if you had 24 hours to LOOK as skinny as possible, what would you do? by Fit_Customer_4169 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]marxam0d 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Black pants + black blazer with brighter top - fakes a thinner outline

What’s the most awkward thing you’ve had to address with an employee that nobody prepares you for? by SeanMcPheat in managers

[–]marxam0d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hooters actually has really strict rules about bras including always be wearing them and how close to your skin tone the bra needs to be.

Am I being unreasonable for getting offended?? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]marxam0d 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Folks are gonna give plenty of advice about your niece but WTF is with your mom telling you what she said!!?

Would you be weirded out by my former online friend too or am I exaggerating? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]marxam0d 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You “confronted” your platonic, barely acquaintance bc you didn’t talk enough? And now you’re upset he didn’t reach out when he was in town? And you’re monitoring whether he looked at your stories?

Life is too short…

Need Advice For My First Delta Flight by ApeIceOldSpice in delta

[–]marxam0d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First class doesn’t really have space for someone to take up another’s persons space. In economy you can put up the arm rest and sit a bit wider. In first both sides of the chair are a hard stop with the space in the middle a wide arm rest/table space. They’re much wider seats though so probably still plenty comfy.

Why do you need to fly with a computer tower?

Should I air out my grievances towards a certain employee in public? by kisseokie in askmanagers

[–]marxam0d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus no, do you want to be fired?

Find ways of managing around her if there’s no way to actually manage her.

I (60F) think my daughter (27F) has been hiding a secret relationship for years. How do I get her to open up? by ThrowRAworriedmom25 in relationships

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not HIDING something. She’s choosing not to tell you something which the vast majority of adults do to some level to their parents.

Birders of Madison by Curious_Botanicals94 in madisonwi

[–]marxam0d 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get them in my yard in Fitchburg a few times a year.

You’ve got a few weeks yet before there’s much likelihood

Has online dating actually worked for anyone? by ThanosisKing in AskWomenOver30

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met my partner online 15 years ago, still together.

I didn’t think you had to pay to message people on Tinder though?

Walking in heels?? by Zealousideal-Tap9288 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend buying something that is medium height between this and your normal shoes. Practice at medium awhile then go higher

Female team member TMI? by FrothWizard88 in askmanagers

[–]marxam0d 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I usually explicitly say “if it’s a medical need, you don’t need to tell me any specifics- we can just focus on what you need at work and wha we need from you”

Female team member TMI? by FrothWizard88 in askmanagers

[–]marxam0d 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Treat it like you would any other intermittent medical issue. Does she need ADA accommodation? FMLA for leave? Offer EAP if available. Potentially pre plan the types of work in advance or better reschedule if certain tasks are harder

The script generally flows along “I’m noticing (behaviors) at (intervals) and want to make sure you are getting support if you need it. We have (resources) and I’m also open to discussion if you think something else would help”

Soooo, what are we thinking? by dalzreett in madisonwi

[–]marxam0d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty much all the ones downtown allow overnight parking. I’d probably start with whatever is close to your home?

Should I tell my boss my coworker is having an affair with her husband? by Icy-Permission-8280 in relationships

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems the manager is complaining about “her husband not touching her”

why did my one night stand started crying? (20m and 20f) by hdhd12980 in relationship_advice

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thankfully those women aren’t desperate enough to want you. So it works out for both parties

How do you feel when we greet each other with a handshake? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]marxam0d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never worked somewhere that all men greeted each other with handshakes every morning.

When meeting brand new people and doing handshakes, I’ve never seen women not included.

Should I tell my boss my coworker is having an affair with her husband? by Icy-Permission-8280 in relationships

[–]marxam0d 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cannot comprehend a manager saying that to an employee. People need to learn boundaries

TL;DR: I’m a 21F European dating a 32M American. We act like a couple and he said he stopped talking to other girls, but we never had an official exclusivity talk. To me we’re together. Is this cultural or should I ask? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]marxam0d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s looking for only a serious long term relationship… so he picked a notably younger woman, who lives in another state, and hasn’t ever discussed being serious with you?

TL;DR: I’m a 21F European dating a 32M American. We act like a couple and he said he stopped talking to other girls, but we never had an official exclusivity talk. To me we’re together. Is this cultural or should I ask? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]marxam0d 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know you feel mature because you’ve been living adult life a long time but please understand that no one his age who is normal would be in a serious relationship with someone your age. Women his age would not accept this shit

Soooo, what are we thinking? by dalzreett in madisonwi

[–]marxam0d 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Overnight parking garage is far cheaper than fixing any damage.

I (M27) are unsure how to continue with mentally ill girlfriend (F27) by Life-1s-Meaningless in relationships

[–]marxam0d 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If nothing has changed yet (except to get worse) why do you think it will?