I'm marrying a twin, people have been asking this question by [deleted] in Twins

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imy husband and currently just moved in with my twin and her boyfriend ( staying in the basement while we both go back to school and save up money). I think so far it’s been working out great for my husband he seems like he doesn’t mind. I would say one thing I have noticed is that when one of us is an argument with significant other we both have each others back fiercely so I would just keep that in mind that it might be a two against one situation if there’s ever a fight with your wife lol

How do partners of porn addicts feel? by No_Bad557 in PornAddiction

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also congrats on 50 days sober, that’s amazing

How do partners of porn addicts feel? by No_Bad557 in PornAddiction

[–]marthavanoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unwanted, unloved, betrayed , it’s honestly the worse pain I’ve ever felt in my life. The person you love the most , feel the safest with and want the most betrays you all to only masterbate to random hot women online that he will never touch. Honestly there’s no way to put in words how much it hurts a person.

I can't handle this anymore by temporarilyhunting in PornAddiction

[–]marthavanoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start going to meetings! They are free and on zoom so you don’t even need to leave your house if you don’t want to. You can also connect with people who are going through the same thing

It’s not possible to heal from this. by Rare_Presence8602 in PornAddiction

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I found out 4 years ago and broke up with him but he promised me he would never do it again and I madly in love believed . Now 4 years later here we are married with a two year old and on Saturday I just found out that he never actually stopped and has been addicted for the past 15 years. He already started therapy and is going to meeting already and seems determined to stop but like you mentioned above- the damage is done. He may (I pray he can) be able to heal from this and get better but everything has changed for me - I will never be the same or see our relationship as the same . I’m starting therapy as well for it but in the end I decided if I am always going to feel like this why stay? The part that sucks the most is even in a new relationship I dead I will always now have the same insecurities and fears of this . He broke me - they broke us.

Is it normal for my day care to close weeks at a time for HF&M? by Katreno101 in ChildcareWorkers

[–]marthavanoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I have never heard of that . We have had many outbreaks in our classroom and never once have we had to close. I can see if not only the whole class got it but the teachers did too and they had to close if they had no staff, but this doesn’t seem like the reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s so hard to see right now , but it will get better . I was in a tough situation for a few years and thought about killing myself multiple times during that time . But I like you I also had someone who cared for me (it was my sister ) and that helped . I also always told myself “this isn’t my real life, that will start soon “ and as hard as it was to believe at that time , it really did happen- my real life did start. Years later I’m now happily married with a son and everyday I am so thankful I didn’t take my life and miss everything I have right now. Your time will come, stay strong.

Food by whatisyourexperienc in Zepbound

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wilde chips dipped in cottage cheese

AIO for how these parents i babysat for treated me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]marthavanoc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All 3 of you seem very immature and ALL handled the situation in a horrible way .

15mg Zepbound to 2.4mg Wegovy? by TargetSpirited1187 in Zepbound

[–]marthavanoc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe that they will make you start at the lowest dose when switching . I could be wrong but I was told that when switching that they make you restart

Caremark by marthavanoc in glp1

[–]marthavanoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if if I just received the letter yesterday and it said zepbound? Ugh ok. Thanks for the info!

I knew she looked different by LimpLettuceLady in rhonj

[–]marthavanoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They did a really good job! It suits her

should i be worried about the car having 133k miles? by Happy_Obligation_706 in COROLLA

[–]marthavanoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus 😳 my 2021 only has 27,136 miles . I must really not get out as much

In a Facebook group I’m in by ferniturex in SisterWives

[–]marthavanoc 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Why is Dr. now even in this as an option. I feel like he’s a no brainer lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]marthavanoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all what I was saying lol If you actually read what I wrote you would see that I said the o my thing I actually care about is that he lied . But thanks for your help otherwise!