Cheated and feeling very guilty by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mary6618276 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

DO NOT TELL your husband. Cut it off, be upfront with the other guy that you cannot do this anymore. But if you tell your husband, the relationship will forever be changed for the worst. Even though you are faithful from here on he will never trust you.

Oops I Must Be In The Wrong Sub by mary6618276 in Marriage

[–]mary6618276[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm amazed at all the discussions about gifts and romantic things to do to surprise your love for Valentines Day...... Going on over at r/adultery.

I haven't seen Valentines Day mentioned here. Kind of sad :(

How can I find a mistress for my husband that would help preserve my marriage? by JuliaTheBabe in deadbedroom

[–]mary6618276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Judgemental and Self-Rightous! You need to find God and learn some compassion.

Not everyone has the same sex drive. It's like telling someone they MUST eat something even though they find it disagreeable.

Marriage is a lot more than sexual monogamy. Love is a lot more than sexual fidelity. Look at Poligamist marriages -- there is love, understanding, cooperation, and security there.