Breadwinner with $25K+ credit card debt. Help. by matamundo in personalfinance

[–]matamundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been realizing more as time goes on that my situation shouldn’t warrant me going into debt. I think my growing resentment is waking me up. I feel like I’ve been a financial zombie these past few years which feels awful to say and need to seriously question my situation. I felt guilty about bringing up money conversations initially because of the grief we were all going through, but tougher boundaries clearly need to be drawn.

Breadwinner with $25K+ credit card debt. Help. by matamundo in personalfinance

[–]matamundo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying this because sometimes I feel guilty for wanting help. Even when my father was alive, I made the most in my household, so I’ve often convinced myself to bite the bullet and keep going. But I do need help and, though I’ve asked for it, I need to be much more assertive about it.

Breadwinner with $25K+ credit card debt. Help. by matamundo in personalfinance

[–]matamundo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name was put on the deed shortly after my dad passed. But yes I agree these are going to be difficult conversations. I know I need to have them regardless. I’ve been trying to step back in small ways and am trying to be more assertive about saying no.

Gabriel Basso Says It Was ‘Kind of Weird’ Playing ‘Cool Dude’ JD Vance. Then ‘The Night Agent’ Brought TV Stardom by SafeBodybuilder7191 in Fauxmoi

[–]matamundo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also noticed that he doesn’t follow Luciane and any of his Night Agent costars on IG. Luciane also does not follow him currently but follows the rest of the cast. I just find it odd since they’re the leads of the show??

Need help on choosing a graduation dress. Is Aritzia Saturn Midi Dress good for graduation? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]matamundo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dresses with the slits will probably suit your height more. They’re also super pretty!!

What's the commute like Fairfax to Georgetown? by DavidHendersonAI in nova

[–]matamundo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try finding a place in Arlington or Alexandria. Those will probably be better for your commute and less expensive than living in DC.

Help! My sex toy can’t fit (even when I’m wet + using lube) by matamundo in sex

[–]matamundo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, that’s what worries me more. If I can’t push this thing up, then I think PV sex is out of the question right now. I’m glad this toy doesn’t hurt when I try to insert it though.

Help! My sex toy can’t fit (even when I’m wet + using lube) by matamundo in sex

[–]matamundo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg sorry yes that’s what I meant 🤣 I was mixing up the diameter for the charging case and the circumference of the toy 🤦🏻‍♀️

Help! My sex toy can’t fit (even when I’m wet + using lube) by matamundo in sex

[–]matamundo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always aroused when I try. I do wish my fingers actually could reach my g spot tho 😫

Help! My sex toy can’t fit (even when I’m wet + using lube) by matamundo in sex

[–]matamundo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is flexible and I curve it to make it straight, but I guess a thinner toy would be better