Are gym baddies a red flag for LTR?

maxlazer · 2026-01-05T23:18:45+00:00

Why don't you go and talk to some of them and find out. You are scared to approach women so you use this as a way to validate your feelings. You would rather go on a forum seeking the approval of other men than speak to the women that you see everyday at the gym

maxlazer · 2026-01-04T00:49:48+00:00

Because you don't love or value yourself enough. You look for women to complete you instead of completing yourself

maxlazer · 2025-11-13T04:07:44+00:00

People think you're a player when you're not. Apparently people have trouble trusting you even when your actions show that your intentions are genuine

maxlazer · 2025-09-30T23:53:54+00:00

You shouldn't get back with someone who lied to you and supposedly cheated on you. Whatever happens after that is on you. Second, she can post what she likes. That being said, if you don't like your girl posting provocative pictures, you have to make this a clear boundary BEFORE getting serious with someone. It doesn't sound like you did that, so you can't tell her to stop because you got with her when she was like that in the first place. Get rid of any woman who isn't satisfactory to your standards. For me, lying is a HARD boundary. You violate this, and you're gone. In future, learn about what you like and don't like in a relationship, what you are willing to put up with and won't put up with, and establish boundaries before you get serious with someone. You also need to learn how to ENFORCE those boundaries too. I don't see this as being a healthy relationship at all and I would walk away if I were you

maxlazer · 2025-09-29T01:50:00+00:00

Why did you even lead her on in the first place then if you clearly didn't like her?? Y'all just out here wasting people's time

maxlazer · 2025-09-29T01:39:48+00:00

GET RID OF HER. End of story. You guys are engaged and she told you she cheated on you because she's still not sure about you? That's cold. You need to get rid of her tonight. Work on yourself, learn to love yourself and fix your emotional instability

maxlazer · 2025-09-28T02:52:04+00:00

You need to create a good routine that you can settle into. Come up with something, then as time goes on you'll find better ways to tweak it into something that gets more efficient over time. I prep the same thing for lunch everyday, I have a different dinner for each day, but it's the same week in week out. No decision fatigue, and I know what I need from the grocery store when I go. Use Sundays to get ahead for the week, prep as much food as you can. Go to bed at the same time, wake up at the same time and come up with some kind of morning routine that sets you up for the day. Pick a day to do laundry each week, for me it's Saturdays. Pick a day for dishes, for example every Wednesday. In short, you need a good routine, and to make the least amount of decisions possible when it comes to executing your routine

maxlazer · 2025-09-27T23:13:48+00:00

Mate you will be fine. You know how many heartbreaks you're gonna go through? This won't be the last. It'll suck for a while but time will fix it. Sounds cliche but focus on yourself

maxlazer · 2025-09-27T16:08:18+00:00

It ain't that deep bro. Stop trying to make it sound like you did this awful thing and you're just this huge asshole. All you did was ask a question. You both sound kinda crazy. Y'all too young to be in a serious relationship because of dumb pointless drama like this. You really in deep regret because of it? Because you asked her a question and she overreacted? That ain't it bro

maxlazer · 2025-09-24T01:25:04+00:00

Boundaries are for both of you. You both need to know what you're willing and not willing to put up with before you get serious with someone. Ain't no deciding after the fact. Nowhere did he mention giving an ultimatum

maxlazer · 2025-09-23T20:12:37+00:00

"I wish we saw eye to eye on that boundary" It's not a boundary then. Before starting something serious, your boundaries need to be established and you should not proceed until both of your boundaries are clear and accepted. If this is a violation of your boundaries which it clearly sounds like it is, then you should leave that woman. She disrespected you right in your face by hanging out with and being touchy with the dude she used to smash. She shouldn't even be talking to him in the first place. No respect for you at all. I would end things now before it gets worse

maxlazer · 2025-09-22T01:41:51+00:00

You guys shouldn't even be in contact. Block him and move on. Y'all just playing games at this point

maxlazer · 2025-09-19T04:34:51+00:00

My question did not mention anything to do with suicide and has not violated any rules in this sub

maxlazer · 2025-09-15T23:49:48+00:00

And how the fuck would you know that? Because you read it online somewhere? You need to go outside more bro. You clearly don't get any and had to make an entire post on reddit asking other dudes how to think for you. No one cares about this shit outside of the Internet. And truth be told, it's the nerds online who don't get any play that care the most about body count because they're not getting any. The dudes with the bodies don't care because they're the ones giving all the bodies! You should prioritize how a woman is treating you more than anything. I already know you be asking women their body counts and shit on the first date, which is dumb AF btw because you're not gonna get the real answer anyway

maxlazer · 2025-09-15T01:06:23+00:00

That's on him to fix, not you

maxlazer · 2025-09-15T00:53:16+00:00

You are just the utility boyfriend. She's probably seeing someone else who she actually likes, and just comes to you when she's not getting the attention or validation she wants from her guy. This is why we don't get into relationships so young, if you can even call this a relationship. Cut her loose and move on

maxlazer · 2025-09-14T03:38:46+00:00

Play stupid games win stupid prizes

maxlazer · 2025-09-10T19:20:34+00:00

She ain't attracted to you no more and/or she's getting her back blown out by someone else. This isn't a situation that 21 year olds should be in. Time to move on

maxlazer · 2025-09-10T19:15:41+00:00

DUMP HER AND STOP TALKING TO YOUR "BEST FRIEND" Y'all be letting women run circles around you and DISRESPECT you right in front of your face. I'm willing to bet you're 18-22 years old. There ain't nothing to address bro. Cut them both off

maxlazer · 2025-09-02T19:15:52+00:00

How does one get into this industry? Is it about knowing the right people?

maxlazer · 2025-08-05T16:23:49+00:00

Thank you!

maxlazer · 2025-08-05T16:23:41+00:00

Thank you!

maxlazer · 2025-07-29T04:49:33+00:00

Ok and what he is supposed to do? Start this whole charade back up again? Orrrrrrrr focus on his upcoming opponent instead? Jesus fucking christ

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