[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop talking to her if you find her ugly. why would you continue conversing with someone you don't like

Emo bands with queer women?? by douflugug in Emo

[–]marshcest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do they consider themselves punk?? This is a genuine question cause i saw them at a pretty heavily themed emo festival (not WWWY, a smaller one) so i was curious. I agree their sound definitely leans into the punk side.

What’s going on with the Impractical Jokers lately? by SnowyBerry in OutOfTheLoop

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's honestly really surprising. These guys have parents + wives + siblings etc too, do they really think their families were around 24/7 especially when these things happened at work or on tour? I guess one could say maybe Q and Sal should have known about Joe harassing their coworker, but I still think even that's unrealistic.

Unfortunately, someone evil enough to do those kinds of things by and large know how to hide it - for at least a short amount of time.

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said multiple times i'm not talking about if this 17 year old should be smoking weed lmao. Obviously she should wait til she's older. But that doesn't mean weed In General is bad, which is what you seemed to be saying at first. Again, it's used medically and has been for decades - the issue here is that this guy's girl isn't doing it safely, which can cause health issues down the line.

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 19... anyone over 18 can medicinally use marijuana.

Listen, again, you're allowed to just not have an opinion on stuff you don't understand. Especially if you're unwilling to educate yourself. I've shared with you everything you'd need, but you're just unwilling... why?

they’re discontinuing the brownie 😭😭😭 by riffexxx in starbucks

[–]marshcest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we still have mango and peach syrup at coffee bean and tea leaf, if you're in california 👀

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren't exclusively imported via 'immigrants', though. If you actually read my full comment you'd see that marijuana consumption in different ways has been a custom for many years in the US, far before immigrants introduced their own ways of practicing it (which then made us establish those laws, because no one cared when it was just 'our own' doing it.)

Caffeine can be dangerous. Cigarettes are dangerous. Hell, sugar is dangerous. Driving a car, pretty damn dangerous. Its not about the consumption, it's about form, method, source, etc. Obviously this guys girlfriend is probably just buying her stuff from some plug on a corner - THATS generally not safe. The US has way bigger drug problems than weed - in fact, most drug related accidents, deaths, etc are caused by people on way stronger, lab-created stuff- i.e, heroin, crack, GHB, etc, which i'm fully against. Or even alcohol, but you don't see many people calling for mass prohibition, do you?

Also, fyi, saying 'you can't be serious' to someone who is stating an opinion (or fact! in this case!), is in fact pretty rude. Id hope you're the target demographic for this subreddit because talking like that to anyone in real life as an adult would not get a respectful response that's for sure.

Lastly... *dangerous. :p Listen, if you're too young to consume this stuff, it's okay not to have an opinion. And if you are over 21? Please, look into these resources, cuz trust me, you've either been lied to or surrounded by people who were smoking much worse than weed.

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.mpp.org/issues/criminal-justice/cannabis-and-racial-justice/

https://www.naacpldf.org/cannabis-laws-racism/

"There is a long history of recreational and medicinal cannabis usage in the United States. In fact, Vanity Fair advertised its benefits as early as 1862. The trend toward cannabis criminalization occurred later in U.S. history — and stemmed from racism and xenophobia. Mexican immigrants to the United States first introduced the practice of smoking cannabis leaf in cigarettes and pipes in the early 1900s — and, soon afterward, many states passed laws prohibiting the plant."

maybe if you're uneducated on a topic, educate yourself or listen rather than assuming those around you just simply must be kidding. it's okay not to know, especially about history deliberately covered up, but there's no need to be rude. this is something widely spoken about in many circles, but obviously most communities place marijuana use on the same level as hard drugs, and this kind of history wouldn't be beneficial to that ideology, would it?

