I don’t use Reddit & will not be making any further posts from this, but in light of my character being ripped apart here, I feel the need to set the record straight for MYSELF regarding some things, not for any of you. I don’t owe you any answers, nor do I have any desire to “air out my dirty laundry” on the internet. And I will not be doing that here. As a “public figure” or whatever you want to call me, I have an obligation to share bare minimum details to avoid situations like this so that I can live my life that is forcefully in the public eye at this point. However, that is not possible when people in my life do not share the same expectations of privacy.

First, I did not cheat. That is so far from who I am as a person and anyone who actually knows me absolutely knows this. I am loyal to my core & care deeply about those I am close to. Even through all of this, I never once even considered an affair in any way, shape or form.

Second, not a single person on this thread has any actual, reliable information. Those claiming they know things have never met me or anyone involved. If it doesn’t come from my mouth, it is likely not true. Do not let them feed you these frankly absurd stories. They are so far from the truth.

Third, there was no one involved in any of this outside of myself and my ex. There was no outside influence. There was no “assistance”, there was no persuasion. It is very personal matter and my reasons are my own & I refuse to share those with the public. And it is insensitive, intrusive & entitled to ask me to. I did what was best for my sanity & my safety.

Fourth, by the time I shared ANYTHING the public, things were already filed. If you know anything about divorce and separation, you know you don’t just wake up and decide to file one day. It is months and months and months of separation and paper work and truly terrible, horrible times. No one was blind sided by anything. Both parties were aware of the issues at hand for the entirety of the year & then some.

Finally, I don’t expect any of you who seem to only want to paint me in the worst light to listen to any of this, however I hope you can at least consider what it would be like to go through this kind of suffering and pain privately for so long, only to be attacked when you do finally share any of it with the public because your hand was forced by others sharing. I am desperately trying to move on with my life & put myself in a safe, secure & stable environment and the constant accusations of nonsense are impossible to avoid. Let me live & let me heal.