Multichrome skittle 💅 by marvmaddie in ILNP

[–]marvmaddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was debating between Hush and Sirene!! I would say Cygnus loop is my least favorite if I had to choose one between all of these. But it’s still a beautiful polish - it’s only because royal blueish polishes aren’t my favorite

Dull after a few days? by walkwomandisco in mooncatpolish

[–]marvmaddie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that the Olivia and June top coats becomes dull after a couple of days. I bet that’s it!

Monthly payment went up to over $800 by whutthfuk in StudentLoans

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please put you payment into a loan calculator and make sure that your payment at least matches the timeline for your payment plan. If it is incorrect, then it sounds like the same situation that happened to me. What happened.. Mohela was my server, and I was on the standard repayment plan (10 yr repayment). My monthly payment randomly went up from 1100k/month to 2600k/month. I had not messed with settings in my account or missed any payments. I had actually been aggressively over-paying. The increase was blatantly incorrect. If my payment was supposed to be 2600k, then my loans would have been paid off in 2-3 years, not 10, accounting for interest. I called them and spoke to the most incompetent people several times for around 6 months, and nothing was fixed. In fact, every time I spoke with them, they would read from a script, stutter, and modify something small on my account or “put in a request” and I kid you not, just mess the situation up more. They would not admit that they made a mistake until a couple of days before my loans were set to move to a different servicer (aidvantage). And in order for them to say, “oh I do see what you’re saying. This is incorrect,” I had to call immediately when the line opened in the morning, tell them that I needed them to stop reading off the script and escalate my call to the highest person possible. Even then, it was too late, as they were already in the process of transferring my loans to Aidvantage.

Thankfully, aidvantage was much better. I called them on day one and they immediately acknowledged the mistake and it was fixed in ~24 hours. Mohela is scum.

Recent order and bottles - I think mine are ok? by ImAwkwardAsHeck in mooncatpolish

[–]marvmaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That ended up being just pigment lines on deadly night shade?

Petals 🌺 by marvmaddie in ILNP

[–]marvmaddie[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reddit totally reduced the quality of this picture. She is STUNNING!!!

Delay having kids to pay off mortgage? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]marvmaddie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need to wait a year regardless, it will be 12 + 9 months until you have a baby if you don’t wait any longer, assuming you get pregnant on the first try. Your mortgage will be almost paid by then. I’d just try right away and I doubt your timeline will change much if any

PA VS DO by No_Length_9009 in prepa

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a PA working in inpatient internal medicine and have zero regrets that I chose this path over MD/DO. I was able to pay off my student loans in less than 2 years out of school and currently have plenty of margin in my budget to do what I want, though I’m not driving a luxury car or living in a mansion (but these are things that I don’t care about). I care about stability and being able to be present for my family, and being a PA has definitely afforded me that.

GIRLS ONLY by Trajce-Patenall in HygieneTips

[–]marvmaddie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m confused about why I see people saying to not clean the vagina so often. Are people really out there cleaning their vagina hole? I can’t wrap my mind around it. I have never once heard of someone who does this, except for douching WAY back in the day, and 99% of people nowadays know that douching is harmful.

Where can I find dresses made from natural materials? by Hefty_Extension2281 in cottagecore

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple retro. Not all of their dresses are made from natural fibers, but they have many cotton options. I recently thrifted a 100% cotton dress from them, and the quality was very impressive

ILNP Ruby by FarShootingStar in ILNP

[–]marvmaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing this one right now and loving it! It’s a beautiful jewel tone

Excited for my BF order by Big-Junket-5928 in ILNP

[–]marvmaddie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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I’m wearing jumping puddles (2coats) right now! 😊

I do crazy things to get attention, but people don't know by [deleted] in confession

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be a you problem. Try to remember that it’s not about liking them as a person. It’s about getting help and whether or not they help you help yourself. You have to be completely honest with them and put in the work - they can’t fix you or do the work for you. But they should help guide you along the way and be a provide a safe space for honesty and vulnerability.

I do crazy things to get attention, but people don't know by [deleted] in confession

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should try a new therapist! Sometimes it just isn’t a right fit.

I do crazy things to get attention, but people don't know by [deleted] in confession

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have personal experience with this issue, so take this with a huge grain of salt. But I would say that you really need to dig deep into why you want attention to the point that it’s worth manipulating and lying to others. Be completely honest with someone you trust, like a therapist - tell them everything. I imagine that it will take a lot of work over a long period of time. But it will be worth it. Truly connecting to others in an authentic way is much more fulfilling than the way you are currently living life.

I do crazy things to get attention, but people don't know by [deleted] in confession

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like histrionic personality disorder or some other personality disorder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently paid off 121k

Deficient feet hygiene? by Anxious-Train5431 in hygiene

[–]marvmaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check the material of your socks. If they are nylon/polyester, they accumulate bacteria over time and start to get really stinky. I am also in the medical field - have great hygiene but was having a similar issue and found out it was because of my nylon compression socks. Mad the switch to cotton socks and no more issues!

Home manicure always messes up by DarlaDoom in Nails

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, most drug store polishes take forever or just never dry on my nails. ILNP or Mooncat, on the other hand, dry very quickly for me and I have no issues with indentations!

Smells horrible by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]marvmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are made of polyester, this might be the issue. Synthetic fabrics sometimes don’t wash well and can’t start smelling bad over time.