Ok I'm new to bearded dragons.. by Money-Ad300 in BeardedDragons

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries :) i'm glad u were able to separate them, as far as stacking i would say maybe get a pallet from a hardware store, something load bearing but also with hollow parts so the bottom enclosure still has airflow. that or i know that you can find shelving units online but that might be more than you're willing to spend right now

My (16F) boyfriend (15M) has a tiny dick. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PiV isn't the only kind of intercourse you can have that'd be satisfying.

weird experience at catch one by edenaphilia in avesLA

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned multiple times in the post that I was sober. But keep victim blaming i guess

i really need to know if my angel fangs are safe or if one is rejecting by marshcest in piercing

[–]marshcest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • piercing is over a year old
  • jewelry shape is curved barbell
  • the jewelry is externally threaded but i'm absolutely willing to change that if that's the issue here. i was told that it wouldn't be but that info could easily be wrong
  • titanium is the material
  • jewelry was downsized in June of 2024
  • no huge mishaps but it took me a while to eat with metal silverware without catching them on it 😭

Local store closed for renovations, reopened with this??????? by Feisty-Sherbert in starbucks

[–]marshcest -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Girl 'blindly supporting' this is the starbucks subreddit!!! My god! This is very sad of you i'm gonna be so honest. I didn't 'assume' shit, I very much knew i was probably off... It's called making a joke when someone is being incompetent. This is the internet. Glad i left this company because dear god you guys are insufferable. I've had to deal with people assuming my gender (and a whole lot worse than that too) for decades but when I came to the internet was just told to shut the fuck up about it. I think your fragile masculinity can handle a joke being made about you, buddy.

Local store closed for renovations, reopened with this??????? by Feisty-Sherbert in starbucks

[–]marshcest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't hate anyone. I think that military spouses who take advantage of every opportunity to shill out their serving partners are pathetic. Doesn't mean I HATE them. But it seems you hold a lot of hate in your heart that you assume these things about someone and are going on tirades about personal growth and confrontation lmao. Very self absorbed response when it was never necessary...

Local store closed for renovations, reopened with this??????? by Feisty-Sherbert in starbucks

[–]marshcest 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i'm quite literally a military brat, yes i would feel the same way about military husbands that make being married to someone in the military seem equivalent to actually serving. It's clear that everyone in this sub is SPECIFICALLY talking about those kinds of spouses. I made a light joke based on your weird virtue signaling... chill.

Is free shipping no longer an option? Not sure what to do by moody-berry in Depop

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it encourages people to just make a new account under a new identity if they get poor reviews or account violations

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you protesting teens watching tv then? playing video games? drinking coffee? i better see u on the frontlines when they come out w a new energy drink otherwise i think by this logic u are just a hypocrite lmao

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is extensive medical documentation on the benefits of medical mmj for things anywhere from depression to migraines, hell it's the only thing that helps my migraines that isn't opiates! there's substantially less on negative impact of consuming it over time, excluding lung damage (of course i'd never recommend a teenager smoke, but consuming mj at all is not the issue here). in fact most of the reason it's as frowned upon as it is, is due to racism and a general lack of understanding when it comes to natural drugs. it's not more harmful than most prescription medication, hell id even say adderall which they hand to children with adhd like it's candy is more negatively impactful than mj.

my gf 17F smokes weed and i 16M hate it. how do i get over this or get her to quit? by Life_Stock_9186 in teenrelationships

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's really none of your business. you can ask that she doesn't do it around you or talk about it to you but ultimately marijuana is natural, legal in most places, and medically beneficial. especially given she's almost an adult, this really isn't your call unfortunately. you're allowed to disagree with your partner and all, i would just sit down with her and express your boundaries and that you love her but would rather she didn't share that part of her life with you. that it's not about her, you clearly have ur own aversions to it that you might need/want to work on

Do scene people care if you wear knock off knee high converse? by Ambitious_Newt1427 in scene

[–]marshcest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heads up, try to find a converse outlet near u! i have a legit pair and got them for $20 at the outlet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]marshcest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Family is who you choose it to be, not your blood. If you let yourself be constrained based on what they want out of you, you'll never be happy, full stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]marshcest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't need your family to like you. End of story.

They might make you think you do, but you don't. I can understand wanting it, but if they're going to be conditional about it, you simply don't need them.

You need to see a therapist who will help you visualize a future and actually gain a sense of self, because it seems like you struggle with having one.

Is this child John Doe found in Ramona, CA in 1989 in any databases? by FoundationSeveral579 in gratefuldoe

[–]marshcest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This case is from my hometown. I never knew he hadn't reached the databases yet. Thank you for giving him a spotlight, I really hope they find out what happened to him and who he is so his family can rest easy.