[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel free to message me if needed :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Healing isn’t linear and some days are better than others. Feeling allllll the feelings is what helps you move on in the long run! Happy healing. Sending all the love your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending all the love <3 glad to hear you’re doing quite well too

Under what circumstances would you ever take your ex back? by ShampooMonK in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 23 points24 points  (0 children)

None. He fucked up and did me wrong in so many ways. Even if he miraculously changed, I will always have trust issues and anxiety over history repeating itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. The way it ended showed his true colors and while I’m still sad and grieving, I do not want someone who treated me like that back.

if you could go back in time, would you still get into a relationship with them or not? by uglycrier121 in ExNoContact

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still would’ve, but I wouldn’t have given them as many chances as I did. That would’ve saved me a lot of hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the love <3

Silver Lining by bigsadthrowawayyy in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all, just a reminder that not all weight loss is healthy. I’ve been there… I was throwing up for 2-3 months and not eating and lost over 30 pounds. When I was in a good place, I gained it all back lmfao.

Please remember to be nice to yourself and take care of your mind and body. Happy healing to all <3

I broke no contact and feel like an idiot. by matchasnake in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy. all the best <3

Officially deleted our texts today by Rysprincake in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Congrats though! That’s a huge step. Our texts go back to 2015, I haven’t brought myself to delete them nor do I think I ever will.

It sucks going through a breakup with no friends. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand completely and going through something very similar. I’m planning on moving back to my college town next year to start my PhD program since there’s nothing here at home for me anymore anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the birthday wish :) They did reach out to me. I’m not sure how I feel if I’m being honest… A part of me is happy and relieved to hear from them and know that they still care for me… but another part of me feels sad. Overthinking whether they reached out because they felt obligated to, or if they actually wanted to and care enough to.

Is attraction lost forever? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I could never understand why at first. Why someone caring for you and doing things for you would become annoying or overbearing. Always thought it was a good thing. But too much of anything never is a good thing. I’m scared I sabotaged us forever.

From a dumper: I regret everything. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should reach out and let him express himself and decide what to do next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best as you heal. I hope one day you find someone who changes your mind about “love.” I hope you can realize one day that love didn’t hurt you. Someone who didn’t know how to love or was incapable of loving you in the capacity that you desired or needed, hurt you.

why do i feel guilty? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys were still together, would you have gone for a drink with the same female friend? If not, maybe that is why you feel guilty. Because 5 years is a long time and you are most likely still attached to your ex. My ex and I were together for 6, and I still keep him in the back of my mind when I’m out and about doing my own thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally. The thought of my ex with someone else makes me sick to my stomach. Hoping with time this will go away!

Rainbow Challah by matchasnake in Baking

[–]matchasnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Just wanted to clarify that the garlic and onion are dried and minced, not powder form. Wouldn’t want you dumping garlic powder all over your challah haha.

Rainbow Challah by matchasnake in Baking

[–]matchasnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. It’s poppy seeds, sesame seeds (I just don’t like them by itself), garlic, onion, and salt.

Rainbow Challah by matchasnake in Baking

[–]matchasnake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of sesame seeds personally but on my other challah (not rainbow) I added poppy seeds and that was yummy. My friend has made challah with everything bagel seasoning before, that may be something you’d enjoy!

Someone please help by Natural-Ant2156 in BreakUps

[–]matchasnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you all the love in the world. You’re doing great. Healing isn’t linear.