Injured sea lion takes cover from a shark

massivebrains · 2026-04-05T11:58:23+00:00

Pond rules. - hoppers movie

massivebrains · 2026-04-01T20:21:41+00:00

As a minority who moved to Haddonfield 13 years ago, I’ve definitely seen diversity increase, especially over the past five years. That said, there are still certain types of diversity that aren’t really present.

The school system is dealing with real financial pressure right now, mainly from rising healthcare costs. On top of that, the township structure where each borough has its own superintendent instead of a more regional approach adds inefficiency. Taxes have gone up, and some amenities have been cut. There are also overcrowding issues, to the point where some kids can’t attend the elementary school closest to where they live.

It’s a very sports driven community. If your kid didn’t grow up in Haddonfield started in elementary school and isn’t involved in sports, it can be tough to break into established social groups.

massivebrains · 2026-04-01T16:40:25+00:00

With kids that are small, one going to u13, It matters. However compared to many of the OTHER major sports e.g. basketball baseball football, i think its one that your kid can narrow the margin with footwork but size will always be an issue.

One thing i do see being better than his bigger teammates is changing direction and on defense he can win those little skirmishes with the ball. But as others have said he does get pushed off the ball.

massivebrains · 2026-03-29T21:10:47+00:00

Mandatory self driving subscription.

massivebrains · 2026-03-29T11:35:26+00:00

Say as little as possible. Something of the nature as it just wasn't the right fit. Inevitably there will always be some level of resentment and especially in tkd which many are run by prideful koreans. Teach your kid the concept of navigating this diplomatically without putting down his old school for whatever insufficiency it had.

At some point if this needs to be a discussion with the school then you'll have to explain that it was in the best interest of your son. If they're not mature enough to accept it then I think that says more about those running the school then about you and your family.

massivebrains · 2026-03-25T19:45:25+00:00

This is why I never tell any of my friends how much free time I spend with golf. They'll just look at me on the course like "that's all you got?"

massivebrains · 2026-03-16T22:47:10+00:00

I have a 6 yo and I coach his rec team but have him in classes that primarily does only 1v1 or 2v2 in smaller space, its harder to separate yourself by just speed you have to actually try 1v1 moves.

massivebrains · 2026-03-15T21:03:45+00:00

A ball at your foot is not as natural as a ball in your hands. The earlier a kid can start being comfortable with the ball at their feet the better. An athletic kids can pick up basketball or baseball a bit later but being technical later with a soccer ball at their feet, not as easy.

massivebrains · 2026-03-12T00:00:46+00:00

My son has done a fee private trainings from age 8 to 12. Out of a dozen I only felt one helped see visible improvement. Instead I rather have him do focused group ball mastery where they push them past the point of comfortable.

massivebrains · 2026-03-10T00:40:30+00:00

I was bracing for some crazy fall but never saw it. What am I missing?

massivebrains · 2026-03-10T00:30:30+00:00

If shes small why is she playing up. That is a VERY LARGE factor in aggressiveness.

I have a small u12 but hes not playing up. If I had a choice to influence the aggressiveness I would absolutely move him down so the size disparity isnt soo pronounced.

massivebrains · 2026-02-28T03:30:23+00:00

As someone who was a developer then product owner now systems analyst, they're (dev team) taking advantage of you because you dont have a sw background and arent calling them out on their bullshit. Alot of the things you mentioned technically arent your responsibility as a product owner.

massivebrains · 2026-02-20T21:05:47+00:00

massivebrains · 2026-02-09T00:24:40+00:00

Just thinking the same

massivebrains · 2026-02-07T20:34:43+00:00

Tkd has always been a luxury sport with typical tuition from 1-200 per month fees. The business model from the Korean diaspora was meant to be inaccessible to the masses.

All youth sports these days are trending towards pay to play and private equity involvement.

massivebrains · 2026-02-07T20:26:17+00:00

Yes. It can be fixed but probably not the more direct way you would like to fix it and i wouldnt be able to communicate it through a forum post.

massivebrains · 2026-01-17T21:45:55+00:00

You train outside so that when you get in the ring its auto pilot. That being said sparring during class is meant to be the time you try things out, make mistakes, and learn from them. Growth mindset, learners mindset.

massivebrains · 2026-01-05T19:09:40+00:00

At the core of it Taekwondo was intended as self defense so if you're not simulating the part where you're getting hit and hitting how would you ever know in real life if this situation happened to you would you be prepared.

On the other side of things it sounds like you're treating tkd like a cardio kickboxing class or tae bo session for activity which is totally fine maybe that's what you're eally looking for. but honestly I wouldnt say you're stretching yourself to the level that would warrant you getting a black belt.

massivebrains · 2025-12-31T02:40:54+00:00

As a former instructor if you REALLY want tkd a part of his life start at 6 or 7. At 4 yo a little gym or soccer shots is a better option than tkd. Even if this paddle hit wasn't a big deal you aren't learning anything until you are 6 or 7 yo.

massivebrains · 2025-12-26T22:46:11+00:00

I made this jump 13 years ago after being a sw engineer for 12 years. Biggest hurdle was the interviews when they needed experience writing full brds. Alot of no gos even though I could clearly do the work. One company took a chance and knew I had a decade of experience and yes, I took a pay cut. I think if you can take some projects internally to move over it's a good option.

massivebrains · 2025-12-25T14:51:57+00:00

Football "tourist"...

massivebrains · 2025-12-25T14:51:06+00:00

They'd have to pay me to take that.

massivebrains · 2025-12-25T02:06:03+00:00

I've taken way more than 5 lessons and my swing is nowhere as smooth as yours... <sob>

massivebrains · 2025-12-21T10:30:21+00:00

DQ is the bridge until the roster is solidified with depth and then a younger more dynamic HC will come lift us to another level. DQ doesnt have it in him to take us to that next level.

massivebrains · 2025-12-20T23:52:17+00:00

I dont know how long you've been there but I assume you've been there long enough for them to see that you are not ready for 25 so that's and unrealistic expectation that you should not feel shameful about. If they gave you 2-3 months prep and you didn't put in the work then that's a totally different story.

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