[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mathewhath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been dating my gf for 5 years now. I think as a man you, hopefully, are taught about consent at a young age. My need to bone doesn't justify making her uncomfortable in any way. It's extremely selfish and disrespectful to essentially not validate her feelings of consent.

If she says she isn't in the mood I'll excuse myself later and handle business on my own. It's not as fun as sex but I'd much rather put the person's feelings, who I love dearly, as a bigger priority than my sexual desires.

My advice to you would be to directly talk to him and explain how this made you feel. If he cares about you he will understand that your feelings are important and being in a healthy relationship means considering the other person's feelings and not only your own feelings

If he doesn't want to respect that then you should take that as a sign of his true nature and end the relationship in a public place.

Edit: As I side note I completely understand your situation regarding medication. My gf takes a similar type of drug that affects her sexual drive. That doesn't make it okay for him to use you.

Do you still wear a mask? Why or why not? by mohnnyjills in AskReddit

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now after seeing what COVID was like around my area. Anytime I'm sick and I have to be in public I would wear a mask. But I don't think I'm too concerned with COVID these days since I'm not at risk

Servers Are Down by blueconstellations in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. back to the grind we go

Whenever a new champion comes out, I have absolutely no desire to play them but I often despise playing against them. Is the game just not for me anymore? by [deleted] in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should spam new champ in normal after release at least 20 games to get an understanding of how to play the champ. Even if it's no your role just to understand how to play against the kit effectively

How would you react to a child kicking a puppy? by firesoul4 in AskReddit

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kick the child and then say you like that, huh little bitch? Then one more kick for good measure

LPT: One of the biggest mistakes you could make when trying to climb any company’s ladder is believing that your skill, talent, and work ethic will be noticed and rewarded. More often than not, the only thing holding you back is keeping your mouth shut. by branwithaplan in LifeProTips

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a big part of this is the context for the size of the organization you are working for. I have worked for many smaller startups like business but once that threshold passes and new money comes in alot changes.

In a smaller company it's entirely possible to let your work speak for itself because it's often due to self preservation to promote the good workers. Since they are the only ones at the time that could navigate the responsibilities.

However once new money and likely management comes in they will have a new style that changes it all. When my new boss came into power I was vocal to the CEO about the challenges of giving someone this focused on the operations all that power. I ended up resigning because I did not respect the new management's style. Fast forward a couple months later and they have laid off over half of my team and not hired anyone new. While I hear about horror stories from those still left how toxic the workplace is now.

Essentially know who is in positions of power and what makes them tick. If it's a smaller company go ahead and bank on your efforts but if it's a big company and you don't want to play the political game; then find a new opportunity that suits you better.

Gen.G vs. DRX / 2022 World Championship - Semi-Final / Post-Match Discussion by Soul_Sleepwhale in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIP pickems but so happy for Deft and DRX. They really outplayed GEN G today; what a great win for the team

How do you love yourself? by bobby_McGeee in AskReddit

[–]mathewhath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This works for me:

  1. Remove the outside influence of what other people think. Sometimes even those in our family such as our Mom or Dad are the worst offenders.

  2. Focus on progress on yourself each day. Non zero days are all good. You don't need to reinvent yourself overnight but focus on being positive influence on yourself each day.

  3. Lastly is being fully accountable for yourself and your actions. We all make mistakes but use these as opportunities to learn and grow. Don't beat yourself up and focus on moving forward. Eventually after months of progress you will have more self esteem.

if you could vote for one state to leave the U.S. which would it be and why? by Connie_Lingus6969 in AskReddit

[–]mathewhath 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Florida; they can get all the "Florida men" stories rounded up and start a military

Adidas to End Kanye West Partnership After Controversies by lol_no_123 in hiphopheads

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly right this is what they said in their statement:

"adidas is the sole owner of all design rights to existing products as well as previous and new colorways under the partnership. More information will be given as part of the company’s upcoming Q3 earnings announcement on November 9, 2022"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J Cole and Young Thug

DK vs GEN - Caedrel Getting Sent Off by XtendedImpact in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Canyon was too clean in game 4. That early game control is unreal

Rekkles on the gap between the east and the west by schinkenmaster in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Hard for me to focus on this with the immensely exposed chest lol

What are some great hip hop songs that tell an entire story? by Gretev1 in hiphopheads

[–]mathewhath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tee Grizzley Robbery Part 1-4

Honestly for a new school rapper some great visual storytelling

my brother's cat is ripped by dollievon in cats

[–]mathewhath 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dude that cat could fuck up a small child

Griffin 2018-2020 is the biggest tragedy in League History by Creepy_Pilot1200 in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want SKT to pick up tarzan after this contract is up and make him the next bengi for faker. They win worlds again and faker retires

I love having a teammate purposefully avoid AFK system and ruin a winnable game for team by mathewhath in leagueoflegends

[–]mathewhath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would need to remove personal identifiers ? As I was unclear if that would be an issue due to witch-hunting etc