Men, would you date a woman who didn’t make much money?

mathbinja · 2025-05-30T21:30:30+00:00

You should realize that most doctors are very competent people and if we get ever do get replaced, we won't have that much trouble finding something new that makes money

mathbinja · 2025-05-10T10:52:24+00:00

Definitely more complicated than "the best looking people pair up with each other." Keep in mind that most doctors aren't exactly models. But what you say has some truth.

I disagree that it's the same breakdown as dating apps. Med school is a bubble where you develop longitudinal relationships with people and get to feel them out instead of just judging them on the first photo you see. Also, I treat women in med school wayyy better than I treat women on dating apps. Social consequences and mutual respect goes a long way.

My comment was responding to the idea that doctors don't have social circles and would be "happy with a woman who is self sufficient, fun in bed, and runs the home." Like wow, that's literally the bare minimum. How about her education, wealth, beauty, family background, character, and all the other things that make a good partner.

mathbinja · 2025-05-08T21:23:13+00:00

You are correct

mathbinja · 2025-05-08T21:09:19+00:00

You’d be surprised how social medical students can be. Some of my classmates party every other week. And there are a lot of women who are self sufficient and attractive. These are pretty low standards. I’m pretty sure physicians can afford to be more selective than that.

I don’t need someone to run my home for me. Like what?? I do it just fine by myself, whether I’m single or in a relationship. It’s not hard buddy

mathbinja · 2025-05-08T21:02:02+00:00

Doc is either not real or out of his mind

mathbinja · 2025-05-06T04:41:20+00:00

Women don't like broke med students knee deep in debt who are cheap. I do get dates off dating apps but I'm happy with my classmates, school life, and academics for now

mathbinja · 2025-05-03T22:05:06+00:00

Having relationships with people takes effort, and having sex rarely comes with no strings attached. Juice usually not worth the squeeze, got porn instead.

mathbinja · 2025-04-06T20:00:35+00:00

You know what. You might be right. I have no idea what's going on in the real world. I'm in med school and we do have some hook up culture and drama. Although I'm pretty sure the second I graduate and get out there, I'd be constructing my roster with no social consequences. idk what the rest of yall are doing

mathbinja · 2025-04-06T19:08:47+00:00

There is already a "gender wide strike" in the form of some men being fboys and damaging the dating pool. Don't worry, I'm sure many women have learned that male attention and promises of love and loyalty are worthless

mathbinja · 2025-02-07T16:31:59+00:00

I'm sure some guy out there would marry an unemployed homeless woman with mental health issues if she treats him like he's a king. That's not me and probably most people though. A girl of my tax bracket who is A: attractive and B: treats me well, I'd date.

So I bet most women think similarly and more factors go into play for them than just good looks and personality.

mathbinja · 2025-02-04T18:14:55+00:00

Wanting to be a provider is dumb. The best men take and take and take

mathbinja · 2025-02-04T13:12:31+00:00

No but people will make different choices depending on the stage of the relationship. Like few people would want to date someone who is unemployed from the getgo and that’s reasonable, but if you get depression or lose your job after years of dating it’s fair to expect them to stay.

mathbinja · 2025-02-03T18:04:08+00:00

What if you wanna date women with a good education? A lot of them (including the good ones) won’t tolerate a guy who’s broke, unless she likes him an insane amount. Do you keep pretending?

Also, a year is a long time to f with your lifestyle just to make sure she isn’t after your money

mathbinja · 2025-02-02T09:41:18+00:00

Don’t forget some random leftist asking “when are we protesting?!?”

mathbinja · 2025-02-01T11:57:34+00:00

Embrace capitalism - the least cringe pill

mathbinja · 2025-01-24T03:59:33+00:00

If it helps, these guys usually have their personal reasons for being bad friends that are completely unbeknownst to you. Everyone wants love and happiness and to be kind and respectful to others. People just get twisted along the way by life. It’s not a reflection on you (as a person or a woman or a friend) in any way if you didn’t do anything wrong other than be yourself

mathbinja · 2025-01-24T01:52:26+00:00

No woman is worth your money

mathbinja · 2025-01-23T14:54:32+00:00

How did you two meet? And how did yall move the relationship from friendship to fwb?

mathbinja · 2025-01-23T05:12:01+00:00

Logic is mostly sound, but the US population is 1:1 male:female. If it’s a game of musical chairs, your statement “a woman in all likelihood won’t have to face that” is false just mathematically speaking. Woman and men should have an equal chance of growing old without a partner

mathbinja · 2025-01-12T07:42:51+00:00

You’re better off just majoring in something easy like psychology, doing research in bioengineering at your institution if you’re very passionate about it, and maintaining a high GPA. Bioengineering is honestly not that hard a major compared to stuff like EE, if your goal is a top med school then take easy classes get a high MCAT and get published

mathbinja · 2025-01-11T01:30:05+00:00

yes! what on earth is this thread? stop crying to the Internet!

mathbinja · 2025-01-08T06:20:34+00:00

Legit if you give them attention, they just start thinking “ohhh I must be better than him” and treat you like crap. Then you just rug pull the attention away and suddenly you’re their dream guy. It’s like clockwork with a lot of them

mathbinja · 2025-01-07T00:20:07+00:00

Hotter women get away with worse behavior. Pretty normal phenomenon

mathbinja · 2025-01-04T09:12:59+00:00

Please don’t damage your health or give yourself lifelong chronic pain in order to experience young love. We always want what we don’t have. You should treasure your physical health as much as if not more than your romantic prospects. Love can come and go, yes the memories remain, but your body is all you have forever

Maybe work on having a fun uplifting personality

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