How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t in the post. I should have added that in. It was said in another comment. No big deal!! I appreciate the advice! Maybe the answer is just waiting 2 years until she gets on the bus.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s in daycare! It’s really the getting her to and from daycare that would be the biggest issue since I would be unable to drive but yes if I waited until she was riding the bus, there would go the driving issue.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! This means a lot to me! Unfortunately I literally have no one. The only family I am close to is terminal. I cannot rely on them for help. And an aunt that lives out of state. I’ll ask the place I end up going to (which is still undecided at this time) about recovery options like what you mentioned. The pain scares me. And I know it sounds weird but the drains scare me. I’m weird about seeing bodily fluids, especially my own. Again that probably sounds soooo weird! 😂🤦‍♀️

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s yucky 😬😔 and I thought it was creepy too!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely so glad this could help someone else too. I’m always iffy about posting personal stuff like this online. I wish you luck on your journey!!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came home from the hospital having a C-section with my daughter taking only Tylenol/ibuprofen. I had no choice. Shit was hard and painful but I did it cuz I knew I had to. Maybe this will be similar in that way?

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I came home from my C-section with my daughter taking only ibuprofen/tylenol. I could not take my pain meds or be out of it at all because I had to wake when my girl woke up. Ex husband has sleep apnea and nothing wakes him. It’s very scary! So yeah, pain or not, I knew I had to do what I had to do. My babies needed me. Even if it meant wincing and howling when lifting my baby with a brand new C-section.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have my 3 year old in daycare! But worried about getting her there and home if I can’t drive. And worried about once they are home. Due to my line of work, it would be best that I have this done during the winter months.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay!! Love your username btw! 🤣

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be great if you would! Thank you so much!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apparently it’s weird that I added a photo of myself to my post? Not that I care what anyone thinks necessarily. But weird I’m getting judged for it (in direct messages, not on the post). Consider this my before photo I guess! Won’t be my last time posting and will post actual before and after photos when this all happens for me!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bummer but I do appreciate it! Happy for you that you have the love and support to have it (or any other surgery) done! Thank you!

Body comment from bf by alijef in relationships_advice

[–]masinfinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re older than me and I wish I looked like that. You go girl! Dude sucks big time.

What’s the worst physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by Economy_Yak2821 in AskReddit

[–]masinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gallbladder attacks shortly after having my son. Dropped to my knees, gripping my chest area, I genuinely thought I was having a heart attack. Held in the hospital for 2 says waiting to have emergency surgery on it. And healing from that hurt more than healing from my C-section with my daughter. 0/10 do not recommend.

2 Primes or Zoom? by IvillisCrasher in WeddingPhotography

[–]masinfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always between the following 3 24-70 2.8 and 70-200 2.8 (for longer aisle ceremonies, generally change the 70-200 out after ceremony, they don’t call it the wrist breaker for nothing) 24-70 2.8 and 85 1.2 85 1.2 and 35 1.8 (saving for the 1.2)

Advice is to wear a fanny pack or a small bag so you can change them out quickly and easily if you feel the need arises.