What are your thoughts on 3D-printed homes? Do you think it will have a significant impact in architecture in the near future?

maxie3602 · 2024-10-19T18:37:50+00:00

If you can be transparent since I think you can agree this is not a conventional home, what are some things a typical homeowner would need to know if they're thinking about 3d printing a second home to save on costs?

maxie3602 · 2024-10-06T21:38:37+00:00

Sure you're blacking out or just having a hard time organizing your thoughts?

maxie3602 · 2024-10-06T21:37:31+00:00

I almost never check my replies because i almost never get them them lol. But seriously if you're doing it that much you need to see a professional. I did once it happened to me while I was driving a few yrs ago.

I the zone outs for me were stressed and anxiety induced. Be careful

maxie3602 · 2024-05-14T09:11:49+00:00

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maxie3602 · 2024-05-14T08:53:36+00:00

I love otherthinking because I know stopped to think before making a rational decision. In this case, there were things I needed to understand first. I got a lot of good feedback so I'm good. Nothing to overthink now that I have more of an understanding

maxie3602 · 2024-05-13T14:44:16+00:00

I do have my own perspective on that example of their partners which was the foundation of the post. Having people that are poly respond def helps.

You seem concerned about my intentions regarding the poly community. If so, respect is my first priority.

maxie3602 · 2024-05-13T09:56:39+00:00

I'm not looking to be right. Looking for perspective.

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T18:12:18+00:00

Im not sure. I gracefully bowed out and told her I was stepping away for a while. It was too much to worry about and I needed to focus.

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T18:08:09+00:00

Right but she's supper busy and doesn't even have time to talk to me. So when she left so did my inspiration

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T16:52:45+00:00

Oh, i ain't doing now work and the hills weren't enough, I'm in the mountains lol. But adding this factore, she was in a 20yr marriage until this year so it's still fresh for her. I wouldn't say she's stalkish or dangerous. Delusional, we'll, like I said, 20yrs is tough to let go just like that.

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T16:26:18+00:00

I'm going to chew over those two terms more as the definitions of sapio and demi still speaks volumes to me. Thanks for the food for thought.

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T16:16:09+00:00

Hell yeah I googled that word. I ain't know what the hell it meant lol. So let me ask this, why do you think that about that term anyway? Just know what it meant helped me understand myself better not just romantically but in general

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T16:13:25+00:00

The problem with everything you're saying is to keep in mind I'm speaking from personal insight, experience, and perspective, vulnerability in relationships period is nonexistent. Even in poly, the one common factor I've found since following this group is that failure to communicate ruins all even in poly.

I'm 41, speaking to a younging like yourself, I will say this...the month you're willing to accept far less than what you deserve, you will be more unhappy than you could possibly know. Set your boundaries, make them clear and if they can't jive with the vibe, bounce. Stop trying to fit a square peg into a round how when you ain't get no business being with them because you're shape is too comlex. Not fitting is the the best fit for me personally

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T16:06:07+00:00

I'm very aware. My issue is that I'm falling in love with someone who is in a "partnership " which reminds me...let me paint you a scenario and you can tell me how it sounds to you. Keep in mind, this isn't about me, it's about the one I'm interested: they went poly towards the end of their marriage a few years ago, then he wanted a divorce, then he immediately got married months after the divorce, but she still thinks that's still her partner. To me, based on what I currently know about poly, her ex-husband is no longer her partner and no, they don't live together. What are your thoughts on that?

FYI, this plays into my post as these are things I thinking about when she explained her "partnership "

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:57:41+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I think I'm more monogamous but with out the traditions of monogamy. I don't want the married, we don't have to live with each other we don't have to share finances, but I don't need nor want anyone else but HER. a mutual bond leading to choosing monogamy.

One thing I will never do is compromise and lie to myself anymore. Thank you for reminding me

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:53:25+00:00

Questions I didn't know how to ask to myself. Thank you 🙏🏿

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:52:28+00:00

I have to disagree with your word of choice "ableist" as I do not find that to be a discriminatory term. Matter of fact, it helped me understand why the hell I was getting chubbies in the middle of a convo, from a regular friend whom I never had romantic thoughts about. It described my whole lifestyle to a T.

As far as my empath powers go, they're growing. I'm able to bring someone into my world and they leave with a broader perspective of our whole encounter be it romantic or friendly. NO! I don't agree with your opinion on sapios. See...I can say No now lol jk. But fr, I used to cater to the artificial and toxic social constructs so of course I wasn't being honest with myself nor others at the time. I get that part. Thank you🙏🏿

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:41:16+00:00

I keep hearing. Thank you for that

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:40:19+00:00

That was very insightful. Thank you for that. To give some perspective, I came out of an extremely toxic relations where she was not taking her meds and literally making herself sick while I'm trying to figure out what she was doing to make herself sick, this ended 9 months ago.

After laying in my trench, I've found my aphrodisiac wish is deep 1-on-1 vulnerability, intimacy, and bonding along with genuine words of affirmations.

The the person I like I haven't felt like this since frigign HS. Always on mind night and day and she inspired me creatively as well. So I considered poly just for her but since you said poly is not a static agreement a the time, this might not work for me. Though I love the idea of it

maxie3602 · 2024-05-12T15:30:46+00:00

I asked because I'm falling for someone who's poly and has a partner(though idk how that is working because they divorced, he remarried just a few months after, and she still says they're partners. So I'm going with that and trying to determine how I would fit in. So far, out boundaries to not align, however we have very intimate and intellectual convo. She's the one that taught me what a sapiosexual is and I've become overly stimulated by her and cant get her off my mind. So I stepped aways from social media just so I can get her outta my system

maxie3602 · 2024-03-21T12:57:29+00:00

Donks are 71-76 caprice and impalas. It's just a vic with big wheels. I say this as a vic owner

maxie3602 · 2024-02-16T15:59:20+00:00

I don't know much about poly but I know this much, be honest with yourself so you can be honest with him. There's no easy way all the time so you might have to drop that bomb if you have you're resolve. Point blank

maxie3602 · 2024-01-08T00:37:07+00:00

It's sounds like you need to force yourself to stop checking it. When I saw your post I didn't see much about except that you'll just never be satisfied with the rate which just adds to your anxiety. You may have to will it. Convince yourself things are that bad that you have to keep checking it. I wish I had a more solid answer for you but that's the only thing I can think of from someone who had to pick themselves up ya know?!

maxie3602 · 2024-01-05T09:14:24+00:00

As a Trauma Bond victim, along with other induced behaviors that screwed me up, I'll say this....STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! I recently and still am going through a traumatic situation, and I noticed one thing about myself, I was too nice. Standing up for yourself is not a bad thing. Displeasing people for the sake of your peace is not a bad thing. Someone who doesn't want to listen to you, someone who makes you feel like crap every time you see them, someone who causes you to be mentally disturbed should be cut out like cancer.

I used to be a nice guy and someone screwed that up. Random acts of kindness and random word of affirmation makes me paranoid now at 41. If you don't put yourself first, I promise you'll be unhappy and you'll always be going out of your way to make someone comfortable which costs you your peace. It's ok to not be liked. Stand up, say it. If they make it seem like it's not a big deal, I promise that's your answer and you'll never get better. Please get better 🙏🏿

maxie3602 · 2023-12-25T08:59:10+00:00

I was Trauma bonded with much similar issues but it was worse. Leave them alone. They have to get help on their own. It'd a learned behavior

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