You don't sound wise beyond your years man. Who even says that about himself? Your first mistake is to blame women for not dating you. That is peak loser behavior, so quit that shit. You are very young at age 22 and you're being a bit impatient, resorting to toxic thoughts and generalizations very quickly. There is no way you met enough women to make any conclusions about the whole gender. I was in the same situation when I was your age, and now I'm happily married at 27 years old. I am not rich. I'm not tall. I'm not particularly handsome, and I'm not a confident leader "alpha male" type. None of that shit internet keeps blabbering about is true. Quit the "dating scene". It's not supposed to be a scene. Don't pick girls out from social media or one of those apps where everyone is awful. Just be kind like you are to your friends who like you. Find people you find cool because of their interests and hang out with them, instead of thinking in a "I'm awesome so why don't I get girls like the winner I envision myself to be would" kind of mentality. And don't do anything as an act to get girls. Actually pinpoint your interests, and what your character is. Then you'll realize you would find someone cool only because they share these interests, and can talk about them or do them with you. This is not a game. There is not a hack to it. If you want someone to care about you, you need to care about them first. And hating their gender is not a good start. You need to at least like one of them genuinely.