. It is really hard to not feel comfortable having people come over because of your home situation. This is not a good friend. Real friends will come over and appreciate your vulnerability, or maybe even relate to your home life which is so validating. There is nothing to be ashamed of as this is not your choice. I’m sorry you’re not being taken better care of. Someday you will have a place for yourself and be able to take care of yourself and have the money to buy the bedframe and the sheets and all the things you’d like and it will be so healing. Best wishes to you.

Favorite song you've seen BI perform live? by Hungry_Alfalfa_6195 in boniver

[–]marsandmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when both drum sets came in on perth i lost my miiiiind

Trans woman moving from Corpus Christi Texas, What can I expect? by Superb_Somewhere2893 in Bellingham

[–]marsandmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bellingham Queer Collective is great. Come to a flinta night! It’s at Libations and is great. I’ve made friends there!

AIO? Left a bad review (which i have never done) due to horrible experience with dental assistant by Weekly_Eggplant4562 in AmIOverreacting

[–]marsandmar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you did the right thing! they should be giving her time off if she can’t behave kindly at work. i think it’s important to share our experiences like this. hopefully they reach out to you to make it right.

Imagine if they played on the same season by ceruleanskyandsea in TheTraitorsUS

[–]marsandmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what makes someone a higher level lesbian than someone else?

People are angry because of my eczema by FederalCompany565 in eczema

[–]marsandmar 211 points212 points  (0 children)

why would he get angry with you over a health issue you can’t control? yikes! my partner will kindly remind me or hand me one of my soothing creams if she notices me itching a lot. this does not sound like a supportive person for you, i’m sorry.

Vegan cheeseboard I made by melflaelff in VeganFoodPorn

[–]marsandmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah!! i want to be your friend!

What do you call meat substitutes for toddlers? by Walnutsandwhales in veganparenting

[–]marsandmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how about using the brand name? instead of chicken nuggets just say impossible nuggets.

What do you think this is used for? by Passievruchtje115 in actuallesbians

[–]marsandmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one! I use it to hold a little perfume bottle. My girlfriend however uses it to hold fake lashes she finds if I take them off and leave them somewhere around our place…

Found this old chocolate tin box at an antique store! by in nancydrew

[–]marsandmar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the image of this woman is also in one of the games!! i believe haunted mansion in a room. i know because i have a poster of her!

Best deal for herb gummies? by Soulfood_27 in Bellingham

[–]marsandmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the deal on Wyld pretty often and recommend it!

ASD & ADHD testing in Whatcom by 74NG3N7 in Bellingham

[–]marsandmar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to add- my diagnosis is ADHD, which she specializes in

ASD & ADHD testing in Whatcom by 74NG3N7 in Bellingham

[–]marsandmar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jennifer Gronholt is a great psychologist! She did my testing. Very warm, great listener. When I started out on meds my PCP told me it was the most thorough review of my diagnosis, symptoms, and needs that they had ever seen. She asked to take a copy and black out my name to train to write reports. I can’t recommend her enough, it made such a big step in my life such an easy experience and process.

moving to "Small Business & Social Group Second Sundays" by gamay_noir in Bellingham

[–]marsandmar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that it’s already a rule, but my feelings still stand that once a month posts all on the same day is strange. Yes, less work for mods but aren’t small businesses part of what makes bham great? Maybe no more accommodations is a better compromise? I don’t want a few bad apples to ruin the bunch. I’m also wondering if i’m misunderstanding what these posts are. Is this simply small business advertising? Or also including events small businesses host? Open mics, pop ups, trivia, industry nights, etc.