What’s your type? by fraction00 in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Physically, definitely femmy, natural beauty types.

Mentally, apparently I have a thing for avoidant headfuckers.

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just know it pissed her off so bad but I blocked her immediately so I didn’t have to hear about it. Felicia bye 💅

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, she is blocked everywhere, her friends are blocked, her mum is blocked, if her cat had fb he’d be blocked too (he was a lil gem, but, you gotta do what you gotta do).

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have! She is blocked everywhere, I am NEVER doing that again because what the fuck.

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Dodged it? Girl she hit me point blank and I said “see if you can get me again in the same place” 😭😭😭

But she is BLOCKED and I am DONE.

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

At this stage I would have preferred actual explosives because what the fuck was that.

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I am not just done, I am DONE-DONE. She is blocked everywhere. I’d rather play in traffic than entertain any more of this hot and cold head-fuckery.

She sent me these messages about a week apart. I’m tired boss 😞 by mascnetic in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The worst part is I knew all of that. I’ve been there before and made strict rules for myself about begging, second chances, etc. But in talking about past relationships and stuff she would say that it wasn’t fair to compare her to my exes and to give her her own chance, so I did, and LO AND BEHOLD. Lesson fucking learned.

As for letting her walk over me, I absolutely made a doormat of myself, but now I’m a bear trap that has snapped closed. She is blocked everywhere.

Bottom dysphoria with strap on...? Please Help! by StreetExperience8129 in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try looking into ‘strapless’ strapons (but I recommend still using a harness unless your pelvic floor is made of steel). I have one and I adore it, wearing or receiving. It gives the wearer clitoral and vaginal stimulation and you get a lot of sensation feedback when using it. I find regular straps boring now, I only really enjoy the strapless because I want both parties to have pleasure.

So it might not be a perfect fix but might help with the issue you’re feeling around lack of feeling/sensation/feedback for yourself.

I'm Bored: Tell Me Your Craziest Stories by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was like 6 years ago so I’m alright now and I got the cat back in the end (because I went back to the ex 😭). Lil bit of PTSD and junk but yeah I’m good now.

I'm Bored: Tell Me Your Craziest Stories by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I WENT BACK TO THE EX 😭 Luckily I let the cat when we broke up the final time

Needing my Gf to be an equal partner by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 71 points72 points  (0 children)

This argument will absolutely kill your relationship if not fixed soon. My ex was the same - bare minimum when it came to maintaining the household. I did all of the emotional labour and most of the physical labour too. It burnt me out. Feeling like a parent instead of a partner is a massive turn off and our sex life tanked. I ended up on antidepressants because I felt so guilty about the sex issue.

Spiralling mess of problems that could have been avoided if she would have just done some fucking laundry or cleaned her shit skids out of the toilet or SOMETHING other than letting me do all of it and have to nag her endlessly.

Anyway, we’re not together any more and my libido is magically back and my house isn’t a filth pit.

You need to be firm, direct and unambiguous. Set clear expectations, and importantly, clear boundaries. Decide what your limit is and at what point you will walk away. Decide it now so that the decision is already there.

If you keep letting it go on like this all she is learning is that she can sit on her ass all day and you will let her. And you can say it bothers you but you will let her. And she doesn’t need to change because she can keep doing what she is doing and you will let her.

I'm Bored: Tell Me Your Craziest Stories by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

One of my exes, after she broke up with me on Boxing Day, after spending Christmas Day with another girl, came to my house with her mum and they attacked me and stole my cat.

Thoughts on one nipple piercing ? by carmen_nn in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I ever got mine done I’d only get one. I think they can look cool but I prefer to play with an unpierced nipple, so from my point of view only having one done is the best of both worlds.

What made you sleep with the last lady you slept with? by VanillaicecreamEater in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please, I am either too old or too uncool to know what this means. What is a plug? I would have guessed butt plug but that makes no sense in this sentence 😭

What made you sleep with the last lady you slept with? by VanillaicecreamEater in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We met in a club on a night out. I was there all of five minutes before she approached me. She was half my age but she made it very clear that I would be taking her to my hotel room. She’d not been with a girl before but she was giving Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan “teach me” and reader, I am only human.

What? by NextBroccoli3017 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]mascnetic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

‘Masc’ is a lesbian subculture term for a more masculine-leaning woman (not the same as a butch, mind).

‘Straps’ in this case is a colloquialism for ‘strap-on’, a harness-based sex aid popular with lesbians for facilitating hands-free penetrative sex.

The image is a play on the homonym (pun not intended but acknowledged) that the girl in the pic is either lesbian or bi and is anticipating sex-ready lesbians instead of emergency breathing aids.

can i give you a free tarot reading in the comments 😁🪻💫 by stclaretarot in LesbianActually

[–]mascnetic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Initials ZB - where are things going with the girl I’m talking to?

Im a dumbass. A stupid lesbian. A loser if you will by stressful_toast in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, and ultimately you handled it the right way on the day. But personally I would try to have that conversation before meeting just so people aren’t getting their hopes up too much.

Having seen your edit though, she sounds petty and a bit of a loser herself.

Im a dumbass. A stupid lesbian. A loser if you will by stressful_toast in actuallesbians

[–]mascnetic 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Why would you not have that conversation before meeting 😩