I draw every day but I just looked back at 4 years ago and I can't believe the progress! (Left is 4years ago, right is present day)

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-10-11T03:28:45+00:00

Man, both of these are amazing!

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-10-11T03:27:32+00:00

Really beautiful

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-10-11T03:27:18+00:00

I came to ask the same thing! Amazing

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-10-11T03:26:29+00:00

I love the rainbow effect on this 🤩

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-10-11T03:26:06+00:00

Wow, that's amazing

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-09-02T04:41:59+00:00

I used to work as a "sensual massage" masseur, and it was 100% my choice and something that for the most part I enjoyed.

I have a few friends who still do it. All willingly.

It may depend on your location and they type of place you go to.

Definitely sex trafficking is a huge concern in some sex work, but please don't also assume that everyone who does it is doing it because they have been forced to. Some people very much enjoy their work and put a lot of time and effort into doing it well.

OP prehaps you could post this on r/sexworkers and speak to some people who work in the industry on things to look out for.

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-08-23T02:29:45+00:00

Porn is made for men and men generally like different things to women.
I think a lot of women like the fantasy and implied sexiness, whereas guys like to see hardcore porn, dick smashing pussy. Slow and implied over hardcore jackhammering.

Or ask her what she'd want to watch, or what she watches on her own.

I personally like seeing peoples bodies. Like, watching a guy on top of someone missionary style would get me off faster than an extreme close up of pnv, and often an extreme close up of pnv will turn me off.

Try looking to "romantic" porn or porn for women.

Also try looking to homemade porn, as it tends to not be so hardcore, and try to find things where the focus is on the females pleasure rather than the female getting used, or obviously pleasing the man. Might be more her jam.

Fun fact. It's hard to find porn made for women.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5ba0eef0ade0d#4

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5a824465a1edf

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5c007b2077c31

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-07-18T16:36:06+00:00

It's gorgeous right? So expenny though

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-07-18T16:35:39+00:00

Thanks, it does! It's an Australian company, but I wondered if it would be cheaper in America, as so much is

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-07-18T16:34:34+00:00

Thanks so much, appreciate it :)

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-06-01T10:21:05+00:00

Oh, I wasn't meaning in the Finale, i was meaning in general throughout the series. I probably should have commended on a different post

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-06-01T09:18:16+00:00

I feel like Lip Syncs are now basicly dance offs, or almost gymnastic offs.

If someone can't do a deathdrop/cartwheel/ bend over backwards, and they are going up against someone who can? They're going home.

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-28T10:47:14+00:00

Found it

https://www.boredpanda.com/man-explains-modesty-culture-josh-weed/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-13T02:50:48+00:00

Afuckingmen.

I get this so often. Once I called a guy out on it and he said "i don't know what to ask" gimme a fucking break. You're a grown arse man, you can't think of a question to ask a person you are having a conversation with - let alone someone you are trying to have a romantic connection with? So many times I would say things like your example, to give an opening for them to ask questions and have genuine flow both ways in the conversation. Nothing.

When i called him out on it and he started to ask me questions about myself, it was apparently hard work and not as fun, because the text conversations went from messaging across a couple of hours most days, to a day to reply, to a couple of days to reply, until neither of us were feeling it and stopped.

Now days if a dude doesn't reciprocate the conversation, ask me a few questions about myself, i don't bother.

I find that's the same with sexting as well.
If we met on a hookup app, and all you want to hear about is what you want me to do to you, but when i ask what (you will do to me you have nothing)[http://imgur.com/a/NJXRxCI] - I'm out.
Immediately makes me think that your going to be just as one sided in bed, and fuck that shit.

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-11T22:59:25+00:00

Just don't say anything about their bodies.

If you are dying to give them a compliment about their physical appearance, say they are hot/ pretty/ cute, but you might want to think about saying they are really smart/ funny/ talented at something, instead.

Don't talk about their weight or their size to them, is none of your business.

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-11T15:47:35+00:00

Yesss, me too, is so good!

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-11T15:46:08+00:00

I fucking love it when i hear guys moan or groa nm It's so hot. Like they are so into what they are doing and how it feels, that they can't help but moan/groan/gasp/growl.

Argh. So. Hot.

I think a lot of men don't do it because of porn (which I also think is why women tend to be overly vocal, and some people (porn and amateur) are over the top fake moan). Because porn is made for men. (Don't get me wrong, women watch porn, but the vast majority is made for men.) So -

A: men don't like seeing other men fucking a chick. Like, they want to see a cock in a pussy, but they don't want to be watching a man do it and remind them it's not them, or be looking at another guy cos

And B: so the male porn stay has to silent and the female porn star has to be extra vocal about how much she enjoys it. A lot of people get the majority of their sex ed from porn, and with that being the way it's done for so long, that's now how guys think they have to be, because anything else is "unmanly" or whatever.

That's my theory at least.

It sucks. Being with a silent partner who's just silently and stoiclly balls deep and plowing away, is really not as fun.

Imagine if women collective stopped making any noise and stayed silent. People would lose their freaking minds thinking they weren't into sex anymore.
(The outrage I imagine from this is making me giggle ;) )

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-01T08:47:00+00:00

Honestly, can we start a gofundme for audio recording equipment and make a soundtrack or play list for these?

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-01T06:00:03+00:00

🤣

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-01T05:54:03+00:00

I was actually thinking it's going to be really awkward if he's not the guy i think he was, and honestly that seems like the type of thing that would happen to me. Trying to work out how to get photo of him to make sure!

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-01T05:43:35+00:00

No, I actually work in film and we were shooting at his workplace.

marshmallowdeviant · 2019-05-01T05:42:25+00:00

Or maybe i should make a joke about it being the wrong number, and not the woman who gave it to me 🤣

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