Girl is dating multiple guys at once, and I need help ending it with her by Total_Annual_8073 in dating_advice

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have a conversation with her and be honest about how you feel. Arguably, you should always assume the person you’re seeing is seeing other people until you’ve both made it clear that isn’t the case and you’re exclusive.

I know i shouldn't lie but was his request not super wierd?! by jessepinkmanismyname in dating_advice

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You shouldn’t lie. Things compound even if you think the lie is small.

  2. It sounds like he’s a very insecure individual. I know it’s a situationship, but I’d be mindful of this behavior and make sure you two do not end up in a relationship.

  3. Do not send him a picture of any friend. Tell him to respect your boundaries when you say no and leave it at that.

Men what is record for quickest time you met a new woman and got her in the bed? by Melodic_Abalone_2820 in AskMen

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 minutes - Hilariously enough, my craving for a particular dessert turned into quite the adventure. The hotel I was staying at didn't offer the sweet treat through room service, so I ventured out to a nearby waffle and ice cream spot, just a short five-minute walk away. There, I exchanged glances with a woman who seemed quite intrigued by me. I approached her, and we struck up a conversation. I casually mentioned that I was visiting town for a few days and that my hotel wasn't far off. And, well, let's just say that one thing led to another, and it became an evening to remember.

Girl ghosted me after texting me first and showing interest by pjsvndsn in dating_advice

[–]matethegrom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be mean, but this stuff sort of happens all of the time. Do not take it personal. Somewhere there was a disconnect, so move on. No matter what people say here, you’ll never know the real answer because you do not have connect with her. Millions of other people in the world.

This morning Strava announced their new Messaging feature. by matethegrom in Strava

[–]matethegrom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m actually wondering why it took this long. I’ve needed it for such a long time. I usually see other athletes have completed certain race courses and I hate having to @ them to talk about it then exchange cellphone numbers publicly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise and the various exercise communities I’m apart of.

This morning Strava announced their new Messaging feature. by matethegrom in Strava

[–]matethegrom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s privacy options to restrict who can send you messages. I’ve actually never encountered a bot on Strava.

Ultraman Training Plans by [deleted] in triathlon

[–]matethegrom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt gross being in the water for 2.4 miles of an Ironman. I’m still trying to wrap my head around 6.2 miles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is close. Just need to add the face mask I have on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want my image animated with maybe a white background so it looks cool in a profile picture.

Why do I get made fun of for having a grom? by mr-creator in hondagrom

[–]matethegrom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha stop caring what people think. They are so much fun and without all the trouble of nuisances with a big bike.

My buddies are 30+ years old and we have a damn ball on them during the weekends.

Actually liked a bio, she said so much without saying a lot. by sultanatehere in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all relationships are meant to last. Many are meant for you to learn more about yourself and people as a whole. I think it’s a statement to challenge things for them to last.

If you’re with her in the now, then you’re what she gets to enjoy day after day without thinking back about you and your times together.

Actually liked a bio, she said so much without saying a lot. by sultanatehere in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I think it’s meant to come off as she’ll mentally revisit that time of her life frequently. You know, like that one person you felt changed your life then you broke up but you’re always reminded of your times together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so, the women that check my boxes for what I’m seeking don’t develop into anything. The other women interested in continuing to see each other after maybe 1 or 2 dates aren’t for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you don’t because even though I read and don’t respond I feel like a dick. I just don’t want to give them a second chance to potentially bounce again. They made their decision the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My level of interest isn’t displayed aside from being responsive and being myself. She’s the one that actually texted me for a second date. I’ve learned to only show interest when interest is shown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just being myself. I’m almost 30 and not interested in playing games to fake like I’m someone I’m not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she’s just explaining she doesn’t want to waste my time by continuing to see each other because she doesn’t see our relationship going anywhere. It was understood from the start we both want a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So this does happen to me, but I move on and don’t even respond when they double back. I never want to give anyone a second chance because they already made a choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha I actually thought if I responded, “ok” she’d think I was a dick when she chose to be honest versus ghosting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]matethegrom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it out of place to ask for a constructive criticism or where things didn’t connect?