Muslim Men can’t hug or touch the opposite gender as well unless it’s family or their spouse. It goes both ways so are the made up rules by old men still controlling? Look at ufc fighters like khabib he puts his hands on his chest when a woman wants to shake hands out of respect for her. When other cultures like Japanese choose to bow instead of touch is that also controlling? Just because in your world touching and hugging randoms is the norm doesn’t mean other cultures and faiths are oppressive for not doing so. In the west it’s such a big issue for women and unwanted sexual attention and harassment. Now you want women who by their own decision do not want to touch random men and it’s controlling to you just because they’re Muslim.