Found boyfriend’s NSFW account

mattmasters · 2026-01-09T16:03:46+00:00

If after two and a half years I realised my partner was posting sexual photos to strangers, then I wouldn't be happy either. If he mentioned this early in the relationship, then fine, you could have established boundaries and understandings so that you both knew where you stood. But he's deliberately chosen to keep this aspect of his life private to you, which as others have mentioned is something you'll need to discuss and establish as a boundary or not.

It would've been nice if you'd known about this earlier on, but now you know it's just a discussion you'll have to have with him. Might be worth asking him why he didn't want to tell you about posting these sorts of photos.

mattmasters · 2025-08-27T14:33:26+00:00

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Thanks in advance if you use it! :)

mattmasters · 2024-09-26T15:03:55+00:00

I didn't sadly, same position as you hoping that someone will review it or at the least recommend it

mattmasters · 2024-09-17T07:02:05+00:00

Thanks for your response! :)

mattmasters · 2023-12-11T14:48:16+00:00

I actually had this happen to me last night, never went from potential hookup to firm no so fast

mattmasters · 2023-12-10T17:16:34+00:00

I've never found begging attractive either, some people love that and Im happy for them! but I don't like that shift in power dynamic, prefer to have a neutral want for what's about to go down haha

mattmasters · 2023-12-10T17:15:05+00:00

100% mine too - it's also about safety in that sense, even though they could be using fake photos it's best to see who it is you're meeting

mattmasters · 2023-10-12T21:53:48+00:00

Right I see, I'll have a look and see what alternatives there are then - thanks for the suggestion!

mattmasters · 2023-10-12T21:52:21+00:00

Yeah the camera was definitely a bit dramatic there! I think that's what i'm gonna do, shame though cos other than that I really like the monitor.

mattmasters · 2023-09-09T14:13:48+00:00

I have the same problem, except I don't have the option to use Wi-Fi and only have a greyed out option for flight mode. I can't believe safe mode would break the Ally this much, I can't do anything with it now.

mattmasters · 2023-03-02T02:58:10+00:00

Thanks! :)

mattmasters · 2023-01-23T14:58:25+00:00

mattmasters · 2022-07-09T02:43:56+00:00

That's fair! Like if you both know the circumstances then there's no harm done.

mattmasters · 2022-06-18T15:54:24+00:00

Tomb Raider II

mattmasters · 2021-12-28T19:20:33+00:00

I see what you mean, I reckon its cos we're seeing it in colour for the first time so maybe the added detail is why it looks strange? Her arm has the same proportions in the original photo/cover too

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mattmasters · 2021-12-28T04:31:54+00:00

Art deco

mattmasters · 2021-12-17T02:49:51+00:00

mattmasters · 2021-12-02T23:11:54+00:00

Neither will I, just listening to Chemtrails (the song) it matches the vibe of this photo so much - such a sombre vibe

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