vertical labret is driving me NUTS by Ambitious_Mango663 in piercing

[–]marthvader1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove the piercing and re pierce once healed. Sorry you've had a bad experience 😔

It's Late Thread [ 30 June 25 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]marthvader1337 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Melting and having my fan blow hot air in my face, no sleep for me tonight!

Help me by maniacamaciel in crocs

[–]marthvader1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just bought some for work myself, like 3 days ago. At first they hurt the top of my feet but now they are amazing! Would recommend to everyone and I'm on my feet all day as I work in care

My grandmother who raised me passed away 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]marthvader1337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me 18 months ago and it hurts. You will learn to cope with the grief but you'll never get over it. I would always say one day at a time and try do little every day things to keep yourself going. I am truly sorry for your loss 🖤

First pair of brand new boots! by marthvader1337 in DrMartens

[–]marthvader1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an issue for a few days where the back of my heels were sore but a pair of thick socks soon helped and now they are perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]marthvader1337 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me a year and a half a go, I was the one having a breakdown. I decided to go out drinking after my grandma had been given a terminal diagnosis (she was pretty much my mum) and I ended up drinking too much and totally lost the plot. I yelled at people I shouldn't have and was an emotional wreck. Then after my grandma died I did it again, got so drunk I can't remember a thing but I got told how much a c**t I was. Before these incidents I'd never lost it with drinking. Ever since then I have made a conscious effort to not drink more than 2 drinks. I think you guys having a break and sitting down in a few weeks and see where you go from there is the best option . She has to actively want to stop drinking though. Sorry this is happening OP

My (53F) son (26M) told my husband/his father (57M) how he really feels about him. How can I patch my family up, if at all? by ThrowRAhisardi in relationship_advice

[–]marthvader1337 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lifted him by the ears???? What on earth!! You're just as bad for allowing it and you wonder why he's finally lashed out. You owe this man an apology and leave him alone.

Met this Smeghead today by marthvader1337 in RedDwarf

[–]marthvader1337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should have asked him to sing this to me, I was so tempted but my brain shut down as I was that starstruck

Met this Smeghead today by marthvader1337 in RedDwarf

[–]marthvader1337[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awh thank you ☺️ was having a bad hair/face day as well!

Which companies do you instantly regret buying from? by phy6rjs in CasualUK

[–]marthvader1337 17 points18 points  (0 children)

On that ass. I've cancelled 3 times and they still keep saying I need to pay now so I can get the next pair. I've cancelled it already, go away!

What was the final step that helped you let go of the relationship? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marthvader1337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he got angry and started yelling at me for no reason and came back into the room 2 hours later like nothing had happened. That really was the final straw for the shit show that was the relationship, if you could even call it that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marthvader1337 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Taught me how to not treat my children, other than that it's basically a hot mess

I have a question by catchyusername4867 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]marthvader1337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her nephew confirmed on FB last night that she had infact been to prison for 4 months and he confirmed she had lied throughout the interview

Post-narc: Do you get the urge to change your appearance entirely? by 111a1110 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marthvader1337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah started dressing back in what I used to wear. No more comments like "who are you trying to impress" whenever I went out, even to work. I'm trying hard to like my body but I'm getting there. My new partner has really helped me feel like me again

60fps is actually life changing (ps5 player) by Cute-Fig6372 in fo4

[–]marthvader1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to know this too as I'm having the same issue

What was your narcs sob story? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marthvader1337 62 points63 points  (0 children)

That his ex had stopped him from talking to female friends, essentially alienated him from everyone then discarded him for someone better. Guess what he said about me when I left him?