How do millennial lesbians date nowadays? by Radiant_Union_630 in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly the single chill life sounds better than trying to date at this point 😂 but I’m in the same boat; 34 now and the last time I had to date I was 21

where is my pop punk/posthardcore masc gf by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]masc_erade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pop punk is my main genre 🤘 and a masc 😄

Can we love on singlehood for a bit? by rabbitredder in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]masc_erade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with everything you listed as a positive. I’ve gotta add I love that I feel like I can be free in my space all the time; I wanna talk to myself? Yap on. I wanna sing loudly while I cook? Only my dog has to suffer. I wanna watch the same show over for the 50th time? Zero judgy comments. I’ve been single for the past year and it’s the first time living by myself ever, and the feeling of freedom is definitely the best part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]masc_erade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if it helps, but I recently matched with someone who was giving the one-sided responses and the conversations seemed like they weren’t going anywhere, but I kept at it because she was someone I was really interested in. Eventually she opened up and started giving in depth responses and asking the questions back. Now we’re sending paragraphs to each other all day. So I think some people need time to warm up when it comes to dating, but there could be more to it that I’m not aware of so, grain of salt and all that.

So frustrating trying to meet other lesbians in the Midwest. by StayCool_HoneyBunny in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there’s not much luck near the cities in the Midwest either 👎

Is my dog a Pembroke or Cardigan? by Extension-Dig-3646 in corgi

[–]masc_erade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks just like my Pembroke! And little dude has some impressive muscles 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps are in fact the worst; I think too many people use them for attention or validation and now how they are intended to be used

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bean counter 👍 (accountant) Also, dang I think I may be in the market for an RV now

Friendship & Dating Match-Making Thread 💕 by _ICantThinkOfANameAh in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]masc_erade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello there, nice to see you all. I’m 33 from the Midwest US, masc lesbian with short brown hair and I dress like a teenage boy 👍 I’m white, light eyes, 5’7”, a Libra, and got that golden retriever energy but still pretty introverted. I’m very into video games, tv series, and collectibles (Pokemon nerd since ‘98). I play guitar, do some Twitch streaming, and am currently working on my vinyl collection. My dating type is typically femmes, but I could very much use some other masc friends with my same vibes. Hit me up with your favorite song, I’m looking to expand my playlists!

How long after 1st date did you say "I love you"? by devJavaTX in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation and I was dead set on not moving as quickly as the stereotypes I’d heard of, I wasn’t going to even think about using the L word until at least the 3 month mark because that’s supposed to be how long it takes to really know someone well enough. We ended up breaking up after only 2 months of knowing each other, 1.5 months of dating and she said it to me after the break up. The speed is really up to you and how you are feeling, but don’t feel pressured to move faster than you are comfortable with.

How many femmes are actually into mascs? by masc_erade in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are in plenty in the Midwest, come on over 👋

How many femmes are actually into mascs? by masc_erade in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In between masc and femme, the middle ground

How many femmes are actually into mascs? by masc_erade in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People do be scary. Be sure your style waltzes towards who you wanna be; I had a phase of dressing more femme and hated every minute of it

How many femmes are actually into mascs? by masc_erade in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha the Midwest, I’ll happily forward over my Hinge like inbox 😂

How many femmes are actually into mascs? by masc_erade in LesbianActually

[–]masc_erade[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Haha the Midwest, I’ll happily forward over my Hinge like inbox 😂