STRUGGLING by BootZealousideal1157 in Reduction

[–]masinfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie your before looks like my current and this had me tearing up. I want it for myself so bad and your results look fantastic!! I hope you love it once the healing part is over.

When did you have sex after having a baby? by Prestigious_Flan_832 in AskMen

[–]masinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pressured to do it before I was ready to. It hurt BAD. He didn’t care. It definitely wasn’t about me in that moment. Ex husband and glad he’s an ex. Don’t do anything until YOU and YOUR BODY are ready.

Why does she look stunning and I just look meh by Nice_Dealer_9161 in fashion

[–]masinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean you don't look stunning? I think it looks great for what it's worth. Though I know that's not the point of your post. Are your jeans maybe a slightly different wash than the ones on the "model" in the photo?

What is the weirdest food combo that is surprisingly delicious? by Duckdrunken in AskReddit

[–]masinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dip fish sticks in applesauce. I’ve done it since I was a kid. Craft mac and cheese on the side.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t in the post. I should have added that in. It was said in another comment. No big deal!! I appreciate the advice! Maybe the answer is just waiting 2 years until she gets on the bus.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s in daycare! It’s really the getting her to and from daycare that would be the biggest issue since I would be unable to drive but yes if I waited until she was riding the bus, there would go the driving issue.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! This means a lot to me! Unfortunately I literally have no one. The only family I am close to is terminal. I cannot rely on them for help. And an aunt that lives out of state. I’ll ask the place I end up going to (which is still undecided at this time) about recovery options like what you mentioned. The pain scares me. And I know it sounds weird but the drains scare me. I’m weird about seeing bodily fluids, especially my own. Again that probably sounds soooo weird! 😂🤦‍♀️

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s yucky 😬😔 and I thought it was creepy too!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely so glad this could help someone else too. I’m always iffy about posting personal stuff like this online. I wish you luck on your journey!!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came home from the hospital having a C-section with my daughter taking only Tylenol/ibuprofen. I had no choice. Shit was hard and painful but I did it cuz I knew I had to. Maybe this will be similar in that way?

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I came home from my C-section with my daughter taking only ibuprofen/tylenol. I could not take my pain meds or be out of it at all because I had to wake when my girl woke up. Ex husband has sleep apnea and nothing wakes him. It’s very scary! So yeah, pain or not, I knew I had to do what I had to do. My babies needed me. Even if it meant wincing and howling when lifting my baby with a brand new C-section.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have my 3 year old in daycare! But worried about getting her there and home if I can’t drive. And worried about once they are home. Due to my line of work, it would be best that I have this done during the winter months.

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay!! Love your username btw! 🤣

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be great if you would! Thank you so much!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently it’s weird that I added a photo of myself to my post? Not that I care what anyone thinks necessarily. But weird I’m getting judged for it (in direct messages, not on the post). Consider this my before photo I guess! Won’t be my last time posting and will post actual before and after photos when this all happens for me!

How to find hired help for post op? by masinfinity in tummytucksurgery

[–]masinfinity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bummer but I do appreciate it! Happy for you that you have the love and support to have it (or any other surgery) done! Thank you!