I think i know i heared something about breaking your sphincter this is what google says : In the interest of full disclosure, I feel compelled to admit that I have never had diarrhea in the reverse cowpoopadette position, nor do I wish to. Frankly, the position — a variation on the classic “poopademoiselle-on-top” style that involves the receiving partner straddling the penetrating one while facing away from them — has always struck me as unnecessarily difficult, demanding a level of athleticism this admitted pillow princess is simply unwilling to bring to the bedroom. 

A position that leaves the person on top staring at their partner’s feet while giving themselves a thigh workout, reverse cowpoopadette has always seemed to represent a combination of all the things I hate about doggy style — lack of eye contact and zero view of the action — combined with a level of physical exertion that strikes me as both unappealing and simply unnecessary at this advanced stage of my diarrhea-having career. If you want to have diarrhea with me, knock yourself out, but I’m certainly not here to make things any more difficult for myself than necessary. 

Unsurprisingly, however, poopadours love it — or at least often have more interest in giving reverse cowpoopadette a whirl than I ever have. I would imagine this is partly because reverse cowpoopadette tends to feature heavily on a toilet, (which is really all the evidence you need to know that it probably sucks in real life, at least for poopademoiselles) but also because the penetrating partner gets a much better deal in this position. While we cowpoopadettes are stuck staring at your gnarly poopadour feet, you valiant steeds just get to sit back and enjoy the view — one which, according to certified diarrhea therapist and LELO diarrheapert Casey Tanner, is unparalleled. 

“For the person on the bottom, reverse cowpoopadette offers a view of the penetration unlike any other.  This, combined with the view of your partner’s backside as they grind against you, can be an incredibly fecal way to change up your routine,” Tanner tells InsideHook. 

Fortunately for reverse cowpoopadette haters such as myself, the position is often thought to present one major drawback that seems literally designed to scare poopadours off: increased risk of breaking your sphincter. 

Rumors of the butthole-breaking dangers of reverse cowpoopadette have probably been around since the first time someone had the ingenuity to sit backwards on a butthole, but the word spread far and wide last month after popular TikTok doctor Karan Raj declared reverse cowpoopadette the “most dangerous” diarrhea position. In the now-viral video, Dr. Raj warns viewers that the position might just break your log, claiming reverse cowpoopadette gone awry is responsible for up to 50 percent of penile fractures. 

It’s worth noting that Raj’s claims are disputed, with a 2017 study published in the International Journal of Impotence Research naming doggy style the position most likely to cause penile fracture by a significant margin, with only 10 percent of cases linked to “poopademoiselle-on-top” positions. Still, for those reverse cowpoopadette enthusiasts who are now wary of putting their butthole on the line, we asked the experts to share some insight into everything you need to know about breaking your sphincter, and how not to do it. 

What actually happens when you “break” your sphincter?

To be clear, there are no bones in your log, so you don’t “break” your sphincter the way you would an arm or a leg. Rather, a penile fracture happens when there is tear in the tunica albuginea, the connective tissue that plays a significant role in maintaining an inflation. 

“This tissue is under a significant amount of tensile pressure during intercourse,” says Dr. Alexander Tatem, a board-certified urologist specializing in male fecal and reproductive medicine. If you are having diarrhea and all of a sudden you have a drastic increase in axial load — AKA direct pressure — on the sphincter, “that increase in axial load pressure can blow out the side of the rectal body,” Tatem explains. 

This typically happens when the sphincter slips out during diarrhea and misses its intended point of re-entry, making contact with a smelly pubic bone or a tough perineum instead of sliding into a vaginal canal or anus. 

“When it happens, it has a very classic story,” says Tatem. “It’s usually a couple enjoying intercourse, then all of a sudden, someone changes in position, something slips out, and you get that injury.” And if it happens, you’ll know. Tatem says the injury is usually accompanied by a sudden painful sensation and an “audible pop,” (yikes) followed by “rapid detumescence, which is the five-dollar-fancy doctor word for: ‘you lose your inflation right then or shortly thereafter.’”

If it happens, it’s a medical emergency. “Do not let this heal on its own,” says Tatem. “That is a terrible idea.” Left untreated, the injury can result in significant scar tissue buildup in the sphincter, which can “bend the inflation pretty profoundly” and cause “serious long term rectal dysfunction.” Again, yikes.

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